Don t let pain take over all your life, child

Happy every day! Look bearish!

are all sick, I wish you a happy future.

Be optimistic.

It feels like watching**, but ** is a happy ending, but you have such a miserable ending, what else do you have to say about this kind of scum, end with him happily, he doesn't deserve you to be sad for him! Just listen to what he says is not a man, how can a man be so irresponsible! For the sake of living a good life for himself, he will be angry to death when he sees your happy life in the future.

The child should not stay, it will make the child unable to raise his head in the future, and you have to reflect on yourself, don't follow the man in everything in the future, have your own point of view, look at the person on time and then bear the burden of body and mind! He can have no money, but he can't be sincere! Good luck, I hope you want to open a little, and your future life will be better, no one can live without anyone!

Make yourself strong!

You have to think about it, parents are indispensable guides in their children's growth. If there is a lack of a father or mother around you, it will leave a shadow on the child's psyche. At least in the child's heart, his home is incomplete, and the love he gets is also incomplete, which will cause weaknesses such as low self-esteem, introversion, and short temper, which will accompany and affect his life.

And what to do when others scold him for being a wild child? , and it's not easy for you to get married with a child, what if the stepfather doesn't like the child? What should I do if I bully this child?

When you have another child, how does that child deal with himself? And so on. You'd better think about it before deciding.

Although it feels bad, but you have to be responsible for him when you are born, if you don't think about it, it is recommended not to give birth, don't let the child come to this world is to suffer.

Your husband is dead, you love him so much, you are dedicated to the family system, and you trust him, but he doesn't know how to cherish it, but he hurts you.

hurt you, tell you how to face him, you gave everything to him, but he went to hug other women, who can forgive so easily. When you love deeply, the more you hate, the more painful, and the more unwilling you are. Because it's not worth it!

How can a man who doesn't know how to cherish be happy, so your current hatred and unwillingness are pain for you, and for him, isn't it his retribution? Self-inflicted. Without his wife's trust and love, what happiness can he have.

However, the wrong person is him after all, not you, you are loyal to your family, you have never betrayed, and you take good care of your family, you have a clear conscience. Therefore, you don't need to be sad, the one who should be sad is him. You don't have to make yourself so miserable, you don't need to.

You're miserable and not worth it. What are you doing wrong, why should you make yourself miserable? It doesn't matter if you see some things clearly, if you don't love them, the other party will know how to cherish them.

Sometimes, it is often they who are in pain and know that they are wrong, so they can turn back. So, look down on some feelings, learn to forgive, don't let pain, hate, occupy your heart, learn to come out. Let go, let go, let go calmly.

Some people are repeatedly taught, and if he can turn back once, it is good. Just forgive the child and forgive him, and you, too, you have to learn to be strong, independent, don't let feelings occupy all of you, women, don't have to live for feelings.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

Forget about those unpleasant losses, but in the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, as long as there is a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, it is impossible for you to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ...

Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss.

Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ... Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of TA again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, TA has become "that person".

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

Falling out of love is first and foremost a blessing, and then a misfortune.

Falling out of love proves that we have truly loved. If not. It doesn't matter if you're out of love.

You must know that in this world, there are many people who have never really loved each other in their lives. Compared to these people, we have earned an enviable point in life. Although later lost.

But our lives have been enriched by this. The feelings became deep. The temperament has become mature from this time.

Falling in love is a completed choice.

Broken love is faced with the choices that are coming. In the days to come, there is only one person who can connect with your heart. We can go back and say, "Thank you, I'm glad I fell out of love."

Don't be so sad, maybe the person who really gives us happiness is waiting in the near future.

The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to smile, smile, to yourself, to others, to each other, it is good for everyone.

I don't approve of those who scream and scold themselves when they are out of love, and feel that they are the most helpless people in the world;

I also don't appreciate those who abuse each other after falling out of love, saying that the other party is an imbecile without eyes.

These are all unwise and mindless people, you know, the blow of falling out of love is the same for both parties, which can only increase the unnecessary pain of yourself and the other party, and it will not solve anything at all.

See yourself clearly, understand others, go your own way, and don't be discouraged; Good luck to the other person and don't be resentful.

Don't be a bear, be a real person!

The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to forget.

Forget the joy and happiness in love, forget the loss and pain in love.

But don't force yourself to forget, the more you do, the easier it is to remember.

When you don't think about him anymore, you won't have any feelings like falling out of love.

At that time, you will face it calmly, when you think of her:

You'll sigh, "Oh, I used to love her." ”

Falling out of love proves that he (she) is not the person you really want to be with in this life, try to make yourself want to open some!

What is not always something will always be without.

Sometimes you can't chase something because it doesn't belong to you.

On the contrary, sometimes a very good thing will naturally come to you, because that's what you're doing!

Either way, I'm convinced!

Thank you!!! Thank you for helping me. He has a job, but he doesn't have much development, just a small security guard.

My family is a teacher for generations, the family background is still okay, I chatted with my dad and said that he was in love, what my dad said was similar to what you said, his house has to be repaid for 20 years, and he has to repay the mortgage of 1500 a month, and his salary is 2000If you have children, how difficult it is to live. That's what my dad said to me.

My dad was a very proud man, he was not a teacher but a businessman. Dad said that he had suffered hardships, and he must not let me suffer too. That's why my dad won't let me be with him.

Now my dad is sick again, his health is not good, a few years ago the doctor said that my dad will not live for 10 years, now it has been 6 years, I am very scared, in these six years my dad has been sick twice, to be honest I am very scared, it can be said that since I know that I am pregnant, I live in pain every day, and sometimes I have nightmares. I love that man so much and I want to have children of our own. A few days ago I said I was going to beat the child, my boyfriend cried very painfully, he said that he respected my decision and would not force me, he always wanted a child, his former girlfriend couldn't conceive, and then the woman left him, I was with me when I was ready to wait for the marriage to adopt, but I didn't expect to disturb the hail I actually made Yu Jing pregnant.

I'm really scared. It's painful.

I've found that many women are like this because their children choose not to divorce. Almost all girls in a girl's life, but a married woman is like this. It is normal to be soft-hearted and reluctant to have children.

But sometimes I don't feel the need to be wronged like this. You can bring your own children to life. We must make peace with him.

Now you can do what you want to do.

Don't divorce him and take the child away because the child has wronged him, and still live a decent life, a woman should be stronger, and there is no meaning at all in the life of a godly person, living in a painful marriage is a kind of torture, and a marriage without love is a sea of suffering.

From tomorrow onwards, live for yourself once, divorce without emotion and take care of your own children, if you suffer domestic violence, you must report to the police for evidence!

Why don't you dare to tell your family because your family didn't agree when you got married?

It doesn't matter, the family will definitely scold you, but they will protect you, even if they don't protect you, you will be scolded and let go.

It may be like parents giving too much for their children. I hope you find your inner world and get what you want now, and you can find a faith.

I don't know about yourself anymore.

Your pain should be great if you insist like this, and it is right to suffer for the sake of the child, and it is also our responsibility to raise the child. You should look for ways to change this suffering in such an environment.

Doesn't your husband love you?

Why is it so bitter?

What kind of person is he?

Does it make you so painful?

Jia Yingchun Si Qi, Embroidered Orange, Lotus Flower, Zhu'er's mother (nurse), Zhu's daughter-in-law, Wang Shanbao's (Siqi's grandmother).