What does it mean if the lover lives close to you but doesn t want to meet you?

If you don't want to meet, you may have done something that is worthy of you, and second, you may have begun to hate seeing you! You don't have much attraction to him! It's not enough for him to want to see you all the time!

If your lover lives close to each other and is not willing to meet, it means that he has a sense of resistance and does not want to further develop a relationship with you, and you may not have a future.

In fact, if you don't want to meet when you fall in love, it means that you don't like each other, if you really like each other, you want to see each other all the time, and you often play ** or send WeChat chats or the like.

Everyone has their own things in life, and some people who live under one roof will not be able to see each other every day.

Haha, these answers are all single, it depends on your specific situation. One is that she may not feel as good as before, that is, there is a problem in your relationship, and she doesn't want to see you, and the other is that it is possible that she thinks that it is not very good to see you more, and it makes sense to be beautiful from distance, remember, so this kind of thing is okay with feelings, and the specific situation depends on other performances.

First of all, make sure she's your girlfriend? Or is it just kidding?

There are three possibilities.

First, she is a person who likes freedom and space.

Second, she may have been hurt before, or she may be too insecure, afraid of being too intimate, and getting deeper and deeper into it, and eventually hurting a lot.

Third, you make her angry, she doesn't want to quarrel, but she wants to punish you a little.

I'm a girl, so I guess the second option is probably the biggest.

You can analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis.

Running away from you? It may not like you but don't want to hurt you, or it may be that there is something really going on.

Maybe he doesn't think he's beautiful enough lately, like a pimple, and he doesn't want you to see it.

Every woman wants to meet a beloved person and hold hands with her for a lifetime.

Relatively speaking, women "hate to marry," when they reach a certain age, they will always hope to meet someone they like and be with him forever, while men are not necessarily, their character is destined to want to be free, whenever the topic of marriage is discussed, they may also escape, and at this time you should understand his mind.

In fact, it's not that a man doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you, and what he says "not ready" or "wait a little longer" is just a perfect excuse to drag it out.

But if you really want to marry your man, his performance will be different, maybe the two will only get along for a while, and he will start to introduce you to relatives and friends in a hurry.

Whether a man wants to marry you or not, just look at the details of your relationship, really!

1. See if he is willing to make your relationship public.

If a man is not even willing to make your relationship public, then he must not love you enough, he may just treat you as a spare tire in his heart, maybe one day he meets a more suitable one, and he no longer needs you, and such a man will not want to marry you and will not give you the future you want.

If you understand this, it's better to stop the loss in time, don't fall deeper and deeper and make yourself sad.

2. See if he will take you to see your relatives and friends.

In fact, this is quite similar to open love, but there is a lack of search for relatives and Lu Tong, if he opens up your relationship in front of other people, but hides it in front of his relatives and friends, then there is still a problem.

In love, don't listen to what he says, but see what he does, don't want to marry your man, the attitude is obvious.

3. See if he is willing to pay for you.

A man who loves you and is willing to change himself for you, a man who loves you and is willing to pay for you.

Those men who always only think about themselves and never think about each other's feelings, they don't really want to be with you, all he wants is an obedient and sensible girlfriend who is completely obedient to him, and as for giving, let alone paying.

Maybe you have paid for him ten times, but he has not paid for you once, and he will feel that your contribution is taken for granted, and such a man does not really want to marry you.

You have to understand that if his heart is all about you, and he wants to be with you all the time, he must be willing to pay for you, whether it is money or other aspects, as long as you say it, he is willing to do it for you.

If you want to know if a man really wants to marry you, just look at these details.

Instead of listening to him say "I love you," it is better to look at his actual actions, if he really wants to be with you, he will naturally be eager to take you to meet your parents and meet his friends, he will tell others about your relationship in the future, and he is willing to change himself for you and work hard.

And if he just talks about it but never does anything, then you should also think carefully about whether this person is suitable for you at this time.

1. Taste the taste of a man other than her husband, after tasting it, but that's it, so I took care of it.

2. My husband used to be often absent, but now my husband is back.

From my girl's point of view, she has been subtly instilling in you that she has a bad relationship with her husband, and she doesn't want to live with her husband anymore, and even thinks about you often. It may be to make you feel that you have a chance, don't give up liking her, to put it bluntly, she enjoys the feeling of having a lot of people like her. I want you to be her spare tire, but I don't want to be separated from my husband, such an obvious thing, boys can't see through it.

Some girls often play like this.

She just treats you as a lover and doesn't want to be a lover. Don't crisis her now, the family will associate with you. Although her marriage may be a bit problematic.

It's just an ordinary friend, and it won't be the same as before.

Are you single? Maybe take into account your problem.

You can't give what others want, so why bother.

Take your time, put it away, and she'll miss you.

This can only show that the other party does not like you very much, if the other party really cares about you, no matter how far away it is, they will visit you, and they will also reply to your messages in seconds, and they care about your feelings very much.

This is obvious that he has an ineffable ingredient in it, depending on what you think, if he has his family, there is no need to entangle, if it is for other reasons, you can also ask it in private, but generally do not see each other for more than a year, there is still a problem.

That's definitely a cat, maybe it's a **. I don't know if I ask you to send money or transfer money one day.

I don't think it can be called love. But it's obvious that he's chasing you, and you're not rejecting him. There's a lot of room for continued development between you.

Friends and lovers are just a thin layer of paper. Of course, as a girl, you must be reserved. Even if you like him, you have to find a way to get him to say it first.

