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Lies have never been appreciated by people, but white lies are often applied to our lives, sometimes, a white lie can turn a bad fight into a jade silk, and sometimes, it can delay the due pain.
So how do we view white lies? How to apply white lies? If we are the beneficiary or victim of a white lie, how do we deal with it, and how do we distinguish between good and bad faith?
Of course, we can't clothe ourselves with all our lies"Goodwill"This beautiful garment, do not tarnish the purity of white lies.
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The motive of a white lie is good, and if it will cause more serious consequences and the gains outweigh the losses, make up white lies;
2. If the willpower of the person facing the object is very weak and cannot accept the sudden blow, it will make up a white lie, which will not make it worse and add fuel to the fire, and that person will not have any problems in his heart, which can be regarded as a comfort. 3. In any case, a white lie always wants to achieve a good end, so I think there is nothing wrong with a white lie.
4. There is a saying that goes like this: a white lie is beautiful. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the hopes of others, the lie can be transformed into understanding, respect and tolerance, with magical power to soothe the hearts of others.
5. If it is for the sake of no longer suffering and no sorrow for yourself or others, what if there are more lies?
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1) A white lie is good from the positive side, easy to be accepted, and can also maintain the relationship between people, so as not to fall into a deadlock because of a certain thing or thing, but through the phenomenon to see the essence of the lie is a lie after all, it is deceptive, but with the addition of a good disguise, it becomes a way of covering up for the other party to accept, and when the lie becomes the truth, it is like a boiled frog for the recipient, and it is necessary to accept the reality faced.
2) The truth of cruelty is accumulative, unacceptable, and will lead to a stalemate or worse outcome because of the immediacy of the way and method, and the cruelty is instantly criticized and becomes an unforgivable crime, while the truth is always ignored because the cruel way plays the main role.
The white lie and the cruel truth are for an implementer to choose the way for his own situation and the desired outcome, but for accepting it, the result of both ways is the same, it is to face the facts, to solve the reality created by the implementer.
3) Let's talk about the truth again, is the so-called truth really the truth?
Some implementers begin to want to use white lies to make up for their own mistakes or want to improve the bad situation, he may just want to be better, or to restore his position or impression in the other party's heart, and he does not imagine what uncontrollable bad things are made, and use white lies to round up his own shortcomings, and when they are handled well or acceptable to the recipient, the white lies play a positive role, on the contrary, the bad results are even worse.
The method of dealing with things in a cruel way, in the same way for the recipient, if the result of his direct prediction is the same as that of the person who is cruel and can accept the so-called cruel way, then this method can also achieve good results, and vice versa, it will become a bad situation.
So is the truth here really that important? The truth itself is just a synonym, and as long as the different approaches and different ways of understanding the two sides can be prescribed, the truth and the untruth are not so important, or the essence of the truth is just one thing for the recipient, isn't it?
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Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.
2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.
The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even to others, causing losses to the interests of the collective.
The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:
People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't talk about the trust, they will have no place in society, and they can't do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.
If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.
Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.
Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in our lives. 2.
White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become a better place, the sedan car will be warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.
When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?
Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, telling the truth to his relatives who are already sick? Is this an undermine to integrity?
When the other party says this, it actually shows that the other party regards the feelings as more important, so if you say some things casually, the other party may think that they are not really said, so you don't reply too much, at this time you send a smiley face to the other party, if you really want to reply, you reply to the other party, okay, you can, I will pay more attention next time, and finally it is to say that you must get along sincerely in the process of getting along, which is very important.
Feelings need to be together for a long time, and feelings are not the basis of feelings! Time can solve everything! If you blush every time you meet him, or feel like he pays attention to you, that's good, and you like him too! The two are together!
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