What is the reason why the man refuses to see the woman s family and the woman s friends?

It's not loving enough or not being prepared, that's my excuse for my boyfriend. We fell in love last year, and I have already met my boyfriend's parents, and I want my boyfriend to meet his parents but I have been unwilling, saying that if I don't have plans to get married, there is no need to meet, but recently he has been wanting me to move to his house to live with him (he lives with his mother, which is equivalent to the kind that lives with elders, the kind that lives together formally), I think since you want me to move in with you, is it so difficult to meet my family? And does it have to be said that you can only meet your parents if you plan to get married?

It's been half a year together, and I've quarreled several times recently because of this incident, and he also took back the keys to their house that he had taken the initiative to give me, which was a bit heartbreaking.

Too nervous, I don't know how to talk after meeting, what gifts to give, etc., I am afraid that I will leave a bad impression if I don't handle it properly, or I am not confident in myself, and I am afraid that the woman's parents will ask sensitive issues such as RVs, and the man is obviously not ready, so he quickly escapes.

I feel that the relationship with the girl is not deep enough to meet the parents at this stage, and meeting the parents is a very serious matter, basically talking about marriage, so I don't want to alarm the other party's parents, so as not to break up in the future, and the parents have to get involved, which is very troublesome to deal with.

Personally, I don't think this man has any idea of being responsible. First of all, I don't see your friends, I don't make your circle of friends, and it is completely contradictory to what you say about "the man has good communication skills"; Secondly, I don't see your family, given that you have been in love for many years, a normal man should actively ask to take the woman back to meet his parents, not to mention that the woman takes the initiative to meet him.

This is not love, otherwise how could I not see my parents, I'm afraid I haven't thought about it at all. As a student party, I have met my parents, my boyfriend and I are together in college, he is a year older than me, he signed a job to the south, and I am in the north, so he quit his job before I graduated, but our school professional counterpart is particularly strong, and biased towards boys, I did not succeed in signing a job, after my boyfriend resigned, I took him to meet my parents, relatives and friends, my family also recognized him, he also took me home, and it is still quite satisfying.

Regardless of whether it is your first love or a few years of love, just say that you can find your next home soon if you leave him now. If you can, Shenma is not a problem. If you can't, hurry up and learn to dress up and learn to socialize - note that I'm not teaching you to break up, but to remind you that now that you're young, your future is uncertain, and your mind is still shallow, why are you so anxious to put on a yellow-faced woman who doesn't marry him!

If you don't see it, you won't see it, and it's the same as if you can't get married.

A person's boyfriend neither integrates into his circle of friends nor takes himself into his circle of friends, the only purpose is to disappear at any time, and he does this to reduce all costs for disappearing, so break up quickly.

All I can say is that the man is too shy, doesn't he want to change his introverted personality for your sake? Are you sure he really cares about you? Are you sure there's a need to continue? Isn't this simply not loved!

If the woman's family hasn't seen you yet, they may not know enough about you or have some worries and doubts. In this case, you can consider the following methods to solve the problem:

1. Communicate with the woman: First of all, you need to discuss this issue with the woman and listen to her opinions and opinions. She may be able to help you better understand her family's thoughts and find ways to resolve them.

2. Respect the woman's family: Even though the woman's family hasn't met you yet, you should respect their thoughts and feelings. You can show them your respect and sincerity by writing letters or ** etc., to establish a certain connection and relationship.

3. Seek opportunities to meet: In order to change the perception of the woman's family, the best way is to meet in person. You can ask the woman if there are any opportunities or occasions for her family to meet, such as dinners, birthday parties, or other social events.

4. Show your good qualities: When you have the opportunity to meet the woman's family, show your good qualities. Be polite and humble and actively participate in the conversation to showcase your strengths and values.

5. Give time: Finally, after you meet with the woman's family, give them enough time to think and decide. Don't force any results, but respect their decisions. If they still don't accept you, accept it, make trouble and respect their opinions.

Personally, I don't think this man has any idea of being responsible.

First of all, I don't see your friends, I don't make your circle of friends, and it is completely contradictory to what you say about "the man has good communication skills";

Secondly, I don't see your family, given that you have been in love for many years, a normal man should actively ask to take the woman back to meet his parents, not to mention that the woman takes the initiative to meet him.

1.Or he actually has low self-esteem, so low self-esteem that he has some psychological and personality problems, so he refuses to see your friends and parents;

2.He's not prepared to be responsible for you. I have the idea of leaving you alone when I find a better one, so I don't want to settle down, and I don't want to spend time cultivating relationships with your circle of friends and your parents and relatives. I don't want you to touch his circle either. So as not to be embarrassed and troublesome in the future.

3.He stepped on two boats with one foot.

I suspect that the reason why he is so perfunctory to you and refuses to pay attention to you is also because of your spoiling.

He thinks you can't live without him, or in his eyes you are a spare tire that you can get rid of at any time.

To put it bluntly, but I hope you can sober up, and no responsible man will hide it from this.

If the woman's parents do not agree with the man, can the man come to the woman's house to meet often?

The woman's parents do not agree with the boy's words, and the man does not recommend guessing the woman, and the family often meets, because in the process, it is possible to make the other party feel that stalking will destroy some of the goodwill of others. I think it's okay to come to the woman's house, but after you come, you should change the attitude of the woman's parents, eat more with the woman's father, and buy more gifts for the woman's mother, so that you can change some of your views on the returning party.