What white lies have you told others?

Almost all of the white lies I remember vividly were told to my son, such as the following trivial incident.

When my son was in the first grade, he had a parent-teacher conference at the end of the term, and at the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher criticized his son for not taking his class seriously and writing sloppily. When I got home, he chased me and asked, "Mom, did my teacher criticize me?"

In the face of his little nervous and scared and expectant eyes, I finally did not tell him about the teacher's criticism.

I said to him, "The teacher praised you at the parent-teacher meeting, saying that you have a lot of room for improvement, that you have recently written better than before, and that you can listen to the class for ten minutes without moving." The son said with wide eyes and disbelief

Are you sure? Mom, you didn't lie to me? "Of course it's true, Mom won't lie to you.

We can also take advantage of this holiday to get better. I said to him very sincerely and firmly.

He heard me say this and ran around me like a little sparrow, and I couldn't really express my joy.

Later, during that holiday, we worked together to get rid of a lot of minor problems, and the homework was written very neatly and seriously, and the teacher really praised my son in front of the whole class at the class meeting a month after the start of school. Since then, my son has worked harder.

Although I lied to my child, I think there is nothing wrong with such a white lie, it fills the child's little heart with beauty and yearning. The child itself is upward and good, and if we give him some encouragement and praise and appropriate guidance, I believe that they will get better and better. This requires more attention from mom and dad, as well as more patience and emotional stability.

If the child can't do well, he will use yelling and scolding to educate, so that the damage caused to the child is difficult to make up.

If I'm happy with you, please give me a thumbs up with your little hand, thank you.

I have told these white lies to others, for example, when someone confesses to me, I will tell him that I have someone I like and hope that he will give up, or that this person he is not doing very well. I'll compliment him on what he's doing pretty well.

The hairstyle she just made was not pretty, and in order not to break her heart, I said it was good-looking; Her newly bought clothes are not good-looking, and in order not to break her heart, I said they look good; I gave her an expensive gift, afraid that she would have a burden, and I said**It's not expensive.

When my father was about to die, he didn't want to live in the hospital, and he wanted to go home, and every time I told him, you listen to the doctor and take you home tomorrow. But I'll never be able to take him home.

My friend's family suddenly called me to say that I couldn't find my friend anymore and told me the bad news that his father had died. I didn't tell him, I was afraid that he wouldn't be able to accept the blow, so I said that his parents were doing well and I was quite worried about him.

A white lie is good from the positive side, easy to accept, and can also maintain the relationship between people, so as not to fall into a deadlock because of a certain thing or thing, but through the phenomenon to see the essence of the lie is a lie after all, it is deceptive, but with the addition of a good disguise, it becomes a way of covering up that the other party is easy to accept, and when the lie becomes the truth, it is like a boiled frog for the recipient, and it is necessary to accept the reality faced. (ii) The truth of cruelty is accumulative, unacceptable, and will lead to a stalemate or worse outcome of the whole thing because of the immediacy of the means, and cruelty is instantly criticized and becomes an unforgivable crime, while the truth is always ignored because the cruel way plays the main role. The white lie and the cruel truth are for an implementer to choose the way for his own situation and the desired outcome, but for accepting it, the result of both ways is the same, it is to face the facts, to solve the reality created by the implementer.

3) Let's talk about the truth again, is the so-called truth really the truth? Some implementers begin to want to use white lies to make up for their own mistakes or want to improve the bad situation, he may just want to be better, or to restore his position or impression in the other party's heart, and he does not imagine what uncontrollable bad things are made, and use white lies to round up his own shortcomings, and when they are handled well or acceptable to the recipient, the white lies play a positive role, on the contrary, the bad results are even worse. The method of dealing with things in a cruel way, in the same way for the recipient, if the result of his direct prediction is the same as that of the person who is cruel and can accept the so-called cruel way, then this method can also achieve good results, and vice versa, it will become a bad situation.

So is the truth here really that important? Truth itself is just a synonym, and as long as the different approaches and different ways of understanding on both sides can be prescribed, truth and untruth are not so important.

White lies, I believe many people have done it, and even been concealed by others for telling white lies......The premise of a white lie is that it is well-intentioned, if it is not a lie that is purely to deceive others, this is harmful!

(1) A white lie is good from the positive aspect, easy to be accepted, and can also maintain the relationship between people, so as not to fall into a deadlock because of a certain thing or thing, but through the phenomenon, the essence of the lie is a lie after all, it is deceptive, but it is only a way to cover up with the disguise of good intentions, which becomes easy for the other party to accept, and when the lie becomes the truth, it is like a boiled frog for the recipient, and it is necessary to accept the reality faced.

(ii) The truth of cruelty is accumulative, unacceptable, and will lead to a stalemate or worse outcome of the whole thing because of the immediacy of the means, and cruelty is instantly criticized and becomes an unforgivable crime, while the truth is always ignored because the cruel way plays the main role.

The white lie and the cruel truth are for an implementer to choose the way for his own situation and the desired outcome, but for accepting it, the result of both ways is the same, it is to face the facts, to solve the reality created by the implementer.

3) Let's talk about the truth again, is the so-called truth really the truth?

Some implementers begin to want to use white lies to make up for their own mistakes or want to improve the bad situation, he may just want to be better, or to restore his position or impression in the other party's heart, and he does not imagine what uncontrollable bad things are made, and use white lies to round up his own shortcomings, and when they are handled well or acceptable to the recipient, the white lies play a positive role, on the contrary, the bad results are even worse.

The method of dealing with things in a cruel way, in the same way for the recipient, if the result of his direct prediction is the same as that of the person who is cruel and can accept the so-called cruel way, then this method can also achieve good results, and vice versa, it will become a bad situation.

So is the truth here really that important? The truth itself is just a synonym, and as long as the different approaches and different ways of understanding the two sides can be prescribed, the truth and the untruth are not so important, or the essence of the truth is just one thing for the recipient, isn't it?

To avoid hurting someone's feelings: They may want to avoid hurting someone's feelings or causing them emotional distress, so they choose to tell a version that is gentler or more socially acceptable.