Why is it said that people with high IQ have low emotional intelligence?

Human beings have two attributes, one is independence, and the other is sociality. People with high IQs must be particularly independent and have a lot of fun in their own little world. But it doesn't mean that he has fun in the big world, and sometimes he doesn't need this big world, like why should an eagle care about the feelings of a bunch of chickens.

Although the chickens feel that the eagle is the same kind as themselves. Of course, if he wants to learn and pretend to be a chicken, then a person with a high IQ must be very good. It's just that some people don't bother to pretend.

But such people can become very lonely, because there is no kind of kind to be found in a pile of chickens. No one can know their true heart. He also longs for his kind, but he can't find it.

One more thing to add. Sometimes there is a language barrier, and people with high IQs don't know how to learn another language. For example, the eagle does not understand that he is an eagle, and he speaks a different language than the chicken speaks.

I didn't expect to learn another language, including whether he could learn another language, and then it would lead to problems with his sociality. Because in Eagle's opinion, the elders are indeed about the same. High emotional intelligence is very social and can make the people around you live comfortably, and others will make you comfortable at the same time.

But one consequence is that your independence will become poorer. You often have the feeling that you are like a sun, shining on others, but it is difficult to get something in return. A good time to share with some irrelevant people.

In fact, it is difficult for a person to deal with his independence and sociality, either independence affects sociality, or sociality affects independence. Very few people can balance it perfectly. Because independence and sociality are a pair of contradictions.

Independence requires you to be closed, and sociality requires you to be open.

A real master, horizontally, should be a person who is well-versed in human nature, from princes and generals to peddlers and pawns, all of whom are the objects of his observation. Vertically, the individual's positioning, what is the position in the industry, in the times, and even in history, and what can be done, all need the support of thinking logic - this realm is called "pattern". In contrast, IQ and EQ are only rudimentary criteria for judging.

So whether you have a high IQ or a high emotional intelligence, don't limit yourself to a corner and say anything that you don't care about dealing with stupid people. For people with high IQs, the fun of mind games is superb, but what is more interesting is actually life, human nature, and reality. When you want to stand on a higher level and look down on the world, please step out of your own world first.

People with high IQ, regardless of whether their EQ is high or not, his high IQ alone can blow up most people, even if he has low EQ, he can use IQ rational analysis to make up for or even exceed the EQ of ordinary people, they know very well what they want, what kind of behavior can achieve such an effect, and even through the most simple and effective way, others need to spend time, energy and money to manage the so-called relationship, he doesn't need to, he only needs to provide the most core competitiveness of things. Therefore, people with high IQ may show low EQ in front of their peers, but in front of beautiful women, in front of leaders, in front of bosses, in front of work, in front of opportunities, in front of difficulties, etc., their performance is completely explosive The so-called people with high EQ, okay? In the face of strength, emotional intelligence or anything is scum!

Yes, I'm not targeting you, I'm saying that everyone here is rubbish!

I think IQ and EQ are relative, a person's intelligence level is not too far from the public (unless you are a fool or Einstein), some people are smarter and some people are stupid, and they are all within a certain range, but the reason why it gives people the feeling of high IQ and low EQ is probably because the person's environment and work exercise IQ every day, so they ignore EQ and appear to be relatively low.

If a person's work is relatively rigid and research-oriented, then he is mostly exercising his IQ, but if a person often works and often deals with people and often goes out to socialize, then he spends most of his time exercising his EQ.

But I think there is no difference in nature, and it is impossible for anyone to completely balance their IQ and EQ, just as it is impossible for any of us to work in a job that exercises IQ and EQ at the same time.

And people with "high IQ and low EQ" are not necessarily very low EQ, I have some friends who have high IQ and average EQ, and they can only say that people are usually not good at communicating, but what to say and what not to say, how to take care of other people's feelings, they all understand.

So my preferred way of saying is, "My friend has a high IQ, and I don't want to say that my friend has a low EQ."

Because everyone has shortcomings, EQ and IQ cannot be confused.

EQ and IQ are really two different things, whether in school or at work, we can find that there are some people who have particularly good grades and work hard, but only in the interaction with people is not so smart, because EQ and IQ are really not the same thing, nerds are what we use to describe people who only learn high IQ, but EQ is not enough.

In fact, EQ and IQ can only be acquired through learning and exercise, and there will be great differences between people depending on the environment.

The impact of the educational stage:

The level of emotional intelligence and IQ is partly determined by innateness, but this part of the reason is not very large, and it is mainly cultivated by the acquired living environment.

Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to say that the environment has a decisive impact on emotional intelligence and IQ, and it is true. Most of them were raised in the environment in which we were raised.

1.IQ represents the upper limit of a person's ability to learn and understand, which is the basis for achieving high emotional intelligence and any achievement. People with high IQ can learn and master various knowledge and skills faster and better, which lays a solid cognitive foundation for future development and growth.

2.In a knowledge-based economy and skill-intensive societies, professional skills and ingenuity are increasingly important. People with high IQs are more likely to be at the forefront of social development and find high-paying jobs. This is an important motivator for personal development**.

3.Emotional intelligence also needs to be cultivated and accumulated to improve, but IQ is largely determined by innateness. A congenitally high IQ represents greater potential and room for development. This also means that even if the emotional intelligence is not high for a while, there is a strong ability to learn and improve.

4.The use of emotional intelligence also requires the right environment and opportunities, but intelligence itself is a strength. People with high IQs have the ability to solve problems and explore opportunities through wisdom and creativity, even in the face of adverse circumstances. This inner strength is invaluable.

5.The improvement of emotional intelligence also requires self-awareness and training, but high IQ is often accompanied by certain mindsets, such as breadth and depth, leaping and logical, etc. It takes a long time to cultivate these thinking qualities, but once formed, they can become important thinking for solving various problems.

IQ is a person's intelligence quotient, which is people's ability to recognize objective things and use them to solve problems; Emotional intelligence is a person's emotional intelligence, and it is people's character about emotions and emotions. IQ and EQ are both important psychological qualities of people, so is there a relationship between them?

On the surface, IQ and EQ are independent of each other, but they are not completely opposites. In the past, there was always a tendency to argue about the superiority and inferiority of the two, and the research based on them proved to be completely meaningless. The high IQ of the literary quotient is not pure, in the eyes of people is equivalent to an intellectual who does not ask about the world, although intelligent but not approachable, in the professional aspect may be erudite and talented, but at a loss for life, but such a person almost does not exist in life, just like a person with high pure emotional intelligence is rare.

Although it cannot be said that there is no ruler at all, the results obtained by the study are: people with high IQ will not have low EQ, and people with high EQ will not have low EQ.

IQ and EQ, although they show different levels of psychological quality, are both the foundation and premise of a person's success, and the two are closely linked and inseparable. Only by correctly understanding the differences and connections between the two can you better understand yourself, and any blind and random separation may lead you to a paranoid dead end.