When the man invites his ex girlfriend to come, what is his psychology?

As we all know, marriage is a major event for everyone's life, and according to traditional Chinese customs, everyone will make proper preparations before getting married, not only for the venue and wedding ceremony.

For the design of each detail, the sister will also invite relatives and friends of both men and women to participate. However, some men will choose to invite their ex-girlfriends when they get married. <>

For this situation, some women will accept it calmly, while others are very concerned. In fact, in terms of specific analysis, choosing to get married is a summary of previous relationships, whether you have loved several people before, or have been loved by several people, they are all called exes at the moment you step into the wedding. In the future, the man will only need to be responsible for the one in front of you now.

Inviting an ex-girlfriend to participate may also have a layer of meaning in saying goodbye to the past, and drawing a successful end to the previous life. <>

And it is not necessarily that there will be a lot of trouble between boyfriends and girlfriends when they break up, and there are many people who are still friends after breaking up. Attending each other's weddings as friends is nothing. In real life, there are not so many plots of wedding robbery written on **.

Since the man dares to invite his ex-girlfriend to participate, the woman must also accept it generously. A beautiful and happy wedding is about being responsible for both of yourself. The man may just want to tell him in front of his relatives that he is doing well!

Try to think about things in a simple direction and don't complicate things. <>

At such a critical moment as marriage, try to make your heart knot clear to the man, and if you really suggest it, you should also explain it to her directly. Mere repression will only turn this matter into a knot in your heart, and it will explode one day in the future, which will be important for your future married life.

Please don't think about it, if you're married, you're your person, maybe he's friends with his ex-girlfriend, but if he sees it, he will be invited if there's nothing to come.

I think he should be in a show-off mentality, because his other ex-girlfriends came over just to tell him that I could live better without you.

Many people will invite their ex when they get married, and they also want their ex to see how happy they are now, but the ex generally does not come to participate.

The man proposed to break up, and when he learned that his ex-girlfriend was married, he would feel uncomfortable, because he felt that his things were violated and made him feel very uncomfortable, and the other party would feel that the position that belonged to the other party was instantly empty, and the beauty that had been there disappeared.

Even if the man proposes to break up, but the two people have been together will have an impact on themselves, and the ex-girlfriend will feel very uncomfortable when they get married, after all, they really care about each other. Breaking up is a fact that cannot be changed, I once thought that I would enter marriage with the other party, but when I learned that the other party was married, I completely woke up, and the original two people no longer existed.

When I learned that my ex-girlfriend was married, I felt very reluctant, and I still had certain feelings for the other party, even if I proposed to break up, but I would reserve a place for the other party. Breaking up is not suitable for two people, but the fact that once loved each other cannot be changed, and the other party's marriage will take away that attachment, which will make people feel very uncomfortable. For himself, his ex-girlfriend is something that belongs to him, but when the other party gets married, he will feel that he really does not belong to him, and that feeling is completely far away from him, and the other party does not belong to him.

Maybe for himself, although the relationship between himself and his ex-girlfriend has ended, the other party still has a thought in his heart, but the other party's marriage will widen the distance between the two people. The ex-girlfriend has a family of her own, which means that she can't have any ideas, she can only end up with the other party completely, and she can't have any thoughts anymore, and this relationship completely collapses.

Ex-girlfriends can't be open-minded when they get married, after all, the other party once fell in love, and they will feel that their things are desecrated, which will make people feel hurt. Two people once fell in love once, and the other party's marriage was an unacceptable result, which made people feel that it was a very sad thing.

I think this is a very normal phenomenon, after all, two people were also sincerely in love with each other in the past, although now both of them have a new relationship, but they will still miss that time, and when they hear that their ex-girlfriend is married, they will also feel a faint pain in their hearts. I believe that everyone will have a particularly unforgettable relationship experience in their lives, even if two people have been separated for a long time, they will feel very uncomfortable when they learn that the other party has a new relationship, especially when they are about to get married. <>

Especially for boys, when they hear the news that their ex-girlfriend has a new relationship or is going to get married, it will be very uncomfortable in their hearts. In fact, this is not to say that I can't let go of my ex-girlfriend in my heart, but there will still be some loss in this relationship. Therefore, it is obvious that sadness has nothing to do with liking, and many people don't know how to explain their mentality.

Especially when I have a new relationship, when I hear the news of my ex-girlfriend's marriage, my current girlfriend will feel very insecure and think that her boyfriend can't let go of her ex. <>

In fact, this is also very easy to understand, although both of them have a new life, but they have really loved each other, so when they hear that the other party is going to get married, they will definitely feel more lost in their hearts, and they will also feel a sense of gap. In fact, many young people don't have much real sense of love and breakup, because after all, two people are not married, so even if they break up, there are not too many entanglements, many people do not realize that they have separated from each other, so when they hear the news that the other party is going to get married, they can realize that the other party has completely withdrawn from their lives. <>

So even if the breakup is proposed by the man first in a relationship, when you learn that your ex-girlfriend is about to get married, you will still feel a little sad, this is also because there is no way to withdraw from the previous relationship in time, and there is no way to quickly adapt to such a psychological gap, so there will be some sadness, which is very normal, and everyone does not have to feel that there is still feelings for the ex.

This is because although he has become his ex-girlfriend, he still has a certain feeling for his ex-girlfriend and feels that his ex-girlfriend still belongs to him, so when he knows that his ex-girlfriend is married, he will still feel uncomfortable in his heart.

