Do blind dates care about the woman s work?

This question is a bit urgent, just imagine (it is hypothetical), if before the blind date, you have known each other for a long time and know each other very well, or both parties are in love. Going on a blind date is just a formality, you say, do you care about the other person's work?

In the same way, I don't know each other at all, I meet on a blind date, the first feeling is extremely bad, I want to end this blind date as soon as possible, do you think the other party's work is the main factor that determines this blind date?

Yes, of course not, that's just an excuse.

Most of them will care, because if they are likely to be together in the future, they should think about the long-term, such as the working income conditions or something. If you don't care, it's possible that the man's working conditions are very average, so he won't ask for the woman's working conditions.

The blind date person is more realistic, and will care about the woman's work, all aspects of the situation, and comprehensively consider whether it is suitable or not.

Yes, definitely. Are you doing a good job? Afraid that others will rush you to work? Too bad at work? I'm afraid that others will look down on you, so don't ask for it if the other party is one of these two people. Caring is caring, but people with emotions know which is more important.

Of course, it cares about work, income, family conditions, these are all very principled things, and I personally think it's better to be euphemistic for the first time, and this is also the most similar thing for the other person to know.

No, they only care about each other**.

The first is the first impression, and the only thing we can do without getting to know a person is to observe his appearance. The second is the living environment, because a man's living environment will restore his true appearance. Finally, table manners are essential.

It depends on the character characteristics and the nature of all aspects.

whether the boy takes care of the other person's tastes; whether the boy consulted the other person; Whether the boy takes good care of each other and so on.

The first is a sense of responsibility, and only responsible men are worthy of being entrusted for life. The second is, whether he is self-motivated, and only with self-motivation can he see whether his career has room to rise.

First of all, to be clear, true love can be found on blind dates.

In fact, until now, when many people mention blind dates, what they think of is "knowing this person in order to get married". Carrying such thoughts all the time will make the meaning of the word "blind date" heavy, and you will unconsciously take the framework of mate selection to look at the detailed object. In fact, this kind of efficiency is not high, and it will make people more disgusted with blind dates.

Putting aside this idea and looking at blind dates with the idea of "expanding the circle of friends of the opposite sex", the feelings will be very different. Because it's just to make friends, I won't put the framework of looking at the marriage partner on each other, and it will be easier to get along with each other. The blind date arranged by the parents is eventful because they think the partner is not bad, regardless of whether it meets the requirements of the children themselves.

Secondly, before the formal meeting, the parents pay more attention to the other party's work, RV, family and other practical factors, but do not know each other's personality and spiritual level very well. Although it is relatively close to each other, it is easy for both parties to have no topic.

You can ask, but some people are more concerned about details, and Yuan Feng will think that you are very rude, so it is best not to ask this when you meet for the first time. First and foremost, your self-introduction should be as specific as possible. For example, if you introduce some facts about yourself, you can add hail to your own feelings about them, so that you can better describe how the facts relate to you.

Second, don't create a false "perfect image". Because once this false image is debunked in the future, it is easy to cause fierce contradictions. Of course, on paper, it is shallow in the end, and I never know that I have to do it.

Reading alone will not improve your social skills. If you want to better attract girls, you have to learn by doing. The core principle is to ask fewer closed-ended questions and more open-ended questions.

What is a closed-ended question? It's a question with a simple answer, a word or two, such as how old are you this year, what kind of work do you do, how much money do you earn a month, whether you have a partner, and so on. If you ask too many of these questions, you will feel that they are prisoners being interrogated, and you will feel deeply repulsed and bored.

What a woman really needs is care and thoughtfulness. Two people can understand each other, tolerate each other, and each other's three views can be roughly close, and they should not take the external appearance and height very seriously, but we have to deny that there are indeed many girls who care about their boyfriend's height in the process of blind date, and often reject their boyfriend because his boyfriend is relatively short. In fact, strictly speaking, the girl and the boy should not be a couple, and they should not care about filial piety and call each other their boyfriend, more should call this boy their blind date, the reason why some girls will mind that boys are shorter is mainly because some girls think that shorter boys can not give themselves enough security, and for those tall boys, they will make themselves more solid in their hearts, and there will be a sense of confidence and a sense of being protected.

