Urgent!!! Should I bring my boyfriend home?

Reading between the lines, I always feel that things take a turn for the better, and your parents are reasonable people, but they are very loving and meticulous to their daughters, so they need to take some time to make them understand the importance of this matter to you, to your future, and to your happiness. Before that, you have to do some foreshadowing work, of course, you can no longer talk about your personal emotional problems, silent, this is what they are most worried about, they just want to be able to grasp your actions and thoughts at any time, and slowly tell your parents more about your boyfriend and things with you, and slowly give some praise in a appreciative tone. In advance, communicate well with your boyfriend, you have been getting along for a long time, you should be very clear about his temper, give him some guidance, some tips, let him see your parents naturally and decently, and give him an immunization shot to avoid mistakes in the subtleties of the subsection, of course, it is the safest and cautious to visit your parents in advance, but this can not be delayed any longer, let your boyfriend establish a good image in the eyes of your parents as soon as possible, which is conducive to the development of your relationship as soon as possible, and it is convenient for you to get future happiness, and it can also make your parents feel at ease. Calm.

At the same time, I saw that the content you wrote was more intimate, Xi'an, a place that carries the dreams and feelings of many people.

Then go back a little later, so that there is a period of psychological adaptation, and a process of preparation, leaving a room for negotiation, and if you can't get rid of the image of the girl to your parents when you were a child, it will be difficult for you to handle this matter properly.

Bless you to take him back and create happiness together in the future.

Male: 20 years old.

Take it home!! The key is that your man should be generous and natural, and he must be diligent in talking and doing things!

Ay. This kind of problem has also been encountered in my family.

My brother's girlfriend didn't want it at home.

The reason is basically the same as yours.

But. Everything at home is for our good, although I don't want to.

Still let the younger brother bring his girlfriend home.

Had a meal. It still feels good.

In fact, this situation is very common. I feel the same way.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, and only the two of you understand the taste. Most parents are like this, considering a lot of practical and material things, they are afraid that you will not have a good life, probably because your parents' generation is too miserable and don't want you to suffer too much, and in their eyes, material life represents happiness. On the other hand, it's a good thing that they can think about that much for you, and that's easy.

Your parents love you, which means that no matter what they say, they still listen to you.

What you need to do is: First, tell them that the two of you have a good personality and are happy together, which money can't match. Second, tell your parents that a person with a high level of Chinese can now mix this step, enough to see ability, and they don't want a nerd as a son-in-law.

Family circumstances generally represent peace, and there are no complications. As for the house, you can get a mortgage, what is there, life will get better and better.

Having said that, then it's time to test your parents' mouth. If they loosen their mouths a little, you say that you should take them home first and let them see them, and then talk about it if it's not appropriate (don't say that you two must be together, etc.).

Finally, haha, you're done! As long as you take it home, let your boyfriend behave well, be quick and have a good outlook for your future, as long as you are a responsible parent, you will accept your opinion.

My idea is to go home together, because your family wants to know your boyfriend, want to see his character and personality, have you ever thought that if you go home first your parents will not let you meet your boyfriend again, you must not want your children to go too far, such as if you go home with your boyfriend, your parents are very good to him and value your boyfriend very much, then you don't have to do this again for this matter in the future, this must be the first time to see your parents, and you will see sooner or later, if you go home first to see your parents, then, Parents should think that he has no opinions, and he is tail-handed, if that's the case, wouldn't it be bad! You love each other so much, he should go home with you generously, touch your parents with his sincerity, and let your parents believe that he will make you blessed and happy, and will not let you be hurt in any way!

Here are my thoughts: I am 22 years old I bless you, may you always love and be happy for a lifetime!

Take it back. What's done is done.. They had nothing to say. Ha ha.

I have said everything I want to say upstairs, and I can only wish you happiness.

ps；Today's Valentine's Day wishes Happy Singles.

Eldest sister, it's you who marry, not your parents who marry, 3 years ago, when I was 20, I took the object home and my family was against it I was still in school at that time Now it's been more than 3 years We're getting along well My parents also like her Take the family group first Take one step at a time Think about what to do so much Tired.

