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There are several reasons for trouble.
1: It may be that there are too many things to worry about.
2: Holding a lot of incorrect attachments and rules.
3: Extremely bad mental and physical condition, such as lack of sleep, recuperation, and long-term mental tension.
4: The mind is not calm enough, so that it is impossible to analyze the problem calmly, which will lead to the inability to solve the problem and the troubles will multiply.
This is how most of the troubles are formed.
I have to do this and that
As long as a person has the above concepts, it is absolutely impossible for him to be free of troubles, why?
If it goes well, you will be happy, and you will naturally feel full of confidence and feel that the world is full of sunshine.
And if this thing does not go according to your heart, you will start to be troubled and sad. Over time, there is no positive thinking to resolve it, so it also leads to a gradual increase in pressure.
So, if you want to be free from troubles, just don't cling to "I have to do this and that."
That said, it's not easy to let go right away, so take your time.
When we were children, it was because we rarely pursued and pursued like now.
There are almost no worries, and even if there are, they are very few. Here's why.
In addition to this, when we grow up, there may be some bad habits that children do not have, which are also the source of our troubles, as for what. Let's think about it and check it out.
Or, with the gradual growth and development of young people, so our body is not as good as children, so if you do not pay attention to diet, sleep, and living habits, it is easy to lead to physical problems, and the spirit is also poor, in this case, even in the face of small problems, you may be troubled by this, if we can try to calm down, but can find a solution, because if we have been annoyed, we will not think about solutions.
Therefore, if you can stay awake at all times and be indifferent to negative emotions, when the time comes, your troubles will disappear immediately and you may not be able to find it, because the sunny day is not long, and the rainy day is not long.
The reason why we may feel troubled and miserable for a long time may be the reason why we can't let go.
If there is no adversity in life, then our cultivation and mind will not be able to reach a higher realm.
If you don't experience tiredness and hard work, how can you seek a solution?
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Day after day, year after year, waiting for my childhood to grow up", listening to this familiar melody, I feel as if I have returned to the past.
When I was a child, I always liked to sit in front of the door stupidly, watching my big brothers and sisters go to and from school, reading and playing, so envious, always thinking that one day, when I grew up, I could swim in the ocean of knowledge like them. Since then, it has become my wish to grow up as soon as possible, and I wait, wait, wait, and wait every day for the day when I grow up. Now that I'm older, I've experienced what it's like to grow up.
Growing up, I like to wander in the world of books and feel the character and life of each writer; Growing up, I like to soak in the ocean and interpret my mood and feelings; Growing up, I liked to sit quietly by myself, thinking about everything, including that carefree childhood. Growing up, I understood what responsibility is; Growing up, I understood what life is. I felt the joy of growing up, but also the sorrow of growing up.
I can't describe in words what it's like to grow up, everyone has to experience it, everyone has to feel it, it's like a cup of strong tea, you need to taste it yourself, the more you taste it, the more fragrant it becomes. Knowledge makes me wise and happy, while the expectations of teachers and parents make me feel pressured and a touch of sadness. That's what growing up made me feel.
Perhaps, this is life. Life is like a play, life is like a poem, and growing up is the first and heaviest stroke. Now I have some nostalgia for the free and innocent childhood, but I can't go back, no one can stop the passage of time, we can only accept to grow up, only face to grow up.
Many people have asked me, "How did it feel to grow up?" "I will:
The feeling of growing up is happy, and it is a helpless ......You need to experience it for yourself. ”
Day after day, year after year, such a helpless childhood" song is still echoing in my ears, but my thoughts have drifted far away, far away ......
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It's annoying to grow up.
I've asked myself countless times. What is growth? It was a few centimeters taller, and it was still the marks left on the face by the years.
Is it a few more strands of gray hair, or is it beginning to be melancholy about life. Looking back on the process of my own growth, I realized that growth is a book, which needs to be written with our life's efforts and even life; Growth is a "Shu road", a hundred steps and nine folds, thorny life, we need to be careful with the wall climbing; Growth is a ladder, and it needs to be down-to-earth and climb the floors of the years at a steady pace.
