Why beautiful women always have low EQ

The beautiful woman has grown up with praise and pampering since she was a child, and in the process she has come to understand that beauty is also a resource, and it is effortless to use compared to her own other resources. People are inherently lazy, and when they have a simple and easy resource to use, they will not use other resources of their own. The ability of people in all aspects can only be experienced in continuous failures and setbacks, and how can a beautiful woman have such an ability if she does not have such an experience?

Because God is fair that a woman's emotional intelligence is inversely proportional to her beauty.

Although some women are beautiful, no man really likes her, although appearance is a woman's first **, but temperament can also become a pig-killing knife, making this woman "cheap".

Especially for emotional intelligence, women with high emotional intelligence are the most attractive, while beautiful women with low emotional intelligence are the most unappetizing.

Daniel Goleman, a well-known doctor of psychology at Harvard University, once proposed four essential elements of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and social skills.

likes to complain and blame others, and is not good at tolerance.

Women who like to complain carry a lot of negative energy, have low self-esteem in their bones, have a not very good growth experience, they are dissatisfied with the status quo and unwilling to change, they can't accept the status quo of their failure, and they are immersed in pain all day long.

This kind of woman will pretend to be amiable on weekdays, because they are afraid that their negative energy will scare away others, and when you get acquainted with her, you will find that the words are in your mouth all day long: "I am really unlucky today", "I have never been lucky", "The boss makes me work overtime often, I feel that my life is hopeless".

At first, you are still willing to point out, but after a long time, you will find that the object of her complaint has begun to become you, because this kind of woman is used to attributing the reason to the outside world and never looking for the reason in herself.

Because they are unwilling to accept reality, they can only escape the pain in the form of self-deception, and you will find that you are his punching bag all day long, and when you confide in him one day, the other party immediately runs away.

The main reason is that they lack social skills and do not know how to empathize and communicate with others properly, not that they can't empathize, but they know how painful you are and can empathize with you, but they are not willing to empathize with you.

This is called cognitive empathy, that is, only the empathy of others stays at the cognitive level, this kind of woman is selfish and low emotional intelligence, anyway, I have a bad life, and it is a good thing to see you suffer like this. They lack the ability to tolerate others, and always hope that others will "save" them, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to understand and tolerate others.

Easy to be emotional, do not know how to control emotions.

The second manifestation of women with low emotional intelligence is that they are very emotional, they usually lack the ability to self-manage, and the ability to self-manage is: the ability to control the feelings that want to burst out, and the ability to express their emotions appropriately.