Pain or no pain, which do you choose?。。。。

Anyone will have a time of pain, inevitably!! If there was a choice, they would choose not to be painful, but there was no choice.

Of course, there is no pain in choosing, who will choose pain, there is still a difference in this pain, it depends on what the situation is, under normal circumstances, of course, it is not painful to choose, personal opinion.

It is impossible to be miserable all the time, and it is impossible to live without pain for a lifetime. People need to continue to experience, continue to grow, and constantly sharpen themselves in order to cope with life and live this life well.

I don't understand your question too well, is it short-sighted to get rid of pain? Otherwise, you are still living after you are free from pain, just living a life without pain.

Of all the ways of life, none of them must be held up to death. A good life is like a fish swimming in the water and forgetting about it, and people are happy and self-sufficient without knowing that old age is coming.

If your current life is miserable for you, and it is difficult to get rid of it without changing your state of life, even ascetics may not be able to do it.

Judging from the way you ask questions, you are measuring your life with a closed mind, most likely because of responsibility. I used to be in this state when I was weak and helpless, but now I really sit back and watch the pain and despair of the past. Indulge in the well and complain about the heavens and people, and do not reflect on the well, can you get out?

What about the scenery outside.

When I came out of the well, looked up at the vastness of the universe and looked down at the prosperity of the category, the previous hardships naturally disappeared, and life opened up a new blueprint.

Marriage, family, social role, poor health, bad experiences in the past. These are the wells that many people have suffered all their lives, and they have decided that this well cannot be brought out, and then they will die in pain.

I'll just say a simple analogy, people nowadays love money more, and it's better to use money as a metaphor.

When you get along with your parents, brothers and sisters, it is very painful, but you feel that you are neglecting your family feelings and unfilial piety to your parents when you come out to live freely alone.

Have you ever wondered what your parents and siblings think of you? Maybe it's uncomfortable for them to live with you, but because of the role of the family Hail Minshan, they won't kick you out. Everyone is in pain.

If you are brave enough to take the first step towards living independently, and then as you learn more about your potential and talk about your life skills, your standard of living will improve dramatically. This state is very profitable, and with savings, I will give tens of thousands to my family from time to time. Even when you are not at home, the family appreciates you, values you, pays attention to you, and everyone has their own enjoyment.

You see, isn't everyone happy?

Don't spray ugly words.

There is no pain. I hope there is no pain, however, life will not be smooth sailing, there will be ups and downs, and it will not be so smooth.

Pain is the spice of life.

I choose to be free of pain, who doesn't want to live a life without pain, those pains, helplessness are like a passing cloud, fleeting, in this kind of world is indeed very happy, isn't it?

I chose to resign myself to fate and not make any choice when I couldn't be sure.

If there is suffering, find the cause of the suffering and resolve it.

It is better to choose, live without pain and with joy.

Then normal people will choose to be free from pain, pain is an unpleasant experience, and no one is happy to accept it.

I still want to say that sentence, only children will choose. It's just going to make yourself work hard.

Life is like a two-pot head, don't worry about things when you encounter them. Smart people are happy and happy together all day long, and stupid people are depressed all day long and torture themselves.

Pain and no pain If you can only choose one of them, who wants to live in pain, it is not easy for people to come to this world, they are willing to live happily without pain, of course, choose without pain.

Of course, everyone will definitely choose to be free of pain.

It's early in the morning, and I can't sleep. I can't sleep either.

Yesterday, it was muddy, repeating itself day by day, and it seemed to be so chaotic all along.

At present, I really want an answer, I want to find a way, a way to vent myself, but I can't start, it seems that I really haven't thought about the future. It seems that my failure is that I didn't plan my life seriously.

It seems that the so-called "a trip that is just going away" is really not something that everyone can do, and for many ordinary people, there are too many entanglements, and it is just a beautiful dream. Because, from the moment you embark on your journey, there will be people who will keep saying "you are wrong" in your ear.

It has been said that the root of human suffering is the ability to make choices, because you keep thinking, "Maybe it was the right choice to make another choice." But can we change the past? No. So, the pain followed.

Nothing belongs to you in a person's life, you are just a user.

There are always a few ditches on the road of life; The taste of life is always a little bitter.

There are some things that you can't do about it, so you just let it be; Some people, who can't force it, just laugh it off; There are some roads that cannot be avoided, so there is no turning back.

Without sunshine, learn to enjoy the coolness of wind and rain; Without flowers, learn to feel the fragrance of the earth. If you want more, it's a burden; If you have less luxury, you will be satisfied.

Smiling eyes can see beautiful scenery; A simple state of mind is the only way to have a happy mood.

Read all the states of life, or be honest is the best; After reading the ups and downs of life, it is still the most beautiful sincerity.

Life is a mirror, in which there is either kindness and honesty, or treacherous hypocrisy, different people have different attitudes;

Life is like a book, in the meantime, either sincere or hypocritical, different people, leave different records.

After years of wind and rain, years of drifting, even if it is very bitter and tiring, we still firmly believe that honesty is the most beautiful.

Patience is a lifelong practice.

The process is painful, and the result is wonderful; Whether it is adversity or good times, you must endure, the stomach can tolerate things, goodwill will be resolved, and the rain will pass the sun.

Patience is a kind of survival wisdom that takes retreat as advance; Patience is not weakness, nor is it evasion, but a kind of self-transcendence. Suffering losses can cultivate morality, and patience can cultivate the heart.

Everyone has a lucky bag, what you put in it, you will get, everyone has a mirror, what you do to it, it will return you with what expression.

Look at others as you look at yourself, and blame others to ask your heart first. Others are a mirror of one's own heart, and the world is a comparison of oneself.

Life is a rush, and life is just a cycle.

The money is gone, and the pain is gone; Love is gone, sad; The name is gone, regret; The profit is gone, and the resentment is gone.

Many times, we are happy for what we have gained and sad for what we have lost. Counting the decades of life, in a hurry. A person's life is nothing more than a pinch.

There is nothing more than life as a passing by. looked down on the gains and losses of hunger, came to a warm hug, and cherished it; I can't regret leaving, so I wish you well.

In a person's life, nothing belongs to you, you are just a user. If you want to open, look open, and let go, will it still be painful?