I'll give you a word: the main measure of a man's ability is how much money he can earn? How capable do you think your boyfriend is?

If you don't care about your significant other's ability to deal with problems, as long as there is sincere affection, you can choose him!

If you don't want to marry a man who has no money, I suggest you leave him!

Male 25 years old!

You cook the raw rice into rice. When the time comes. Your family won't be able to recognize it. So. You ml right away, and it's OK to give birth to bb right away.

Let's go back once, it's inevitable to meet, maybe your parents will like him.

0 Your boyfriend and I are the same kind of people, and I am on his side.

But there is a very real question: who will you choose between him and your parents? Love or affection?

I don't know what to do, but my cousin eloped with his brother and sister, old legend, maybe because of his youth, maybe because of love, who knows?

My thought was that if I couldn't give my girlfriend a happy life, I'd rather leave, even though some people don't care about money, but as a man I care!

Male, 21

Should take him back with you

But you should have an honest conversation with your parents before you bring him home and show them to them, because as long as you insist, your parents will always agree with you

Pay attention to the attitude with your parents, your parents are always good for you, and you can communicate slowly and be moved slowly

Don't take it back yet, do something with him yourself, improve his image in your parents' hearts, let your parents know how much he loves you, the key is to make your parents believe. And his character.

You'd better take him back. Your parents are against your business in the first place, and it won't help if you go back to find out. Why did you fall in love with him, you think?

It's not because you know him. The reason why your parents are against you is because they only see the surface and haven't really reached out to your boyfriend yet, who doesn't know him. So why don't you let him meet your parents and communicate with your parents, maybe your parents will like him because of this and agree to you to associate with him?

Take him back with you, and since you like it, you should be generous enough to take him home. Since your parents are not materialistic people, I believe they should be enlightened fathers. The work of the enlightened fathers is very good, there is no trial work, there are too many people who do not have formal jobs in this society in China, but it is the great wealth created by these people who do not have formal jobs that raise those who have jobs.

Your boyfriend now gets more than 3,000 a month, I dare to ask, how many people with formal jobs get more than 3,000 a month? In fact, the most important thing is life, as long as life is happy, material can meet your objective requirements. I guess it's the same with or without a formal job.

It seems that this is purely a diploma problem, in fact, many of the current bosses and entrepreneurs have come out to start their own businesses after graduating from high school, and they have all succeeded, and there are many examples, and they have searched a lot on the Internet. So since I am a business boss and I don't care how high my diploma is, I also have to ask for food after graduating from Peking University. I hope you can believe in yourself, believe in your boyfriend, believe that your parents will approve of you, today Qixi Festival, I wish you a harmonious old age.

The boss is not small. I was able to go home.

Or don't, now your parents are suspicious of your boyfriend, of course, it's for your good, if you trust your boyfriend, you can go back and explore it first, it's always good to take it slowly, and then take your boyfriend back when he has better conditions, and your parents shouldn't object much.

Ask your man to approach your parents first and make a good impression.

It's better to go home and talk to your parents first, so that you can respect your parents and make your parents' hearts more balanced. Maybe they suddenly heard that you had been hiding it for so long, and they resisted it, and when they got home, they asked for their advice and persuaded them to let their boyfriend come to visit.

At the same time, let the boyfriend prepare well and behave.

Respect your original decision, love is not decided by parents.

Believe in yourself that the material is good, but what will you get?

A happy couple is with love, not with money.

Your own parents will understand your heart. Cherish what you choose and show your parents with sincere actions.

Tell your parents generously that you have a boyfriend, tactfully tell your parents about his strengths, and you like him very much, ask your parents if they want to see him, or ask your parents to help you with your staff, I think if your parents are reasonable people will agree to you to take him home, remember to make him ready to meet the gift.

Township Party. As long as others are good, they are good to you. It is better than Zadan. It's too hard to find a teacher right now. There is no money for two people to fight together. In this way, it will be more cherished. A woman who strongly bs on men for the rest of her life. Come on.