How to deal with people who do not have self respect? What will others do to a person who does not r

Life always likes to use a certain conflict to make us experience it, therefore, we are also used to conflicts to temper the days of life.

However, if you meet people who are unreasonable and like to reverse black and white in conflicts, I believe that many people must stay away as far as they want.

Without it, ordinary people can still reason with them, but when you meet them, you can't even talk about reasoning - Xiucai meets soldiers, and you can't explain it reasonably!

I believe that many people will be curious about what kind of environment creates such a person after meeting this kind of person.

In fact, the root cause of their unreasonableness and unreasonableness lies in their eagerness, even all the time, to gain an advantage or leadership position to obtain the security they need.

It's just that the process of fighting is like fighting with animals for the position of leader, and the way is not very pretty, and it does not fit our definition of daily competition or relationship.

If one side competes strongly, the other party will naturally be wronged.

Those who meet them naturally become a relatively weak position.

Anger and grievance are both inevitable emotional products and have nothing to do with personality. Therefore, don't think that it is because of your weak personality that you will always mind.

People who don't respect themselves will be very annoying, everyone looks down on them, and they also hate such people, they don't have self-respect at all, do you want others to be polite to him, such people just don't know how to be polite, have no cultivation, don't learn and have no skills, so how can you make others respect him, and with such a person will learn bad, I don't like such people.

A person who does not respect himself will not be respected by others, and a person who does not even cherish and respect himself will not be respected by others.

It is terrible for a person not to love himself, he can affect his quality of life and at the same time have a bad influence on other people. For example, small aspects affect relationships, and large aspects can cause harm to others.

So how a person does not love himself, here is an elaboration from three aspects:

1. Education of the family of origin.

When I was young, there was a type of parents who were very special, that is, they were particularly strict with their children, and their children made progress, never praised and praised their children, and once the children made mistakes, they would be hysterical and reprimanded, this kind of parents who pursue perfection too much is a wrong way of education, they only require their children to learn well, and do not pay attention to other aspects, such as the cultivation of brave and strong emotional intelligence.

So the child who grows up in such a family is destined to be a tragedy, the child does not feel the love of his parents, lacks a positive and sunny attitude, they accumulate too much negative energy in their hearts, and often feel that they are not born by their parents. Their dark side will make them deny themselves, they will never live up to the requirements of their parents, which makes them feel like a failure and in turn think that they are worthless.

Second, the relationship with the partner is not harmonious.

There is a group of people who start to have a very close relationship with their partner after marriage, but after a period of time, they will quarrel and conflict with them. There are many reasons for the essence of this phenomenon, but in the final analysis, we still don't know how to love. They will think that the other person does not listen to them and does not know how to be considerate of themselves, in fact, what they ask the other person is to be their ideal other half, and when the other party does not meet this requirement, they will be upset and dissatisfied, and then lose their temper.

This is a typical selfish bandit, the partner is a living person, he has his own personality preferences, you don't have to ask the other person to do exactly what he directs, this kind of mentality towards the partner is full of absolute selfishness and compulsion, and this mentality stems from the personality problem, that is, the lack of love for oneself.

3. Education of children.

There is a group of parents who are very strict with their children and do not allow their children to make a mistake or mistake. This type of parent is also a manifestation of a lack of love, and they themselves believe that they are failures, and they pin all their hopes on their children, who bear too much weight in life.

However, such parents do not seek progress and development, and play cards all day long and have nothing to do, but they require their children to be very strict. In fact, they have given up hope in themselves, their hearts are painful, and their only hope is pinned on their children, hoping that the children will get ahead.

I understand your feelings, but I think that no matter what, you should respect her as much as possible, because whether she respects you or not is the external manifestation of her personal cultivation, and whether you respect her is the external embodiment of your personal cultivation, and don't lower your own cultivation just because others have low cultivation.

People who don't respect themselves certainly don't get the respect of others. It is generally looked down upon and ridiculed by everyone. Of course, no one usually makes friends with him.

Because people who don't respect themselves may not respect others either. This kind of person may not be as sensitive, so they usually don't get angry with others.

A person must first be self-respecting: a person who does not respect himself is looked down upon by others; Don't go to occasions that shouldn't go: don't go to occasions where powerful people gather, even if you are invited, don't talk too much; Be honest and do things in a down-to-earth manner:

Do things for people with faith and steadfastness; Far from the villain, do not argue with it, close to the gentleman but not flattering; Be kind: do what you can to be a caring person; Facing ugliness, injustice, and injustice

If it is to make others laugh, others will be happy and will bully him, without considering his feelings and bottom line.

If you do evil, others will stay away.

Those who do not respect themselves generally do not receive real respect from others.

The so-called dignity and face should actually be earned by oneself.

Your attitude towards yourself largely determines the attitude of others towards you.

People respect each other, first of all, people should respect themselves before they can be respected by others. If a person is not self-respecting, then there is no need for others to respect you.

This question is very simple, how can others pay attention to him if he is not self-respecting? Others will definitely tease him and disrespect him!