How to be a good girl who is loved by everyone?

Hello friend: Love is caring rather than pampering, love is mutual blending and not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

Embrace everything, embrace the stories of the past, tolerate the happy memories and sad feelings of the past.

Love is someone who shares it with you when you are unhappy or happy, someone who can always be by your side to share every day with you! It's to let each other give up, let each other hurt, let each other be happy, tears always fall inexplicably, love, even if they are together, they miss him every second. True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

You are a student, first of all, a good child with the teacher's eyesight, after all, the time to meet with the teacher may be longer than the parents, so the parents will let the teacher conquer you with a few praises; The second is parents.

1.Do your homework well, and now in the eyes of the teacher, a student with good academic performance is a good student! (Based on my 10 years of experience).

You do your homework well, and your other ones are a little "that point", and the teacher says that you are lively. So good homework is a necessary condition. As for how to do your homework well, I think everyone knows it.

2.At home, parents will often stare at you reading, if you play games online or something and your parents get caught, then % % so I think to set a schedule with your parents, such as you can go online after doing homework on the weekend, what can you do.

3.I think you are a thoughtful person, so I suggest that you find a senior who graduated from college and talk to him about his studies, life and students' confusion. Of course, this senior must be a ...... you have a little admiration and respectYes, he and she can give you the problems you are about to face, give your own experience, the average college graduate, thinking back to the middle school years, has a kind of if you can go back to the middle school days, what would he do, however, you seem to have given him a chance, I believe it will be very helpful to you.

To tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain has passed, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

Everyone has their own character and habits, well-behaved, filial, cute, are their own character, in fact, as long as you do your best.

Clause. 1. Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

This is also what psychology calls empathy, for empathy, the founder of humanism, Rogers, once defined empathy in this way: "The so-called empathy refers to considering the problem from the perspective of others, it means entering the private cognitive world of others, and being completely rooted in it." ”

Many people like to be a good and enthusiastic person, and they don't look at whether the other party is willing or not, whether they like it or not, wishful thinking to do the so-called good things, and make the other party embarrassed, such enthusiasm is not a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, and people with real high emotional intelligence will not embarrass others.

People with high emotional intelligence will know how to help others without embarrassing the other party, or give reasonable suggestions to the other party, rather than directly using money to solve problems. When the other party is unwilling to talk about their own affairs, they will not keep asking the other party, but quickly change the topic.

Clause. 2. Be good at discovering the strengths and weaknesses of others.

Good at discovering the advantages of others, clever and euphemistic praise people. Even if others have shortcomings, try not to hurt them with insulting and sarcastic language, and try not to point them out as much as possible. Sociologists point out that the constant penchant for saying something really bad is not a sign of honesty, but a sign of typical low emotional intelligence.

People with high emotional intelligence are able to both clearly point out the shortcomings of the other person and not make the other person not disgusted.

First of all, don't be too coquettish.

Women should not be coquettish when they should not be coquettish, the effect can only be counterproductive, you also know that a smart woman understands coquettishness, why do men like women to be coquettish! Because that's a fulfillment, and that's what I am.

Hehe. There is also the need to look at the man's face - for example, you like something and want him to buy it for you, but it is too expensive.

If you ask him, he will be embarrassed to refuse.

In case I refuse.

The two people inevitably had a separation in their hearts.

It's useless to talk too much.

Hehe. My point is that --- women have to learn to be coquettish.

Hello! Here are a few things you can do:1

First of all, you must be obedient, but this obedience is not to listen to everything, but also to have the ability to discriminate, the words of parents, teachers and elders must be listened to, and the good words of classmates must also be listened to. 2.The temper should not be impetuous, be calm, be gentle with people, and not lose the temper of the eldest lady from time to time.

3.In studying, you have to be serious and try to improve your grades, but the teacher prefers this kind of well-behaved and good grade girls, and learns some things that girls should know. 4.

In life, you also have to be quiet and don't be too crazy, so the impact on people is not very good. 5.Be loving, and it is not enough to have an outward appearance without an inwardness.