Why do girls in love always want to change boys?

Because whether it is a boy or a girl, you have to admit that there will definitely be certain changes before and after falling in love, especially the attitude towards each other, maybe the boy will be cautious before, to be able to joke with you at will, and some other things that can deeply expose his character, because he has regarded you as his person, he loves you so let down his guard and disguise, but these disguises are not to deceive you, but he wants to show the best side of himself in front of the person he loves the most, As the relationship develops, the girl may also learn more about the boy's shortcomings and shortcomings, so it feels like the boy has become less perfect than he once was. That's why girls always want boys to be what they think they are.

Men and women in love always want to show their good side to each other and the people around them. After all, human beings are social animals, and it is impossible to survive independently of society, and if they want to live a more wonderful and dignified life within a certain range, they naturally have to put in more effort and sweat. In particular, one party is a positive perfectionist who has certain requirements for the quality of life in the future, and she hopes that the other party will become more and more excellent, more and more in line with the ideal object in her heart, so she will naturally hope that the other party can continue to move towards perfection, make herself feel better, and at the same time satisfy her little vanity to make the people around her envious.

If a woman truly loves a man, she naturally wants him to be good, if something is harmful, she wants him to leave as soon as possible, and if something is beneficial, she wants him to have as many as possible. With the heart of the Virgin, the woman summons the man to turn away from the danger and return to the world. Women often dominate the family lifestyle, how to make the home clean, how to make the food delicious, are all things that women are willing to take care of and are good at, and it is even more important for men to benefit.

If a man does not act according to the woman's good intentions, the woman must feel very frustrated, and over time she will become hysterical: why don't you understand that it is for your own good?

Ask yourself, do we only want to change each other in love? The vast majority of people around me are not only in love, but also in friends, colleagues, and relatives. Everyone wants others to follow their own ideas.

It's just that, due to the different distances of the relationship, our politeness plays a big and small role. When we don't ask strangers to change, it's because people don't know each other, and politeness and distance are important.

Asked a woman, you can't transform the other party, why don't you transform yourself? Yes: It's too hard to transform yourself!

Yes, it is so difficult to transform yourself, and it is difficult to transform others in Shu Dao! If a man doesn't want to change, and a woman's efforts to transform are forced, the twisted melon will never be sweet, and the result can only be a lose-lose situation. If a man wants to change, but he can't do it himself, the woman will help him at this time, and the result must be an increase in the sweetness of intimacy.

On the street, there are many people with positive views, and in marriage, there are especially many women with positive views. Therefore, in the eyes of women, transforming men is politically correct, it is natural, it is taken for granted, it is good for you and me, it is to love me and love me quickly. Before marriage, the two were happy because they were attracted to each other like magnets, and the advantages they lacked existed in each other.

Suddenly, one day, all the advantages of the other party are gone, but the disadvantages are more and more. At this time, whether the other party is reversing or you are slipping.

There is a group of women who are self-centered and like to demand changes from men in the name of love. Stuff littering? You don't love me! Eating out loud? You don't love me! I'm a princess, so you have to be a prince.

I always wanted to change, but I was so tired, and then we all ran into each other like this, and whoever I wanted to change didn't like it, so we ran in together.

If a boy is willing to change himself for a girl, it means that the boy listens to the girl, but he is not sure that the boy likes the girl. First of all, it is because the opinion of the girl is also good for the boy. For example, girls say that boys should pay attention to their dress and grooming.

In the boy's opinion, if he cleans himself up very neatly, he can also attract the attention of other girls, so he is naturally happy to do it. So it doesn't mean that the guy likes the girl. <>

Of course, this also marks the case, if the boy is willing to do something more difficult for the girl, such as quitting smoking or quitting gaming. This is because quitting smoking for boys is equivalent to one less way to relieve stress, and quitting games is also the same reason, which is different from the previous in order to make himself better, quitting smoking or quitting games can make him healthier and devote his energy to other things, but it will also make him lose something, and it is also something that he is accustomed to in life. So if a guy is willing to change all the habits he has had over the years, it means that he likes the girl.

Of course, as a girl, don't be complacent just because this boy is willing to make changes for himself, and even rely on him to like you, because he will become better and better while making changes, and get the favor of other members of the opposite sex, so you should also give this boy a certain reply, which can not only encourage him to continue to get better, but also let him remember your support all the time. After the two of them are together, he will also remember this kindness. <>

Feelings are mutual, while the other party pays for you, you also have to pay for each other appropriately, if there is a person who is willing to change for you, make yourself better, and even give up some of the habits you like, then he is true love for you. And for the sake of each other, you also have to properly restrain some of your previous bad points, so that two people can make progress together and enter the palace of marriage.

It's true, this guy definitely wants to be with a girl for a lifetime, so he is willing to change himself for the sake of a girl.

It does mean that the boy likes the girl, but a boy may change for many girls.

Personally, I think so, in this day and age, there are not many such boys, and they should be cherished.

Summary. Girls like boys, and it's normal to fall in love with boys.

Girls like boys, and it's normal to fall in love with boys.

If a girl wants to be a boy and fall in love with a boy, that's not right.

No, I'm a girl, but I want to be a boy and fall in love with a boy.

Why do you think so?

I usually like to watch **, and then I have a kind of longing for that kind of story, not satisfied with my gender, heterosexuality makes me feel disgusting.

The gender is given by the parents, and we cannot change it at will.

You are now repelling the same sex.

Psychological changes have occurred.

