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Upstairs is just **, can it be brought to reality, it's right to be guided, and it's misleading to say it's wrong.
In any case, it is a relationship that takes time to manage, even if there is a certain blood relationship, it is a further love based on family affection! How could a breakup be so easy? And these love stories happen all around us all the time, and I think it's just a drop in the bucket compared to the pressure that those gays are under.
Work hard, hope is everywhere!
If you really can't do anything, don't be too sad, in fact, most men have been hurt emotionally, and the same as you are not a minority, look at the point, in fact, if you try your best, it is just fate has not arrived, know how to accept, broad-minded will also make a man's life more exciting, what do you say?
Finally, I wish you happiness! Succeed! ~
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If it were me, I'd definitely chase her back. Fuck off worldly forces and ethics. I have never understood why we oppose the marriage of close relatives because we are afraid that there will be problems with the children born, and why do we still oppose the marriage of close relatives when we can check the health of the children in advance!
As long as you love each other, why care who she is! Before our liberation, we did not object to cousins marrying, and we were not still the four ancient civilizations.
If I were you, I'd make a big fuss and say what I just said to all the people who objected, and see what they say!
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You can't say anything about it You can get married in Hong Kong Why do you have to get married If you really can't do what you want, then bless her You are still young You will find a more powerful girl you love in the future At this time, you look back at yourself yesterday Don't think about it now You can only accept the facts.
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Let it go. Men have to learn to see the situation clearly.
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You give birth to a doll and come out. It's either a genius or a freak. 50% chance.
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The stress of family will crush you!
Let's get away for a while!
Give time to heal.
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Well, the chances of your choice are also 50
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1. Falling in love with your cousin is not because of psychological problems, this is a direct impact of human hormones, after all, people are prone to feelings between people, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Even if you are cousins, you are not born to the same parents, you are a person from different families and different parents, so you have different personalities and characteristics. Although there is a kinship between you, but this does not prevent love between you, sometimes you will feel that your cousin will treat you more considerate and gentle, if you and your cousin are in love, then there is no problem in the end to enter the marriage, but you will worry about the problems of children in the future.
Second, in fact, in real life, I have also seen people who are married to their own cousins, because the two of them love each other more, so they naturally chose to come together.
There was once a family where they were cousins and cousins who got married, and they were very worried at the time, but they ended up having a very healthy and smart child. So I think there are many kinds of love in this world, we can't define it in a completely secular way, although the law does not allow close relatives to marry, but who can stop the existence of love? In ancient times, there would also be cases where cousins and cousins would get married, and of course it was mainly decided by the two families.
3. Sometimes there is no reason to like someone, there is no problem in falling in love with your own cousin, but if you fall in love with your own brother, there may be a problem.
Your cousin is actually the child of your mother's brother, and your blood relationship is only the same in your grandparents' generation, so I personally don't think it's a psychological problem. But if you like your own brother, then you may have psychological problems and need to go for **. Since love has no borders, there must be no people, sometimes it is just a moment at the moment when you suddenly fall in love with each other, and no one can predict it.
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I think I have the same problem as you, so I guess it's sympathy. My cousin grew up in my family, and I have a very close relationship with him, and he is very good to me, although the two of us are in a relationship with each other, but in fact, he dotes on me.
Just last year, he talked about his girlfriend, in fact, I had a little expectation and a little fear in my heart, and the fear was not an inexplicable reason. I look forward to it because I want to see my brother happy, and I think my brother is happy when he is happy. I was scared because I didn't dare to meet my future sister-in-law, after all, I still care about my brother very much, and I'm actually quite an introvert, and I will only be more lively in front of my friends and family who have a particularly good relationship with me.
