Falling in love with someone but our appearance is very different, is there any hope?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell me about me. I don't look very good, but I like a girl who is very beautiful and temperamental.

    I chased it, and I couldn't give up after it, and now I have confessed that I didn't promise to continue chasing.

    She said to me, at first, she couldn't even say she didn't like it, and then. .Don't like me.

    And then ....Maybe you like it, you don't like it. Now is the current situation, I don't know what will happen in the future, but I don't give up.

    Her feelings for me gradually changed. HeheThe road is self-made.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Even if you're with him, you're going to break up.

    Because it's okay if he's long. There will definitely be good-looking female friends, and you will definitely be jealous, and you may also have low self-esteem.

    You'd better not be with him.

    Also, most of his boys don't like their girlfriends to be taller than themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello. In fact, there are many ugly and handsome couples, they are living very well, and couples who do not match each other are very happy, because they value and love each other's connotation and soul more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he just likes a woman's appearance, then he is a failed man.

    People always get old.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better not to have it than to have it and lose it. Please find someone who loves you, or it will only hurt yourself deeper.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes! Make up for it with your achievements.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are no ugly women, only lazy women.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Are you sure you fell in love with him for that reason?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. It may be that you like a person too much, and you especially want to see each other in your heart, so when you have a tease, you will see someone who thinks it is him, which expresses an expectation of beautiful love in your heart.

    2. It may also be that although the appearance is not like Zheng Zheng, there are some similarities in the back and personality, which is naturally easy to make people have relevant associations.

    Therefore, you will feel that a person is like the person you used to like, even if they are not similar in appearance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I feel that a person is like someone I used to like, although the appearance of the two of them may be different, but some of the qualities between them may be similar, there is a common point, they may both like to read and be so slippery, and their personalities and behaviors may be similar, so you may feel a little familiar.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's because you miss him so much that you feel like someone who looks like him, and even if you don't look like him, you feel like him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's because you haven't forgotten your ex, so you always feel like this person, and sometimes you can't forget it when you meet such a person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think anyone can come up and choose a person just by looking at their looks. As far as I know, my parents' generation, those who got married in the seventies and eighties, also chose a partner who might not be ideal because of the interference of conditions. But at that time, they were also unexpected.

    said that he didn't look at his looks because he had known him for a long time or had other feelings for him. Otherwise, how could you not look at the looks.

    If it is a blind date, in addition to the conditions introduced to you by the matchmaker, will it also give you a **. If you are not satisfied, will you give up the idea of wanting to meet a real person? If a person is wealthy, his appearance can be ignored.

    That's also because he has a material advantage. But people always have to take the same, either appearance, or material, or true feelings, if there are no three, who will like whom, who will need whom.

    When you say that you don't look at her appearance at all, you also understand her or his inner self first, and then you can ignore your appearance. Because people are more likely to be unexpected. If you don't care, celebrities won't all be beautiful people.

    You must care about looks, first of all, you like him because you have accepted his appearance, if you can't accept it, you will definitely not like him, now there are many online dating failures on the Internet, the reason is that after seeing the real appearance, there is a large gap with **, resulting in a large psychological gap, which is unacceptable in comparison. Because the camera beauty filter is too powerful now, the cost of becoming handsome and beautiful is reduced and the efficiency is increased.

    Anyone can put on a good-looking skin, but who is willing to spend time and energy to create an interesting soul for themselves. Thousands of people like Huang Bo like him, is it because people don't care about looks, no, the fundamental reason is that this person is extremely talented and charismatic, but there are only one in a million people like this, and we ordinary people can meet a few. Most of the time, we still care more about looks.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I agree with this point of view, in fact, many times it is not a talented woman, one party has a particularly poor appearance, but he has a very attractive character.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't agree with this point of view at all, many people say that it's okay to have a relationship over time, but the impression of the first side is very important, and if the first side is not good, there will be no subsequent contact.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, if a person's inner self can attract others, this is true love, so in their eyes, such a person is also the most beautiful.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't agree with this point of view, and I think that any relationship is judged by appearance, and it all starts from appearance, and only in this way can two people be moved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are such people in society, but there are very few such people, and most people still care about their appearance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some people really don't fall in love with someone based on their appearance, for example, they are in a relationship with the dust net, they don't know each other's appearance, and they will also be attracted by each other's character in the world.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think some people don't pay attention to their appearance, but pay more attention to the person's character or his characteristics.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think this situation is only suitable for long-term love, not for love at first sight, if it is love at first sight, it still depends on the appearance.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There may be and may not be. Because, sometimes I like someone because of a feeling, and sometimes I like someone because of a specific thing.

    It's hard to say that I like this kind of feeling, I think I have a personal opinion, every opinion is correct, at least we can't say that our own is right, and others are wrong. For me, there is a specific reason for liking someone. Because there are two main reasons why I like my boyfriend, one is because of the memories when I was a child, and the other is because his eyes are particularly good-looking.

    I think these two reasons are indispensable. Without the memories of childhood, I would not have crossed paths with him; There's nothing about him that attracts me, and I won't be interested in him again.

    People who may believe that they are in love for a long time will feel that there is a specific reason for liking someone, and there may be many reasons for this, and the little things in getting along slowly accumulate into a good impression of each other. However, for people who believe in love at first sight, liking someone is based on feelings, and if it feels right, it will be eye-catching, and there is no need for a specific reason. Well, it seems that there is a specific reason for falling in love at first sight, that is, the other party's appearance.

    In this way, there is a specific reason for liking someone.

    In fact, if you like someone, it must be because the other party has something that impresses you, it may be character, it may be appearance, it may be that the other party is very good to you, etc. Feelings are sometimes very simple, sometimes they are very complicated, we can just go with the flow, and when fate comes, just grasp it. In my opinion, liking someone is a very happy thing

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