Year by year, I grew up. I don't hide under my parents' wide wings to hide from the wind and rain, because I have grown up, matured, and know the helplessness of life. In other people's mouths, I am a sensible, well-behaved, and obedient girl.
But maturity has made me no longer attached to this kind of life. I really want to go back to the innocent and prosperous days of my childhood.
When the lights are lit at night and correspond to the stars in the sky, they raise their heads and look at the sky, and let go of their heavy "burdens". Enjoy the night view, throw away the troubles, and the whole person seems to be floating in the air, as if returning to the childhood of counting stars, so easy to ......
Perhaps, people really need this kind of rest, maturity and sensibility, often make their hearts ache, but it is also often a precursor to the human body to realize the true meaning of life, maturity is often burdened, sometimes overwhelming.
Whenever I hear Milk Coffee's "The More I Grow Up, the Lonelier", I can't help but feel a little sad in my heart when I listen to it, and I feel really annoyed when I grow up, and I have to see the wings of my dreams being broken, and I suddenly understand that the road to the future is not smooth, is this change inevitable. However, people always have to grow up. So, putting away my low emotions, I greeted the sun and strode forward ......
When the moon on the roof, showing a smile, you taste in a dream, the taste of dreams. When the breeze and the birds are flying, you should wake up and be ready to set sail ......
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Beginning: Maybe our growth process may be smooth sailing and everything is smooth; Maybe it's because there are a lot of troubles and sorrows. But no matter what our experience is, we're going to grow up day by day, we're going to go through childhood, we're going to be young, and I think I'm growing up feeling troubled.
Ending: I really hope that I will never grow up, so that I will never have to use pressure, let me always be the baby of my parents, and let me have no worries in my life!
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I can only give you an outline, and fill in the specific content by yourself, because everyone's experience is different.
Growing pains include:1the distress of having too little pocket money; 2.the problem of not being able to improve grades;
3.the emotional struggles that come with having a crush on the opposite sex; 4.the confusion of life without a goal; 5.There is no regret of having a close friend; 6.the desire for freedom after an argument with a parent; 7.indulging in games or giving oneself a sense of depravity; And ......
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On the path of my upbringing.
Don't look at me as I'm only 11 years old, I've already overcome many difficulties along the way I've grown up. Among them, the moment when I climbed Mount Tai is the most vivid, I remember when I was five or six years old, I went to climb Mount Tai with my mother and grandmother. Come there, look up at Mount Tai, only to see the scenery of Mount Tai is breathtaking, as if you are in a fairyland.
The climb began, and I climbed the first step of Mount Tai with great interest, and ran quickly in front of my mother and grandmother. I only heard them chasing me from behind and shouting: "Ning Chao, you slow down, wait for us!"
The more they shouted, the more cheerful I ran, and in a moment they were far behind me. At this time, I felt that I was too tired to do anything, so I sat down on the ground all at once. I didn't expect it to be easy to climb to the top of Mount Tai!
I really want to put on my wings and fly to the top of the mountain.
After a while, my mother rushed over and saw that I was sitting on the ground as if she wanted to give up, and rested with me for a while. But when I saw many people: old people and children passed me, I got up from the ground and continued to climb to the top of the mountain with my grandmother and mother.
But after crawling for a while, I got tired again, so I had to rest for a while, but this time I couldn't get up, so I just sat on the ground all the time. Because I didn't want to climb anymore, I wanted my mother to carry me to the top of the mountain. Seeing this, my mother said earnestly
You can't give up halfway, you have to climb up on your own, I can't help you! ”
With the encouragement of my mother and grandmother, I finally got up from the ground and continued to climb step by step. Although I felt tired like I had never felt before, at that moment, my heart was filled with pride. At the same time, I also experienced the joy of overcoming difficulties and achieving success.
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You can revolve around your parents' concerns, nagging, and relationships because of your own small relationships,。。 For example: Are you bothered by this essay now? Isn't this the trouble you have growing up, come on, I believe you will be the best,
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When you are in the scene, you feel it the deepest, and you can do it in one go.
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I don't know when the growing pains came together, and for me, who had a lot of complaints to vent, this topic was so kind. Xin Qiji once said: "Young people don't know the taste of sorrow."