Right! How nice it feels to be chased! Hehe! ~0~

It's virtual!! It feels good though!! It's not called love!! It is caused by the emptiness of the heart!! Try to socialize with more friends!! This feeling will fade after a long time!!

This is not love, it is just a mutual affection, the key depends on how to develop in the future!

It's not called love, I've had it too. The result is sad

I guess I've had it, and it's a good feeling, but it's not necessarily realistic, and it's another thing to meet again.

It doesn't count... Ambiguous...

Ambiguity makes people feel wronged...

Do you have a regular boyfriend now? Sometimes what you say in a text message can't be said when you really meet, don't think about believing this feeling! It's okay if you want to pass the time and relieve your loneliness.

Between love and non-love, it belongs to Infernal Affairs -

It depends on the content of your text message.

It shows that this girl, it just regards you as an ideal object, but it always belongs to the virtual space, he doesn't want to meet you, mainly because he doesn't want to destroy you, and the image in his mind is what it means, because he is an idealist and perfectionist.

First of all, girls should like you, at least have a good impression, don't meet you one because of timidity, one because you are not confident enough in yourself, if you like it, give her more confidence and encouragement!

A girl chats with you every day, but she doesn't meet you, you can see that this girl still has a good impression of you, she doesn't meet you, that's because she doesn't know you for the time being, she wants to wait until she understands clearly, so she will refuse to meet you every time.

A girl chatting with you every day is not meeting you, which means that you have not touched the heart of the woman so far, and the girl still wants to know more about you, at present, she just knows you, and she needs to understand further, so the real reason why she does not meet you.

One is that girls are shy or insecure. Maybe you ask her out more to give her a sense of security.

You might just be able to meet. There is also the fact that you are not suitable for meeting each other, only for online chatting. She may have a boyfriend, or she is married, or she is Aquaman.

It's up to you to try it yourself. Maybe try and you'll understand.

It may be that she thinks that everyone is not familiar with each other to the point where they can meet in reality, or it may be that she is worried that everyone will be disappointed after they meet, so it is good for everyone to retain a little sense of mystery when the time comes, so it also seems that she is more reserved, so you should continue to work hard!

A girl who chats with you every day just doesn't meet you What does it mean Have you ever seen someone Is it a** If he's not a**, why don't you meet him Don't talk to him every day, I've been chatting for a long time, and I'm still a**.

I think there are two possibilities for a girl to chat with you every day but not to meet you, the first is to like you but have a lot of concerns and dare not meet, and the second is to chat with you because of loneliness, but she doesn't see you as the person she likes.

Maybe he doesn't have a strong impression of you, and thinks it's good to be a netizen. Or they don't trust you, and they don't want to meet you because they're a bad person. Or you are not confident in yourself, and you are afraid that you will not want to chat with her when you see a real person.

In fact, there are many possibilities, I provide two for your reference, one may be that the girl is more shy and can talk more openly on the Internet, but she is afraid of embarrassment when meeting in reality, and the other possibility is that the girl is slower to heat, and you have not guided the girl to untie her own defenses.

I'm afraid this person is not a girl or embarrassed to meet you, if I really love you and like you, I would have met you a long time ago, or it may be a ** pretending to be a girl and chatting with you.

You see that you still talk to you every day, but I don't meet you. Then 90% of you are being used as a spare tire, deliberately hanging you to keep you pursuing, sober up as soon as possible.

This girl chats with you every day, but she doesn't see you and may have her own concerns. You can get to know each other in the chat and then make your next decision.

It seems that the girl also has a good impression of you, but she may not know you very well, and wants to get acquainted with you through chat, and then wants to develop further, or see how you chase her.

I should want to know everything about you and money from the chat, so don't reveal too much to her during the chat, after all, it's just a netizen, and there are also people who have gone from chatting online to being a couple, good luck!

Is it considered an online dating, it may be that he is not confident enough in himself, or he may not like you so much, or he is a more introverted person. I was nervous at the thought of meeting, and I was a little afraid to meet netizens.

In fact, this girl is just looking for a friend to chat with, and it may be that you are not attractive enough. The art of attraction has not been mastered. Excuse me, if it's you.

A person of very low value, would you be willing to meet? Continue to be willing to chat is to help you as a spare tire in the observation of the situation, interpersonal communication is a strategy game, if you communicate in place, there will be a breakthrough, come on! Have fun!

There are several possibilities, one. You're the spare tire, two. She doesn't have self-confidence, three. She's ugly, four. She has her personal privacy when you're a friend to chat with, five. Get to know the tea picker on your own.

How so? In fact, she still has her own reasons, it may be that she herself has some things and worries that she can't let go, after all, everyone has their own privacy, since they can chat with you every day, it means that they still have a good impression of you, otherwise who would want to waste their time casually?

It's already obvious, isn't it? It's that you know the answer in your heart, this kind of girl is actually raising fish ponds to put it bluntly, don't chat, don't chat, don't chat. To put it bluntly, I won't let you touch her! You hit his fish pond and it blew up, what should I do?

It's not time yet, I feel that the relationship is not yet mature, and it is not yet time to meet! Girls don't really like you yet! She's not going to come to meet.

Netizen? The Internet is the Internet, the reality is the reality, it is possible that she separates the Internet from the reality, and chatting may be to have a companion and a friend to talk to.

But not necessarily, maybe she thinks it's too early to see her, she can't say.

It's just that you're not attractive enough. The art of attraction has not been mastered. Excuse me, if it's you. A person of very low value, would you be willing to meet? is also willing to chat is to help you as a spare tire to observe the situation.