What it feels like to like someone and not being able to get close to him tells him

I think so, it's painful! Like him (her), but can't tell him (her).It's almost the same as "Everyone in the World Knows" in Mischievous Kiss!

Hello there! I'll give you a warm hug in the air. From your short description, you can feel your inner inferiority, lack of self-confidence, and lack of acceptance of yourself.

1. Build self-confidence.

When you have too much disacceptance and self-confidence in yourself because of your inner inferiority, and you are not well aware of this part, you will inadvertently project your inner non-acceptance emotions onto others, thinking that others will not accept such yourself.

In order to avoid being rejected, disliked, or denied because you are not good enough, you will inadvertently avoid taking the initiative to build relationships with others for some seemingly reasonable reason, such as "He likes you, but is superficial." Actually, this is also relieving the anxiety and anxiety that arises from not accepting your inner self.

2. Overcome fear.

Try to be with your inner fears, your insecurity, to experience, to feel, to be aware of your own fearful and uneasy emotional feelings, what is the hidden need? For example, the desire to be accepted, to be understood, to be loved, to be afraid of being denied, to be rejected, to be disliked, ......When you are able to perceive the hidden needs behind your fear and anxiety through your own fearful and uneasy emotional feelings, you will have more acceptance, understanding, and allowing yourself to have a certain amount of fear and anxiety, which is your desire to be accepted, welcomed, and loved, and hope that you will behave better in front of the opposite sex. If you are rejected, denied, or disliked, it doesn't mean that you are not good enough, it's just that you are not the type that the other party likes, or that the other party does not know you well enough.

You tell me? 3. Learn self-acceptance.

So, it's important for you to try to learn better self-acceptance and develop self-confidence. You can try to learn better self-acceptance by making a list of self-acceptance strengths, which can not only see your own shortcomings and shortcomings, but also see more of your own highlights and strengths. You can try to better cultivate self-confidence and enhance your sense of self-worth by keeping a gratitude journal.

You can also try to cultivate more interest and love for yourself in life and work, so that you can control more and more things. Of course, try to take the initiative to learn some social skills to improve your social skills, especially the ability to manage intimate relationships.

4. Rational thinking.

Like each other as long as you like a point, and life is to accept everything from the other person. Some aspects may be difficult for us to accept, which requires a period of running-in, and if the run-in is good, we can live for a long time; If the run-in is not good, it will naturally separate. This process requires both parties to be determined to be together, and to respect and tolerate each other.

There is also the bottom line of doing things can not be too different, the bottom line problem can be understood as the problem of three views, if the difference is too big, it is irreconcilable, if you give in to be together, it is the beginning of losing yourself.

The subject may wish to think about it, just want to talk about sweet love with each other, or live for a long time, if it is the latter, you need to understand it in all aspects, and you can't just rely on the heartbeat feeling to make a judgment.

If you like him, you must have the courage to talk to him, and you must have the courage to say your thoughts, everyone has the right to love and be loved, and it is very difficult to have someone you like, so you should cherish it.

You should calm your mentality, and if you like the other person, you should pursue it bravely, and don't leave regrets for yourself.

I think you should confess boldly, don't leave regrets for yourself, there's nothing wrong with liking someone, and don't take yourself lightly.

1. Because the more you like it, the more worries you will have in your heart, afraid that you are not good enough, afraid that he doesn't like what she does, afraid that his circle will not fit in, afraid that a confession will be embarrassing and even lose the opportunity to stay by his side, and even so detailed that even his own dressing will not be good enough. As a girl, this is from the heart, it is not vanity to be unable to go to an appointment because you don't have a well-fitting dress, it's not that you don't love enough, it's just that you like it too much and forget how you should exist.

2. I'm afraid that I'm not good enough, I'm afraid that I won't get the results I want, I'm afraid that I can't give you the future, I'm afraid that I can't afford what you want, I'm afraid that we're still suitable for maintaining the current relationship, I'm afraid that you have someone you like, I'm afraid that you have a better half, and even afraid that you're together but regretfully separated. Because I love you, I am afraid of a lot, and I am afraid of the unknown every day.

3. I'm afraid that he will find that he is not as good as he imagined in the end, afraid that he will be annoyed by himself, and he will not dare to bother anymore, anyway, he will have to leave sooner or later, it is better to get used to leaving him first and leave himself a little fantasy.

4. I don't dare to approach you because I'm afraid of losing you, just like parallel lines, there is never an intersection; Again, never far away. I'm afraid that if I get close to you and miss that intersection point, we will drift apart.

Because the person you like doesn't dare to confess in front of you.

Like a person, whether he can feel it, it depends on how to say it.

In layman's terms, when you like someone, you will inevitably have an impact on your actions and show something. If you are in the know, you will be able to feel the message from the other person, and this information is judged by the other person's behavior and reaction. This includes changes in movement, speech, physical signs, and more.

In other words, it is by virtue of your behavior that he comes to Rushi to obtain information.

All in all:It is possible for men and women to feel that the other person likes them, whether they transmit information through behavior or secretion of "pheromones". But this is not unconditional, and it can only be felt within the scope of what can be received.

Therefore, if you like the other person, then stay close to him. Then show it bravely in your own way, and he will receive it.