This is because two people have loved each other after all, and now that the person who belongs to them is married to someone else, it is normal to feel uncomfortable.

The reason why there is such a phenomenon is because for the relationship between the two of them, the man still cares very much, and he really loves his girlfriend.

I think that before getting married, if he still contacted his ex-girlfriend, it proves that he still has a reluctant relationship with his ex-girlfriend, and he is afraid that he will be sad because he is married, so he will comfort her. Or I still want to contact him before marriage and indulge him. Anyway, no matter which one it is, I don't think it's something I can accept, because you've broken up, and it's been so long, and the two of us are going to get married, what do you mean by still contacting him?

If it were me, I would choose to postpone the wedding, think about the two of us, whether there is still a need to get married, think about whether you really love me, and see if you still have him in your heart. It's also a dismount for you, otherwise you really don't take me seriously, and you haven't considered what I think in my heart at all, if I had contacted my ex-boyfriend before I got married, you would have already made a big fuss.

I think such a man is actually very irresponsible, although I haven't figured out one of his mentalities, and I don't know what he thinks in his heart, but I think before getting married, I can still contact my ex. That must be unforgettable for his old love, and it proves that the two of them must be in constant contact with each other, not this time. So I think this relationship should be carefully considered, whether the marriage should be continued, whether it should be continued.

What I said, there are not many women who can accept such a thing, who is about to become their husband, and who is still in love with their ex, and still have a connection, I think, if it is a woman, it will be crazy. If I want my real mentality, I will just cancel the wedding and break up with him, but if you really love him more and are not willing to part with him, then I suggest postponing the wedding, and then think about the relationship between the two of you, see how he performs, and then make a decision.

In the face of this situation, you must take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and then you also need to make the other party realize that his behavior will make you particularly angry, and I also hope that he can keep a safe distance from the opposite sex, and he can also keep him from entering the house.

It is disrespectful to the woman to stop the marriage immediately, and it is necessary not to marry in order to avoid future conflicts.

I think you can reach out to your ex-boyfriend and let him experience how it feels so he doesn't have this problem again.

Suppose a guy in the pursuit phase of sexual intimacy says to a girl that his ex is getting married.

Under normal circumstances, this kind of behavior means that he still hasn't completely let go of his ex and is still thinking about it.

It's just that he knows that his ex is about to enter the palace of marriage.

made him feel hopeless about retrieving his predecessor.

And, I feel sorry for my last relationship.

At the same time, it strengthens his determination to pursue you.

Because, as long as this boy is not stupid, he should know how to cherish the people in front of him and cherish the moment.

The correct feedback should be a positive emotion, showing sympathy and understanding for him, and at the same time implying that he cherishes the people in front of him.

No one wants to be denied the failures of the previous relationship, so you have to support, understand, and tolerate his ideas in order to make him die for you.

Boys sometimes think very simply about feelings, and often girls will complicate their thoughts.

In my opinion, the boy who pursues you should be very familiar with you at this stage. He'll tell you about it.

Tell you, maybe it's just because you overheard the news of your ex, and then because you have been in more frequent contact at this stage, more familiar, more chatting, just casually say it, maybe the other party has nothing else, purely because of familiarity, communication is more frequent, simply tell you, in this case, you can be regarded as he shared the marriage news of an ordinary friend.

There is also the fact that he told you about his ex's marriage, and it can be seen that in the boy's place, his breakup with his ex may be regarded as a peaceful breakup, without great friction, and without tearing his face to the point of speaking badly to each other.

As for whether it is put down, it is difficult for others to see from such an incident. Since he is pursuing you, on the one hand, it can be seen that the boy has the idea of starting a new relationship, and he likes you very much, on the other hand, the boy's ex has reached the stage of marriage, if the boy's ex is not a flash marriage, then it can be concluded that the boy and the ex have not reunited for a long time, that is, they have let go of each other and started a new life. And this period in between,It also includes the stage when the male protagonist pursues you.,Does his various life conditions reveal that he can't forget his ex?,The subject should know better than those of us.,Think about it.,Maybe,There will be an answer in my heart.。

The subject asked this question, it seems that he cares about this, my suggestion is, consider your feelings about him, and then, you don't need to do anything, because you yourself describe it as the pursuit stage, indicating that you haven't agreed, then it depends on his state, if the ex is married, the boy's life status is no different from usual, then the problem is not big, there should be no forgetting, if the boy is more abnormal, then think about whether it is not forgetful, and then carefully consider the direction of the relationship with the boy.

Well, good luck and find your own happiness soon, maybe he is.

In fact, you already have the answer to this question, whether he likes me or not, I think you already have the answer in your heart. You just don't want to believe it. You say that he is the type you like, then whether he likes you or not, you should be clear about this question yourself, but you just don't want to admit it, so you will ask him if he likes you.

Now that you have the answer in your own mind, you have to learn to accept it. You have to know that it is normal for the person you like not to like you, don't be sad about it, learn to accept this fact.

It's best not to contact, lest the man's wife be jealous!

What does it mean? I can't explain anything, maybe the man just wants to care about you, maybe he still can't let go of you!

Of course, if it's an ex, it's best to break it cleanly, after all, the man is married, how can their married life be a little small, as a girl who still keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriend, she becomes cannon fodder first!