Can two lovers still be friends if they are separated?

There are many kinds of relationships between people, and different relationships have different understandings of different issues. Ordinary friends, for friends, will only be used as entertainment, lovers, boyfriend and girlfriend will not be acceptable. Since both parties can become lovers, it is the result of further development on the basis of friends.

Even if you break up, it's just that the factor of being a lover doesn't exist, so the reason for the breakup during the lover period may no longer be a problem after being demoted to a friend. Therefore, a breakup does not mean a breakup. Of course, this also depends on the situation.

However, as long as you are clear that the reason for your breakup is not a matter of principle between the two parties, but only a conflict between lovers, I want to be friends again, it is no problem at all. After all, when lovers have been doing for a long time, love is also likely to turn into friendship.

If it is two people who love each other who have just separated, they can immediately become friends, which is simply impossible. Because you once loved, if you really become friends soon, it proves that neither of you really has to pay your feelings to manage this relationship. But if you have been separated for a long, long time and suddenly meet, although it is a little embarrassing, maybe you will sit down together and talk about life without each other!

Look at the reason for the breakup, what kind of person is with the other person, if it's the kind of person that everyone has a playful mentality at the beginning, you can be friends without thinking about it, and after the breakup, both parties have no feelings for each other, and you can also go back to the friendship relationship.

No, because we have loved each other, we can't be enemies, because we have hurt each other, we can only be the most familiar strangers.

Hehe, it mainly depends on the meaning of both sides. It's better not to do it, because if you do, it will be very uncomfortable and embarrassing to meet every day...

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1. You are really relieved of each other, and you have a very pleasant feeling in the process of getting along, but the underlying core is not satisfied, and the two people are not suitable.

This kind of incompatibility is often because two people are very similar. can understand what the other person desires, but there is no attraction caused by differences, so the previous mode of getting along with two people is similar to the role of friends, rather than getting along with each other in the mode of partners.

In this case, there is no problem in being friends. Because you became friends, you continued the previous mode of getting along, but you found a more suitable identity, and you no longer get along as lovers.

2. One of you owes something to the other and wants to compensate the other party as a friend.

In this case, it is not suitable to be friends. Because the real motivation of the party who wants to be friends is guilt, maybe they already have a partner, and the other party may not let go, and the one who leaves has also caused harm to the other party.

After a breakup, the relationship between friends is still a blurred sense of boundaries. I don't know my sense of boundaries, I don't take the initiative to cut off relationships, I want to play the role of a "good old man", and I don't want to feel guilty. But to be truly responsible for each other is to have their own futures and achieve happiness for each other, rather than continuing to break the thread.

3. I still love each other, so I want to approach each other in the name of friends.

This kind of situation can't be put down, still in love with each other, but afraid of the other party's rejection, so retreat to the second, in the name of a friend, not to disappear in the other party's world, and at the same time let yourself still have a fantasy.

In this case, both of you will be miserable and will not be able to truly be friends at all. Because lovers are lovers, not only to have the identity of lovers, but also to each other's future. So if you can't let go, what you need to do is to find the problems in the previous relationship, repair the relationship, re-establish the relationship, and get back together.

If you want to be friends after breaking up, then you will never forget it, and it is easy to rekindle the old love in the end. The breakup should be complete, and the departure should be chic, what do you think?

Even if you can become friends after a breakup, they are just friends, not even ordinary friends, let alone close friends.

I've been thinking about this question for a long time, and the answer I came to at that time was: no, and three years later, the answer I give is still no.

Why? Because the scars of the past, the hard work of the past, are difficult to write off, as we said"It's hard to recover when covered with water".。Therefore, even though the former lover continues to associate as friends, their relationship with each other is not as satisfying as in other friendships.

Because the intimacy of the past still haunts their minds, and those unpleasant memories have never been resolved, they have always been uneasy.

And when one party has a new relationship, the friendship often fades away. After allFor the incumbent, a qualified predecessor should be like dead. Although this sounds unpleasant and a bit extreme, it is not unreasonable.

The existence of the predecessor still has to keep his duty and not disturb the lives of others, which is the least reservation of his own dignity and the most basic respect for a relationship.

Lovers and friends can't be confused, and how can the vigor of a relationship be compared to the friendship between friends.

If you can still be friends after a breakup, it can only mean that in that former relationship, I only regarded you as a friend, and the people who can still be friends after a breakup are either two people who love very shallowly, or one person loves shallowly, and the other person loves very deeply.

Two people come to the fork in the road of separation, the distance between the two people will only get farther and farther, not to contact is the greatest blessing to both parties, there is such a lyric in "Gentleness", do not disturb is my last tenderness,Being friends is not a kind of open-mindedness, and it is not in vain to be able to do it without disturbing.

As special as the friendship after a breakup is, in general, as long as they last, the reasons for their rise and fall are no different from ordinary ones. OnlyThose who consistently provide value to each other are the ones who maintain a close friendship

Can't be friends anymore.