On the other hand, the reason why some girls will mind that their boyfriends are short is also due to a factor that hinders face, because if the men they are dating are shorter, then other girls around them may be judged, which will make them feel a little embarrassed and embarrassed, so for such girls, they often like to find those tall and handsome boys to be their boyfriends, so that they can really have face in front of other girls. But for the ideas of these girls, I think there are still some one-sided and immature, or as mentioned earlier, whether a boy is really suitable for himself does not lie in the height of the boy, but in whether the boy really loves himself, whether he can be tolerant, understanding and respect for himself, whether the two people can achieve emotional mutual recognition and communication, which is the decisive factor in determining whether two people are happy in their married life.

When girls go on a blind date for the first time, they may have varying degrees of disgust or disgust for the man's behavior and demeanor, and the following are the behaviors of the blind date men that girls can't stand the most:

1.No politeness. If the man is disrespectful and rude to the woman, such as loud and rude, the woman will easily lose interest in her.

2.Asking too many personal privacy questions. If the man asks too many personal privacy questions during the first meeting, such as the woman's job, income, marital history, etc., the woman can easily feel that her privacy has been violated and she will not be cautious enough.

3.All hat and no cattle. If the man is boastful at the first meeting, talking too much about his successes and strengths, or even boasting about his wealth and status, such behavior can easily make the woman feel that the man is insincere and just to make himself look better.

4.Disrespect for women. If the man does not respect the woman, such as using vulgar language or making inappropriate actions, and the purpose of pursuing the woman is just to satisfy his own desires, this behavior will not only make the woman uncomfortable, but also leave a bad impression on the woman.

5.Doesn't know social etiquette. If the man does not understand the basic social etiquette when they meet for the first time, such as not taking the initiative to pour tea or provide help for the woman, this behavior can easily expose the man's immaturity and rudeness, and make the woman disgusted with him.

6.Too clingy. If the man shows too clingy or obsessive-compulsive behaviors during the first meeting, such as staring at the woman all the time, being overly dependent, or being too demanding, this behavior will make the woman feel unable to breathe, lack free space, and lose interest in the man.

In short, on the first blind date, the man needs to pay attention to his words and deeds, respect the woman, and show his sincere, steady and polite side, so as to attract the woman to have a good impression of him.

In blind dates, men value women the most.

Tips in blind date:

1.The first time you meet, the best first sentence to start with: Hello, nice to meet (meet) you!

2.No inferiority, no pride. Be confident, speak naturally, don't always stare at each other, and don't keep looking at each other.

3.It is recommended to get to know each other before going on a blind date, and it is better to meet again when you feel that it is appropriate.

4.Don't keep talking about how your parents are, what the other person values is how you are.

5.Self-motivation and a sense of stability are hard indicators for most girls to their other half.

6.Knowing how to understand each other and having filial piety is a hard indicator for most boys to their girlfriends.

7.When you meet for the first time, it's best to set your phone to vibrate and tell your colleagues that you have something to do for the time being. If you answer frequently, it will make the other person feel that you don't value him or her at all.

8.If it is convenient, both parties can send each other life photos before the blind date.

1. Mind the other party's interrogation as if checking the household registration, and don't ask too many questions when you meet for the first time.

2. Mind that the man is too picky, if you are reluctant to even invite a meal, there is no need to meet next time.

On a blind date, the first thing the woman is to mind whether the other party can arrive at the agreed place on time and whether she will be late. There is also whether the man is dressed appropriately. cares about the man's character and speech and demeanor.

There is also a topic when chatting, and the atmosphere is not embarrassing. Whether the boy is his favorite type. The man has a lot of love history.

Do you have any female friends around?

When going on a blind date, the woman will pay more attention to the man's character, family environment and birth, as well as economic conditions and career development. Blind dates are all about getting married, so if you want to have a sweet and happy life after marriage, these hardware conditions are very important.

The woman is more mindful that the man asks about his job and income as soon as he opens his mouth, and then asks about his savings and real estate, which seems to be very purposeful and disgusting.

Blind date, equivalent to the first meeting, then the first impression is very important, the issue of taking the initiative to pay, will affect a girl's final impression of you, this is not a matter of money, but the most basic gentlemanly demeanor of a boy.