Q: How can men be willing to spend money for women?

A man's love for a woman is by no means merely verbal, but must be materially reciprocated.

Many women may feel that it doesn't matter if a man is willing to spend money for himself, as long as his heart is on himself.

However, material things are the foundation of all feelings, and a woman who feels that talking about money is too cheesy will never get the most beautiful love.

With men, women should be independent in spirit, but also learn to let men spend money for you. It's not matter, it's reality.

After all, whether a man is willing to spend money is also a criterion for measuring whether a man loves deeply enough.

A lot of men's motivation to make money comes from women, and they are willing to pay more for the sake of their beloved.

On the contrary, if together, men have always been more concerned about spending money, and women have to think about it.

Of course, it is not excluded that many men are relatively straight men, and without this awareness, women can guide men to spend money for you.

Someone said, "The person you go to see will not remember you at all, he will only remember the people he has met on his trek." ”

I think so. In fact, a man will not be grateful to the woman who saves him money and thinks about him everywhere, he will only care about the woman he has spent money on.

So women, when you get along with the opposite sex, you have to learn to let the man spend money for you, and guide him to spend money for you willingly.

The method is actually not difficult, in psychology, psychological suggestion occupies a very important position.

If you want a man to spend money for you, you have to keep hinting to him when you get along that spending money for you is worth it and will be rewarded.

In fact, some men are reluctant to spend money, but they are afraid that there will be no response after paying, and if your psychological cues work, men will follow your ideas.

Start with AA.

If you ask a man to spend money for you as soon as you come up, the man will definitely think that you are very materialistic and worship money, so as to have a bad impression of you.

But when two people are together, there will always be some overlap in money, and if one party has always paid the money, it must be a lot of pressure.

A woman can hint to a man, go out with a man or eat or watch a movie, and she can go with the flow and offer the AA system, and both of them will pay half.

Men still have a good impression of women who take the initiative to pay money, after all, in the eyes of men, it means that you don't want his money, only his love.

Over time, men will feel that you are really good and worth cherishing, and they will be wary of you and will be willing to spend money for you.

Of course, in terms of spending money, you can't go too far, you can't let men overspend for you, everything must be within a reasonable and moderate range.

Many men are more interested in women who are financially independent and do not blindly ask the man to pay when dating.

In his opinion, such a woman has a very positive outlook, and she will be more reasonable on many issues, and it is a very comfortable and free thing to spend the rest of her life together.

It's very simple, care for him, take care of him, and really understand him.

Care about him and make him like you, so that you can spend a man's money.

The person who really loves you doesn't have to try your best to get him to spend money on you, he will be willing to take the initiative to be in front of you, and in the same way, the person who is reluctant to spend money on you is trying your best in vain.

If a man likes you, he will spend money for you, and he doesn't like that you are reluctant to buy you something.

1.Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with the man to understand his views and attitudes towards this phenomenon.

Maybe it's because he thinks women should be self-reliant, or because he's not doing well financially. Through communication, it is possible to better understand his thoughts and feelings and find solutions to problems.

2.Respect his ideas: If a man is reluctant to spend money on a woman because of different values, then his ideas need to be respected.

You can communicate with him and find a balance that is acceptable to both parties. A man can be asked to take on some other responsibilities, such as housework, taking care of children, etc., to make up for his reluctance to spend money on women.

3.Build trust: If a man is reluctant to spend money on a woman because of self-esteem or other reasons, then trust needs to be built.

Through praise and encouragement, a man can feel his worth and importance, and his self-confidence and self-esteem can be improved. At the same time, through his actions and words, he can feel your support and trust in him.

4.Joint planning: You can work with men to make a common plan, including economic, life, work, etc.

It allows the man to understand your thoughts and needs, while also understanding his thoughts and needs, and to find a way that is acceptable to both parties. According to the actual situation, a reasonable budget and plan can be formulated to ensure that the quality of life and economic situation can be guaranteed.

5.Sharing financial responsibilities: Involve a man in the planning and management of the family's finances and make him feel responsible and important.

You can communicate with him regularly about your financial situation and make decisions on important financial matters, such as buying a house, investing, etc. Make a man feel his contribution and influence, thereby increasing his economic self-confidence and sense of responsibility.

It is important to note that everyone's situation is different and measures need to be taken accordingly on a case-by-case basis. Whatever approach is taken, there needs to be respect for the man's thoughts and feelings, while also being concerned about the economic situation and quality of life of both parties. If the man's attitude has seriously affected the relationship and life of both parties, then consider seeking professional counseling and help to solve the problem.