After the divorce, what should I do if I still love each other?

I didn't think about getting back together, because our thoughts and personalities really don't get along, and even if we love each other, we can't be together. ‍‍

After the divorce, the distance produces beauty, and the original conflict is not a thing, what I think about is the benefit of the other party, and I calm down and think about what kind of life I want. ‍‍

A child cannot live without a father, and cannot be without a father's love. Run, don't let the child know that his father is a bastard! If you want, we can sit down and talk about the past, and let them pass. Let's start a new life.

Then talk to the other party, and if you can, remarry! I'm sure our relationship is still there, and we still have children. ‍‍

I found out that I still loved him, but I was deceived, I got back together with him, and he said that we were completely finished, and I am still alone now, because I lost the person who loved me the most. ‍‍

I took the initiative to ask for remarriage, and he dragged me to the Civil Affairs Bureau without saying a word, the main reason for our divorce was me, and I will not be so willful in the future. ‍‍

He really changed his mind and wanted to live a good life with me, but I just couldn't get over the hurdle in my heart, thinking about him and his ex-girlfriend, I felt uncomfortable, three years to be honest, I still love him, but I just can't lower my head. ‍‍

Let's see if your husband also thinks so, if you can't let go of each other, then remarry, at least it's good for the children! ‍‍

Which man will I say, do you still love me? Can you let go of all the hatred, if nothing else, just for our feelings, if he wants, I will remarry him. ‍‍

Think about whether the choice was right in the first place, and if it's still possible, try to fight for it so that you don't regret it. ‍‍

I think you can get back together with the other party, and if the other party still has you in their hearts, you can make up for some regrets.

I think you should try your best to redeem it, because if you still love the other person, you should fight for it at this time, otherwise the other party will be with someone else, and you will regret it very much at that time.

If my wife hasn't remarried, I think I should fight for it and try to get it back.

I see... Sister, if I were you, which man would I say to you, do you still love me? Can you let go of all the hatred, if not for anything else, but for the sake of the children.

If he wants to, the two of you have a good chance of getting back together; If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't deserve your love. Hey, I said, it's not easy for you, but you have to take good care of yourself, don't hurt yourself for him.

Marriage is painful because the life you are living now is different from the life you lived before, or it is not what you imagined. Divorce hurts the most children, and if you don't divorce, it's you who suffers the most. Whether to divorce can be considered from your current marriage and living status, if the other party is a problem of domestic violence, gambling and other principles, then there is absolutely zero tolerance for such problems, and divorce must be made.

If the other party is still playing the role of a good father or mother, from the perspective of the child, then you should carefully consider whether the marriage and divorce are worthwhile. First of all, divorce do you want to raise this child? If you are raising this child, will you find another person to raise with you or alone?

If you are raising alone, will you be able to afford it on your own? Will your child grow up healthily with you? The premise of the child's healthy growth is that the child has an environment that can allow him to grow up healthily, and the biggest premise is that the father loves the mother.

There are always more ways than problems, the key to divorce or not lies in your personal thoughts, there is no specific fixed answer to this, it does not mean that you must not divorce if you have children, if you feel that the marriage is not necessary to maintain, you will divorce decisively. But at the same time, you need to bear all the consequences of divorce, whether it is about the words of friends and family, the strange way of looking at them, or the changes in your life that it brings. If you are in deep pain in this marriage and cannot extricate yourself, there is no guarantee that there will be no problems if you endure it for a long time.

In recent years, the divorce rate in China has risen, and in order to alleviate the rising divorce rate in China, the draft of the Civil Code in China will be introduced"Cooling-off period for divorce"As the name suggests, it requires that when both spouses want to apply for divorce, if one party is unwilling to divorce within 30 days, they can withdraw the divorce application. So this 30 days gives you the space to think and calm down, and think about it before making a decision. Because the only person responsible for your life is yourself.

Summary. Hello dear. If your lover often wants to divorce you, first of all, you need to understand what is the reason for his divorce from you?

For example, if she thinks you have a bad temper and always loses her temper, then you can change it for her, we women are soft-hearted, as long as you change a little bit, she won't give up easily<>

<>What if your lover is constantly going to divorce you.

Hello dear. If your lover often wants to divorce you, first of all, you need to understand what is the reason for his divorce from you? For example, if she thinks you have a bad temper and always loses her temper, then you can change it for her, we women are soft-hearted, as long as you change a little bit, she won't give up easily<>

<> dear, if you let your lover really can't do without you, you must try to change yourself, to care and love her more, but also to give her a little surprise from time to time, although I have been married to you, but we girls are like romance, sometimes just don't say it, when she bought a gift for her, she was very happy. [warm] [warm].

Dear, if you really can't do without your lover, you must try to change yourself, to care more about and love her, but also to give her some small surprises from time to time, although you are married, but we girls are like romance, sometimes just don't say it, when you buy her gifts, she is very happy. [warm] [warm].

Dear, did you have any conflict with your lover? Can you tell me about it? In this way, I can better help you find a way, and we girls still understand the psychological thoughts of girls more <>

<>Thank you. Dear, you can come to me anytime when you need me. [Bixin] [Bixin].