You are not right to say white lies

In Chinese culture, "faith" and "righteousness" constitute "faithfulness", which is a kind of humanistic spirit and a criterion for life. White lies are also a type of lies, just like benign malignant tumors in human diseases, no matter how different the results of the disease are, it is a disease and harmful to human health. The same is true of white lies, in the final analysis, white lies are not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and falsehoods, exaggerating, covering up, and distorting the truth.

On the contrary,"Integrity"It is a very important norm, and integrity is to seek"Really"is the pursuit of justice. The ancients said"The real one", sincerely. If you are not sincere, you can't move people.

"Lies" are called "lies" because they are false, untrue, and deceitful words. If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

Mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth."

It will make your opponents feel embarrassed and your friends feel relieved. Therefore, the opinion of psychology experts is: do not lie easily, even if it is a white lie.

The "lie" itself is dark, the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things, and the white lie itself is a lie.

To lie is to deceive, and thus to hinder integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper.

However, white lies and good faith are always contradictory, how can we directly conclude that white lies will definitely relieve the duty of good faith?

The other party's defense friend, since a white lie is a lie, how can it be good-intentioned, even if it is good-intentioned, then why lie, it is better to tell the other party directly, why deceive others.

If you are trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be trustworthy, you will be successful, and if you are trustworthy, the Chinese nation will be eternal.

Here, I would like to ask the other student, when a person loses his integrity, is his starting point still good?

A person is terminally ill, in order to let him spend the rest of his life peacefully, relatives and friends unanimously conceal him, there is no malice, and there is no selfish interest, but often not satisfactory, deception can not last, but the patient loses the rationality of cooperation and the opportunity to deal with personal affairs. The philosopher Cicela Pock warns that such lies can put people on the verge of a great decline in personality.

I think that even if a lie is well-intentioned, its negative effects abound Why do you need to give examples This kind of negative impact on the destruction of integrity is often more hidden, a kind of chronic poisoning Ignoring this poison is undoubtedly covering one's ears and stealing the bell

A lie is always a lie. Is it right to deceive others?

A ** family once wrote: "When we first try to lie, we are caught in the web of disorder we weave." ”

Even if it is a white lie, as a lie in itself, it is already an act as opposed to integrity, so whether the lie is in good intentions or not, being a lie itself will inevitably hinder integrity.

All lies have a need to exist. A liar must have a purpose in lying. No lie is true, regardless of the starting point.

In real life, we all know that honesty is the principle of many people's lives. But in some cases, we are forced to tell some white lies, in order to make others better, so is it right to lie with white intentions?

I think that when necessary, instead of telling the truth, it is better to use white lies to make the other person's heart feel good.

White lies can lead to positive results

Here are a few examples from my life. I have a very nice girlfriend who has a boyfriend. Then one day when I was on the street, I suddenly found that her boyfriend was holding hands with other girls, and they were very close together.

As a best friend, I was very angry at this time, and just a few days later my friend said that the boy had broken up with her.

In such a situation, although I can honestly tell my girlfriend that it was because this boy fell in love with other girls and stepped on two boats, so he broke up with you, but I think that saying this will make my girlfriend more angry, and it is better to make my good friend feel better than telling the truth.

Another example is to touch Wang Zhiru and said that when I was approaching the college entrance examination, in fact, there was a very big incident in my family, that is, my father had a car accident, his waist bent and went to the hospital, and he was also admitted to the intensive care unit. At that time, it was close to the time of the college entrance examination, I would call ** to my father every month, I suddenly found that my father's ** could not be through, only my mother answered, I vaguely felt that something was wrong and asked my mother, and then my mother said that my father had been very busy on a business trip recently.

But in fact, after I finished the college entrance examination, I found out that something happened to my father. If my mother told me the truth in that situation, it would definitely affect my mood at that time and affect my results in the college entrance examination.

Judge the situation and learn to turn

So many times, integrity is a basic principle for each of us. But in some special cases, when a white lie can really make the other party have a better life, I don't think it's necessary to die for that honest laughing principle. Integrity is a principle, but I also have to learn to turn.

We have to judge according to the situation at that time, for example, I gave two examples, during the college entrance examination, if I knew that my father had an accident, would I still be in such a good school? If a white lie can bring positive results and bring benefits to others, it is actually not contrary to the principle.

I think sometimes it's right, and it's also very good, and white lies are also a way of goodness, usually in order to achieve someone's kind education or persuasion, weaving false statements or information.

Literally, it is a kind of lie with good intentions and good intentions.

This kind of lie is a beautiful lie that has a positive meaning for the listener, is educational, encouraging, and gives hope to the bare and motivation to the slack. Lies, since childhood, I was told that lying is wrong and incorrect, but when I grew up, I found that the people around me did not tell the truth all the time, but said it selectively, and then I was told that lies are good and malicious, and white lies are good.

But isn't even a white lie? It's still a lie, but it can avoid a lot of sad situations, so is it the right thing to tell a white lie?

Everyone has their own answer, and I personally think that no matter what it is, it is a lie, but a white lie can make you feel better, you will not have a deep sense of guilt, and you can also convince yourself in your heart and be self-satisfied.

It's just that, for the person you're lying to, even if it's well-intentioned, do others really think it's good? Maybe sometimes the other party just wants the real truth, not to be hidden, and the other party's tolerance may not be as bad as they think, even if it is poor, it is better than the lie that will still be exposed in the end.

Although a lie does not mean that it is the truth, it means that he concealed the truth that he knew and told a lie about Dou Slippery.

In the final analysis, a white lie is just a beautification, and it is still a lie after all, it is all false, just self-satisfaction, self-righteousness that you are doing this to be good for the person who lies to you, but you are not him, how do you know what is good?

Straightforward language is really hurtful, but after consideration, a tactful tone to tell the truth and comfort the other party is a better choice, isn't it? No matter what kind of blow this truth will cause to the other party, but, in that case, you can still accompany the other party, no matter what happens, someone is by your side to share it, isn't it better than telling a white lie.

It depends on what kind of lie it is, and if something is too serious, it is still true, and no matter how good it is, it is a deception.