Now 30 years old, girlfriend no, house no,

30 is a good age for a man, you can develop your career first, seize the opportunity, and then find a good woman and live a lifetime!

Isn't that a very successful life!

Be a man to look ahead, don't let a little flaw obscure your light, I believe that everyone will have their own strengths and advantages, as long as you grasp it well!

If you can live to 60, your life is only more than one-half, if you live to 90 years old, your life is only one-third, whether your life fails, to the end is when you die, don't give yourself too early conclusions, ask for help on the Internet, in fact, everyone can't give you too substantial things, it's just a kind of spiritual comfort, you can see your pain ** your dissatisfaction with the status quo, this may also become the beginning of your re-examination of your life, think about it, what do you want to do, How much effort will you put into what you are willing to do, and I believe that God rewards hard work! Come on!

Then get married at the age of 40, spend 7 or 8 years to make money, find a girlfriend to marry in 2 years, and it is normal for a man to have achievements and a family at the age of 40.

You dare to live, and you're still afraid of what those useless people do.

Now this society.

It's good not to starve.

It's best to live by yourself, Xiaoxiao is far away, feel at ease, why bother taking your wife, just be happy.

When you have money, you have everything, find a way to get money, it depends on your strength.

Please don't be discouraged, as long as you stand up straight, there is hope!

1. A boy who adheres too much to the view of "starting a career first, then starting a family".

Thinking that he can't afford the expenses of a family, and can't give the other half basic material security after marriage, he always says to the girls who are married at the right age around him: "In two years, I hope to save some money first, I don't want to fall in love before I don't have an RV, and I'm afraid that I can't give you the life you want." ”

This kind of boy is often not so wealthy, has a little vanity and wants to save face, which has become the biggest obstacle for them to enter love when they are young. In fact, most girls are not so materialistic, in the case that you give her enough love.

There are two kinds of people in this world that are most worth cherishing: a woman who never leaves when she is poor, and a man who is still willing to accompany you when the spring breeze is proud.

Don't live up to the affection of the girl who is willing to accompany you through thick and thin, vanity and comparison will never end.

2. Boys who are too rich.

There is a lot of money to make the ghost grind, the rich boy has never been short of girls who throw themselves into their arms, even if they take the initiative to pursue, the success rate will not be too low, if the appearance is not low and will dress up, then it is too popular with girls.

The richer the boys, the less they want to be in love, and the so-called girlfriends are just playing.

And falling in love means that he can only be loyal to one person, and he has to bear the shackles of love to clean himself and take responsibility, they will think that some gains outweigh the losses, and when he firmly chooses a girl, it is even more commendable.

3. The conditions are not as good as those of boys with high vision.

In fact, if this part of the boys really insists on their own mate selection standards, then there are the most girlfriends at the age of 30!

There are too many people in their thirties who don't have a house, a car, or a girlfriend. Countless: In today's society, there are a few people who can afford to buy a car with a dead salary!

It's easier to find a girlfriend without a car or a house than to go there! Alas! I can't find a girlfriend, only a single!

That's fine! The whole family is not hungry when they are full!

As long as the two of them are in love!

1 I think there are two reasons for this: first, the constraints of external conditions. It may be that the environment in which you live and work makes you rarely contact women, plus you are busy with work and have no time to go on blind dates, so you don't have a girlfriend when you reach 30.

In this case, I think it is still very easy to solve, because you are already in a hurry, and you have started to have a positive attitude towards this aspect from the heart, so it will not be so difficult to find a girlfriend who is in love. You can take more time to participate in blind date activities, and you can also sign up for blind dates online, etc.

The second aspect is the limitation of one's own conditions. Perhaps, the flaws in your personality, temperament, work and family environment have caused you to not have a girlfriend at the age of 30. For such problems, you need to start from yourself, work hard to improve your own conditions, and if you look average, you can attract them by cultivating your temperament.

A 30-year-old man should at least be enterprising, responsible, and make women feel safe, so that they can find a good girlfriend as a partner.

Before the age of 26, if you don't have a girlfriend yet, then you lack the advantage of being bold and thin-skinned.

If you still don't have a girlfriend before the age of 30, then you not only have the above shortcomings, but also lack money.

Good temper and willing to spend money! Broad-minded.