Why do you need to be patient sometimes?

In the process of starting a business, Wang Lei found his shortcomings in management and other aspects, so he chose to use MBA for professional charging. The MBA was completely different from her previous science and engineering training, and it was like a revolutionary shock that opened up another world for her. After reading the MBA, Wang Lei changed and began to look at the world with divergent thinking, she never thought that life could be like this or that, there are countless possibilities.

Her mind is no longer pinned to a fixed track, and she has become bold to imagine and experiment with possibilities.

That's when she came to Boston, a cold city. The first weekend I arrived in Boston was snowed heavily. She came here to engage in a high-intensity private equity management work, and because she had to operate according to the global market transactions at any time, Wang Lei's whole mind and energy were occupied.

As soon as she arrived at the company, trading in the London market had already begun, and she had to be busy until 11 o'clock when London closed, hurry up and pay attention to the North American market, and by 7 o'clock in the evening, the Asian market began to trade again. I keep running at a high load all day long, I don't dare to delay every second, and I use the speed of sprinting to go to the toilet. Wang Lei didn't want his customer's money to be lost because of one of his mistakes.

If you keep tolerating and changing, it will not make the other party feel satisfied, but will make the relationship more and more unequal, and you will be hurt in the relationship.

In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience. In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.

First, blind forbearance will make the other party get an inch In the marriage, although they should be humble and tolerant of each other, but this is mutual, not that there will always be only one party who is humble and tolerant, but both parties can understand how to operate in marriage, if only one party blindly tolerates and changes himself, the other party will never be indifferent, and the party who thinks that it is forbearance will do so as a matter of course, and the other party will be able to make an inch, and it will not make the relationship stable for a long time.

2nd, blindly forbearance will make yourself suffocated in the marriage, the most important thing is to obtain happiness, to obtain the value of life, if we blindly tolerate change, swallow the other party's anger, and accept it, we will feel that we have lost the value of life, and also lost the meaning of life. Because we can't get happiness from this marriage, we will make this marriage become chicken ribs, and if we keep tolerating it, we will feel very aggrieved, which is quite detrimental to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to make the relationship last for a long time.

3. Forbearance can't change what many people have traditional ideas and believe that patience is needed in marriage, but for any modern person, patience is limited. Blindly forbearance will suppress one's body and mind, which is not good for one's physical and mental health, and it will not do any good for the lack of this marriage. Forbearance is useful if one's own forbearance can be exchanged for the understanding of the other party.

If the other party doesn't understand, they will think that the tolerant party is easy to bully, and the relationship will never last long. I think so.

If you are really angry at work, you can exercise, or go to KTV to sing K songs, vent, Na Yuan don't put unhappy things in your heart every day, so that for a long time, it is not good for you and your family.

Finally, I wish you a happy day.

Depending on the situation, for example, it is better to be patient with the weight brought by the exercise; It is not good to be patient with the repeated provocations of others.