How can we make people diligent and not be lazy?

Laziness is relative, you see him lazy, I think he may still feel diligent, mainly because the standards are different. The key to dealing with your own or someone else's laziness is to raise the bar. Examples:

Someone washes mosquito nets and sheets once a year, and his parents (or wife) think he is lazy, why? Because they have higher requirements for hygiene standards than him, they can't look past it, three months, or a month. People, things that can't be seen, and no one helps them do it, so they have to do it.

But if someone can see it for three years, then he may not wash it once in three years, and it will be even lazier. Therefore, if you want to be diligent, you must first improve your requirements and standards for this thing. This may also be the only good way.

So how do you raise the bar? You can let yourself see more good, demanding, and comfortable, just like a person who eats food for a long time, is used to eating, and eats badly, then he will generally have high requirements for cooking by himself. And if you are demanding, you are unlikely to be lazy.

For example, I have to put ten kinds of eight ingredients in a fried rice, diced and mined, which is not too troublesome at all, although I am also quite lazy. And some people are very envious of people's high education, high income, living in luxury houses, and driving beautiful cars, and the degree of envy is enough for him to cultivate interest in learning and work (which is considered indirect interest in psychology). Requirements, interests defeat laziness, and it is very painful not to meet the requirements, and then it is done.

If even the above methods are useless, then this person is really lazy, naturally lazy, and does not ask for it (or has a request, but the degree of demand is never comparable to the degree of laziness), there is really no way.

There's nothing you can't do if you want to.

Actually, laziness is a part of human nature. That is, laziness is innate. Everyone knows that laziness is the counterpart of industriousness, and industriousness is manifested only when there is laziness.

Speaking of which, it is not to let the landlord continue to be lazy, but to let the landlord realize that laziness is not his own bad problem, if it is a bad problem, this problem will definitely be able to get rid of it!

As I said above, laziness is common to everyone, but why are there still hardworking people in real life? Because these hard-working people, in their hearts, have a rule, and it is this rule that keeps them from being lazy

This criterion is like a goal

I think the landlord can understand, right?

Laziness is a psychological boredom. It manifests itself in a variety of forms, including extreme states of laziness and mild melancholy indecision. Anger, shyness, jealousy, disgust, etc., can cause laziness and prevent people from doing what they want.

The laziness of some of the students is highlighted in their daily studies and daily life.

Here are some specific manifestations of laziness:

1) Not being able to talk pleasantly with loved ones or others, even though you would love to.

2) I can't do what I like to do, I don't like to engage in sports, and I'm always unhappy.

3) Pondering and meditating all day long and being indifferent to the surroundings.

4) Can't fall asleep due to anxiety, poor sleep.

5) Daily life is extremely disorderly, no requirements, and no hygiene.

6) Often late, skipping school, and not taking it for granted.

7) Unable to concentrate on listening to lectures and completing homework as required, stationery is often not complete.

8) Don't know the purpose of learning, can't take the initiative to think about problems.

In the face of inert behavior, some people are confused and don't realize that it is lazy; Some people pin their hopes on tomorrow and always fantasize about a better future; And many more people want to overcome this behavior, but often don't know how to do it, so they have to get by, day after day.

How exactly should laziness be combated?

1) Learn to smile. You'll find out when you stop talking to your loved ones with cold, angry faces.

They actually like you and value you.

2) Do something that is very difficult or what you love the most, or you can do something that you have been thinking about for a long time. Don't just look at the outcome, as long as the time is full, it should be enjoyable.

3) Be optimistic and don't get angry at every turn. When faced with setbacks, anger is a sign of incompetence. The right thing to do is to calmly find out what the problem is, or to free yourself from it, or to discuss it with others, even if an argument is beneficial to remove obstacles.

The joy of this process can make you more studious.

4) Learn to affirm yourself and bravely turn your shortcomings into motivation for diligence. When studying and working, we must devote ourselves to striving for the most satisfactory results. Whatever the outcome, see the side of your efforts.

If the change method is not done well, the explanation is either not familiar with the technology, or some aspect of the learning needs to be improved. Your solid learning will eventually make you successful.

Work hard like this for a while, and you'll find yourself rarely feeling sorry for doing something. You will also find that with strong perseverance, optimism,