Perhaps it was because of the carefree youth of his old man, and with the continuous development of history, more and more troubles were left to us.
Growing up - being troubled and happy, but surrounded by the contradictions of troubles. For a girl who is about to become a flower girl, it should be innocent and full of happiness. And yet - I was worried about a two-faced me.
At home, I have to play the role of a good girl, and only in a place where my mother is not outside is the world where I can truly show myself. I have grown up, and there is something called vitality in my bones, but the vitality that should have been suppressed by my mother is too dare not reveal it. This two-faced me confuses me, and I don't want to be a gentleman again, to be myself again; And my mother has always been proud to have a daughter like me.
However, there is an indescribable sorrow ...... in my heart
Every time before going out, my mother always has to nag: girls must sit and stand, they must not laugh loudly, and they must say hello to acquaintances when they see ......In fact, I have heard all this so well that I can almost recite it backwards, and my mother is just a "routine", repeating it. But this seems to me to be a cloak of hypocrisy over my true appearance.
Only on the outside. Without my mother's constraints, I was able to laugh loudly with my classmates, dance to my heart's content, and sing ...... as I wantedEnjoy the joy of growing up without restraints. Although passers-by on the street saw it and sighed that we teenagers were too crazy and unruly.
But that doesn't stop us, we continue to have fun.
What kind of me am I: Mom's good girl? Energetic teens?
Or a crazy girl in the eyes of passers-by? No, I am who I am, I don't have to hide myself, I am an energetic teenager. I'm no longer under the control of adults, I've grown up.
Later, no, from now on, at home, I am quiet but not rigid; On the outside, I'm energetic but not crazy. This is a two-sided me, but I love this me, this two-sided me.
The pace of growth is inseparable from troubles, I grow, feel growth, enjoy happiness, and enjoy troubles.
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As fever fever fever fever fever method first release identity.
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Write slowly and search from the Internet.
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Everyone, in the process of growing up, it is impossible to have smooth sailing on the road of growth, and there will always be a little bit of stumbling on your footsteps, which is just an insignificant grain of sand --- troubles. As long as you pour it out, it can become a memory in the footprints of growth, and a ...... of good memories of growth
Like you, I also have a small trouble, which has been bothering me for a long time and has not been resolved, and I thought it would be better to talk about it.
These days, I don't know why my temper is particularly big. The words I said to my mother and father were not in my heart, and they were very hurtful. This made my father, mother, and me very sad.
I don't know what's wrong with me, I want to make it clear to my parents, but I don't have the courage because I'm afraid that the words will ...... out of my mouthThis bothered me a lot.
Take this morning, for example! My mother got up early to make breakfast for me, and in order to make me full and comfortable, I went to the supermarket last night to buy it. It would have been a good thing, but I ......Alas!
Story reenacted: xx (personal name), xx! I woke up and was going to be late for school. My mother said to me gently, for fear of waking up and disturbing my sweet dreams.
I was dazed, my eyes slightly open. Originally, I was going to say to my mother, "Okay, I know, I'll get up in a while." However, the words turned 180 degrees around his mouth, "I know, are you annoyed!"
I'm all awake and screaming! I yelled. I vaguely saw my mother's sad figure and gradually left the ......At that time, I really wanted to stop my mother and apologize to her, but that was not my intention!
1 2 When I got up, while I was having breakfast, something happened that I regretted a lot. Because after facing my mother's hearty meal, I saw that it was almost late, and I didn't want to eat. When my mother saw that I was not eating, she hurriedly asked me with concern
What's the matter, is it unappetizing for breakfast? I wanted to say, "It's okay, but I'm afraid of being late." But when the words came to his mouth, the taste changed, "I don't like to eat, what I do, it makes people sick to their stomachs when they see it."
Mom's expectant eyes suddenly dimmed. I regret it! But every time I encounter such a scene, it is always very abnormal.
I can understand that it is not easy for my parents to work hard for a long day, and I will definitely get rid of this trouble!
The troubles of growing up bring me not only troubles, but also life--- I believe it will help me grow!
When there are more problems to face and think about, it is natural to be troubled!
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