How to correct it.

First of all, you have to face up to your gender.

Then when talking about friends, you must be looking for boys.

You can try to find a guy to fall in love with first.

Then feel it.

Don't be repulsive just yet.

I would feel disgusting when I was close to a guy as a girl, I tried, but in the end I was disgusted.

Is it a disease?

Yes, you have a rejection mentality right now.

You don't have that feeling, you relax a little.

Thanks, I see.

You're welcome, if there's anything you don't understand, you can just send me.

I hope mine can help you Oh, please end the trouble and give me a 5 likes, thank you.

Yes. As long as it's positive and positive, I'm more than willing to change.

In this world, there is no perfect person, we are all advantages and disadvantages coexist, two people with different growth environments and circles, there will always be a lot of different places that we need to adapt, if we blindly live according to our own way, although there is nothing wrong, but it may bring a trace of difficulty to the long-term and stable relationship between the two. Of course, we are not blindly degrading ourselves for the sake of each other to adapt to each other, nor are we trying to cater to each other to make ourselves humble and unlimited, but to change for the people we like, it should be to become better, to make the relationship between the two more harmonious, and it is also progress for me.

It is said that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, it may be easy for two people to be together, but if you want to maintain a relationship for a long time, you need us to manage, if you only take care of your own feelings and don't care about others, then there will always be a person who will feel tired and no longer want to continue this relationship.

I used to be a person who liked the cold war very much, once I quarreled with my boyfriend, then I might not say anything, just didn't want to pay attention to him, our relationship was once very stiff, but I didn't want to give up this relationship, so after every quarrel, I no longer had a cold war, and began to try to communicate with him that I was **unhappy,** needed him to improve, and slowly he began to change subtly, and began to do things to take care of my feelings, and the two of them became more in love. In fact, it is difficult to change at the beginning, because you need to put down your face, but when you change, you will find another sky, and there is no longer a gap with the person you love, and there is no longer suspicion.

When we are alone, you may not know some of the contradictions and problems you get along with others, and the two will be exposed a lot after being together, so we need to constantly adjust our relationship mode in the process of getting along, the other party is a person who loves cleanliness, then we become clean is to make the whole family refreshed, the other party is a person who does things efficiently and does not procrastinate, then we become more efficient to do things, which is a very good change for work and life. The other party is a very good person, so we work harder to get the diploma, which is a good change to make ourselves better.

Therefore, it is a good thing to change yourself, as long as it is developing in a good direction, as long as you can be better at yourself, and progress with your favorite people, it is the most beautiful thing in the world.

Zhang Ailing said that if I like someone, I will be humbled to the dust, if I really love someone, I am willing to make changes for him, willingly.

There are many things that are unreasonable, such as the sky is blue, the grass is green, such as you are willing to have no reservations about someone when you never open your heart easily, such as that person is obviously ordinary, but just a glance makes you remember it for a lifetime.

In a relationship, in the process of continuous run-in between the two people, it is natural to make corresponding changes in order to make the relationship more harmonious, and if there is a bottleneck in the relationship, in order to adjust the relationship, change is even necessary.

But what needs to be changed is not just a matter of one side, just like two people rowing a boat together and one person in charge of one side, to let this boat move forward smoothly, it must be both sides you oars and I oar, work together to move forward, relying on individuals alone will only be spinning in place and stagnating.

Change does not mean that you want to yourself, blindly trying to please each other and cater to each other's preferences, and eventually you will find that you have become a person who even feels strange to yourself.

The change should be that both parties are willing to learn from each other, get used to each other's personalities, make progress with each other, and slowly develop the same habits, while maintaining their own characteristics, attracting each other's places and giving full play to their own advantages.

Change is the adjustment that is made willingly after influencing each other, rather than making changes for the sake of each other. If there is such an idea of changing for the sake of the other party, it is undoubtedly a shackle and a heavy burden to the other party.

Like a person, follow him to slowly get better, and change each other's original shortcomings. This may be the greatest value of two people together!

I don't think you should change yourself easily, a good relationship is to seek common ground while reserving differences. Many women who are in selfless love will say this and do it. But is that reasonable?

First of all, the key to the relationship between the sexes is "mutual satisfaction."

01) Due to the different family environment and acquired education received by women, there are great differences in everyone's personalities, and we are all unique in this world. Because this difference gives us a unique charm, the opposite sex can attract each other and then move towards a more intimate relationship. The key point of the relationship between the sexes is mutual satisfaction, not "I want to be what you like".

In a relationship, we often fall into a misunderstanding, when we feel the other party's cold, we will feel whether we are not good enough, whether it is because we are not the best in the eyes of the other party.

02), the reason why a man chooses to date you in the first place and chooses to enter into marriage with you is yesBecause what he likes is the original simple you, and he is attracted by your unique charm. In a relationship, it is precisely because both parties have different personality traits that the whole family relationship becomes colorful, if once the woman becomes what the man wants, then she loses her unique personality charm. Loving a person in the midst of differences will certainly tolerate his inadequacies, and all the good and bad will be revealed in the relationship between the sexes, on the contrary, ifIf we deliberately become a pleaser, then we will naturally lose the dominance in love.

A healthy relationship is equal, a woman worthy of a man's love, and she will not be humbled in this relationship. Seeking mutual satisfaction and mutual cooperation will make this relationship go further. ThoseWomen who choose to change themselves for the sake of men often backfire, they lose their original self and become soulless, and at the same time they cannot get the love of men.