Actually, I'm quite unsociable.,Just today our homeroom teacher rearranged our seats.,There's no one around me who is more familiar with me.,And then I can only silently lower my head and write my homework.,And when I moved my seat, I was also silently waiting for all of them to move away before I moved (I first moved my seat to a place that was farther away and wouldn't get in the way),In fact, I'm still relatively withdrawn.,And I'm quite afraid of getting along with others.,I speak straighter., So I also don't want people to be upset about what I say too much, so I don't talk much in general. So I'm worried about how I get along with my future sister-in-law. After all, I have always regarded my cousin as my own brother, and I actually attach great importance to my relationship with my future sister-in-law.
Now I'm quite scared, because I've always been very lively and cheerful in front of my brother, but if my relationship with my brother is too close, I'm worried that my sister-in-law will think too much about it in the future (maybe I'll think too much), but if I keep my distance from my brother, my brother will definitely think I'm weird, because although I have a sister, but my most clingy person is still him, I feel that my brother is like a god in my heart, so I don't want him to worry about my relationship with my future sister-in-law.
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I don't think it's appropriate at all. Although it is said to be a relative, it is too close and will make people feel weird, and they are all adults, so keeping a little distance is the main thing.
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Inappropriate. Although it is a relative, after all, men and women are different, and it is not good to be too close, so there must be some measure.
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Since you are related by blood, you must learn to avoid suspicion, and it is better for cousins and cousins to keep their distance to avoid being gossiped about by others.
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A lot of things can be controlled, but I think people's feelings can't be controlled, like is like, there are not so many whys, it's not your fault that you like your cousin, you don't have to blame yourself for it. In my view of love, as long as you like it, you have to act, don't let him become a passerby in your life, so you will regret it for the rest of your life, but the premise is that you really like him in your heart.
I know that girls are shy, always cringe in the face of love, and are afraid that they will not succeed, which is also an embarrassment. In fact, I think you can have a good chat with him, if he also likes you, I think it is not impossible between you, although your love may be more difficult than the average, but I think love is in front of you, what is hardship!
From a biological point of view, close relatives can't get married, but you can prevent it before marriage, and now that science is so advanced, I believe that everything can be solved. I think the reason why you are at a loss is that in today's society, you can't get married to close relatives, in fact, you can rest assured. If you think about the costume TV series we watched, many of the people in it were depressed and stopped by my cousin and my cousin getting married, doesn't it look normal!
There is a family in our village that is married to their cousin, and they are still very close cousins, that is, their mothers are sisters, and they are still living well after getting married, and now they have their own children and their own families. I admire them with you for daring to face their love, they can continue to work hard for their love, I believe that as long as there is love, no matter what time is fate.
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If you realize that you have feelings of love for your cousin, this delay in the town can be an abnormal relationship between family members. First of all, it should be soberly recognized that such feelings are problematic and are not legally and ethically impermissible.
It is recommended that you take action as soon as possible and seek professional help to resolve the issue. You can contact a psychologist or counsellor for advice and guidance to find a solution that works for you. In addition, you can also digest and process this feeling with the support of relatives and friends.
The most important thing is to abide by the law and ethical norms, and maintain good family relations and social order.
You're both young and don't really know what love is. When your cousin grows up, you will laugh dumbly at this former "love". Time is the best way to heal.
I don't think you should eat that kind of vinegar, maybe you can't stand it, because love is selfish, when you love each other, you want the other party to love you and only love you alone, but I think as a relative, if there is no too intimate action (kissing and touching xx), it is acceptable, because you love each other, you also said that you are the right person, the personality is suitable, and there is love, why do such a good person give up because of these, it is not easy to find a loved one in this society, You don't have any other obstacles, you're already very happy, and he's very good to you, and the reason why he loves his cousin and pities him for a while, as you said he promised her father, if a man can't do what he says, do you dare to love him? And she will eventually find someone to marry, and then her boyfriend should be jealous, and she will be forced by her boyfriend to stay away from your boyfriend, so why should you be a villain in vain, what you have to do is to be tolerant and understanding, and then prevent them from happening outside of family affection, such as don't let them be alone at night, just drink and have sex. If you love someone, you should love Wu and Wu, and I believe that if you do, maybe your boyfriend will be more kind to you because he thinks you understand him.
Either break the love or ruin the family.
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