Just after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend for a month, he thought we were more suitable to be friends, and I thought so too, so we jointly decided to return to being friends. We also have a common circle of friends, playing in a circle. But that's where the real pain begins.

Since he is still in your WeChat circle of friends, Weibo, NetEase Cloud, Douyin and other accounts are still closed to each other, and you will associate yourself with any song and status of unknown meaning posted by him after the breakup. Every time you convince yourself that you have done a long time of psychological construction and determination to restart a new life, you are repeatedly recalled and missed. Your world just crumbles and repairs, rebuilds, and then collapses and repairs.

Even when it is serious, as long as we meet, I will be cranky because of his eyes and behavior.

I believe that people who have loved deeply cannot be friends. Because you can't control yourself from thinking about him, contacting him, wanting to know his every move, and caring about him at every moment. If you don't have another right person around you, it's fine for you to do it, but if there's another girl around you, he's very nice to you, but you've been thinking about your ex-girlfriend,When you can't strip yourself from this relationship at all, you will hurt the person who cares about you the most, likes you the most, and deserves your love the most, but you don't have love.

Only when you block all the ways will you feel like you are starting to let go and be free. Don't give each other any hope, just return to strangers. I may still like you, and I may still feel when I see you, but since we have chosen to separate and not go on, we should not give each other a chance to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Otherwise, continue to be lovers. Don't be involved in the name of friends, it's a responsibility to each other.

Love is actually like a puzzle. He is divided into many parts, such as meeting, acquaintance, embrace, warmth and parting, and parting sometimes does not make the puzzle complete, but rather completes the puzzle of love.

It depends on the reason for your breakup. If it is according to the normal procedure under the society, there will generally be no contact. Good for both sides.

But the decision on this issue is always you, only you know best how you want to do it, and other people's experience is always someone else's other

It's best not to break up, it's boring.

A qualified ex should be like hanging.

Can I still be friends after a breakup? I think this question varies from person to person, and there is no one standard answer, only the one that suits you best.

Theoretically, family, friendship and love can be transformed into each other under certain conditions, love is no longer friendship, and you can still be friends after breaking up. Because there are commonalities in the foundation of love and friendship, love is not in the bond between two people, and the problems that lead to the breakup will affect the two brothers and Zheng to become friends.

1. There is commonality in the foundation of love and friendship, love does not exist, and friendship will not exist.

Love and friendship are two different feelings, but there is a common foundation between them, that is, like-mindedness, mutual trust and respect. ......For the two people who broke up, there must have been some problems in terms of like-mindedness, mutual trust and mutual respect, so the basis for continued interaction between the two people does not exist. In such a state, it is impossible for two people to become friends.

2. When love does not exist, the bond between two people does not exist, and they cannot continue to be friends.

The bond that maintains love is affection. The relationship between two people is harmonious, so they will be cautious with each other and fall in love with each other. ......But when two people in love break up, the only emotional bond between the two people does not exist, and the two people cannot maintain a state of continuing to communicate, and the result can only be to go their separate ways.

Therefore, two people cannot become friends after a love breakup.

3. The problem that causes the lovers to break up will affect the continued relationship between the two parties, and it will also affect the two people to become friends.

For lovers who have broken up, the fundamental reason why two people break up is because of conflicts between each other. When this contradiction cannot be resolved, the relationship between two people will end in a breakup. Until the problem is resolved, the two people cannot reconcile or even continue to relationship.

Since it is impossible to even have normal interactions with each other, then two people cannot be friends at all. ......Therefore, it is impossible for two people to be friends after a breakup. Going their separate ways and no longer contacting each other is the final result between two people.

It's so difficult, it's okay to spank once in a while, but after meeting, you will feel embarrassed, extremely embarrassing! Be decisive when you break up, why can't you be boyfriend and girlfriend if you can be friends? Why break up?

See if you can let go, if you can't see it, you can be a best friend... If it's a screw, be a stranger, and whoever doesn't hold a grudge against anyone.

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

I've had your question in the past.

Here's my own.

Hope it can help the landlord.

If two people are serious, they are really in love

It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

If both of them are just having fun

You may also be friends after the breakup

You can't be friends because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, you can't be trapped because you have loved each other!

It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

What if two people become friends?

Look at the people you once loved

And now you don't love each other anymore

Now that you're friends, how do you get along with each other, how do you deal with it, and that might just remind you of your past.

It only hurts more

It's better to be a stranger

Let time fade everything that once was

Just let it be a rainbow in memory

I wish you happiness

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

If my own.

Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !!

If two people know that this love has no ending, and they also understand that the problem is **, in fact, they can be very good friends, they can care about each other, and it is not impossible to greet and chat like ordinary friends!

Because both people understand that the other party is not a suitable partner for them, they will not have other ideas, nor will they think about further relationships, but they are friends who know each other best.

In this case, when both parties are very rational and clear, it is actually better to be good friends!

However, if one party still can't let go, then it's best not to have too much contact, because then both parties will be embarrassed!