Do you choose to work alone in other places with a high salary, or choose to stay at home with your

Hello! To give you some advice, how much time does a person have in his life, and how much time does he spend besides working hours and family reunions? In the past, there was a saying: Distant wives and close to the home treasures, we don't care about anything else, just say "land.""That means the place where you work, which means the closer to home, the better!

If your wife and children can understand that you can go outside, whether you work above or in your hometown, you will eventually have to return to the family, because companionship is the most affectionate confession.

This kind of thing has its own say, and you can make the best choice by weighing the pros and cons. If it is me who chooses to be at home, there is an advantage that I can share some housework and take care of my children, and the disadvantage is that I earn less money.

It depends on the family's economic situation, if the economic conditions are poor, it is recommended to go to other places to earn more money, and if life is better, it is better to be at home.

I think that when children are small, it is the time when they need to be accompanied by their parents, not only companionship, but also the important issue of children's education. No matter how much money there is, there is no limit, as long as it is enough, a life is not long, and the most important thing is for the family to be happy and happy together.

According to your introduction, working in the field, the annual salary is very high, and it also has great potential for your development, working from home, although the salary is less, but being able to accompany the family to take care of the wife and children, both options have pros and cons, and should be decided according to your and your wife's ideas.

You're in a good situation now, you can attack, retreat, and defend. It is recommended that you listen to your wife's words, in addition to working hard for a few years, you can take the children and wives over if you mix well, and come back to accompany your wife and children if you don't mix well, which is not bad.

Personally, I think that if the child is still young, then go outside and choose a salary with a high salary, because when the child is older, he will use a lot of money, and do not choose a low-wage salary for the sake of the family.

This is to see your husband and wife discuss, as a man to go to the field for a few years, for the sake of the economic conditions of the two children in the future, the situation in the field is good, you can also take the children and your wife there to travel, I wish you work in the field safety first.

There are some things that we can't control, and it depends on your specific situation. If you are struggling to make ends meet, opt for a high salary, after all, no one will be able to feed your family for free. If you don't have a survival problem, it's better to stay at home, after all, this is a family, it is indispensable, especially children need to spend your time and energy on companionship and education.

Men still have to have a salary to support their families and have nothing to do with it, so as to give this family a better life experience, and they can be transferred back in a few years.

It depends on whether your family is under pressure, and if you have room for improvement, it is certainly good for yourself.

It's a dilemma, and you have to give up one or the other.

I would choose to find a low-paying job near home. Here's why:

First, the salary will definitely be higher when you go out to work, because many people can't make money at home, so they put down a lot of things and go outside to work alone, in order to make more money. But some people think that even if it's not to make money, they still have to go outside when they're young. Otherwise, when you are old, you will leave regrets, young is originally used to fight for the capital of life, do you not fight at the age of capital, do you have to wait until you lose this capital and then regret it?

Second, the salary is just an excess, the opportunities outside are always much greater than those in the hometown, if you choose a good job and do it seriously, then you are not far from the opportunity to turn over. A person is born to have a way, and a smart person will always have a bright day, the key is persistence.

Third: Of course, there are many people who have different views, on the question of "how to choose between a salary of 6000 and a salary of 4000 at home", they also gave their own answers, most of which are now or have had the experience of working in other places, and their replies are very sad.

Fourth: It's right to be out when you're young! But it's different when you get married!

Especially the wife and children in the hometown, every day in the heart, go home once a year, the children don't know themselves, so most people still want to go home, family affection is more important than anything else, the elderly at home may need to care. You have to know that as long as you have the ambition, it is the same wherever you work. I wish you happiness.

It's more reliable to find a low-paying job near home, because if you are too far away, you can't take care of your wife and children, and it's not interesting to earn any money.

If you want to find a low-income job near your home, you have to earn it with your own hands if you want to improve the life of your wife and children, but you can't neglect your own responsibilities because of making money.

You should find a low-income job near your home, so that you can take good care of your family, spend time with your children and wife, and not let your family feel lost.

It is recommended that you leave your wife to find a job with a higher income, because the family expenses are relatively large, and if the income is low, even if you can be around, there will definitely be many conflicts, and you can work outside for a few years and then go home to develop.

Look at how low it is, don't choose it if it's too low, it will affect the quality of life, and there is no ability to resist risks. Go to a distant place to find a higher-paying job, do it for a few years and save some money to come back to start a small business, and it is also convenient to take care of your family.

It's better to find a job near home, so that you can spend time with your wife and children, after all, family happiness is the most important thing.

I think it's better to leave my home, leave my wife and children to find a high-paying job, so that my children's wives can live a good life.

If you have enough money to spend, you don't want to leave your hometown if you can work nearby. The companionship of parents is really important to children, and the harm of lack of companionship to children is really beyond imagination.

I chose to leave my wife and children to find a high-paying job, and now that the price level is getting higher and higher, I want to do my best to make them happy.

If it were me, I would find a higher-paying job, after all, there are more places to spend money with children, and I can't let my wife and children suffer with me.

Looking at the total family income, if you can maintain a moderate level, you can choose to spend more time with your children at a low income. On the contrary, choose a high income, because if the standard of living is too poor, children and adults will not feel safe.

Keep working, at least there is still income, if you don't work, your daughter-in-law will support you! Man, do what a man should do, your daughter-in-law's salary is higher than yours, and she is not happy! You should steal the fun.

If someone has to sacrifice their job for the family, and your daughter-in-law is paid a lot more than you, it is a good option for you to quit your job and come out to work when the children are older.

If your wife's salary is enough to support the family, and the family needs someone to take care of you, then I suggest you quit your job and go home to take care of the children.

I think this depends on the individual, I think most men will not take a baby at home because men have self-esteem.

First, are you willing to do it?

Second, look at what your daughter-in-law means. Now it is not a special case for wives to earn money to support their husbands and children, and there are many couples around me who are in this mode.

Third, how old is the child, and if the child reaches school age, will he continue to stay at home or go out to work? If you work, then you can't be out of touch with society in the past few years with your children, and strengthen your studies.

Of course, I work outside, after all, it is so hard to earn money outside, even if I earn less, I have to earn money.

If the family really needs someone to take care of it, it is better to quit the job to take care of the family, if there is no need to quit the job to work in the unit, after all, there is an extra income, as for who earns how much is not the main thing,.

It's still all working well! Now the cost of raising a baby is high. Decide after careful consideration.

Yes, as long as it is agreed with your daughter-in-law, not here.

It is recommended that if you can work from home, just work from home and don't run that far.

Although the salary outside is high, there is a home in addition to money.

Think about it, if you earn money, but the family breaks up.

What's the use of all this money you're earning? Before, you had a high salary outside, how much more money can you earn in a year, so weigh it carefully.

There is also a way, if your wife can also leave, it is better for the two of you to be in the same place so that it is safer.

What do you hear about many people's opinions, there are two kinds, 1. At home, what will happen to the life of the wife and children? (What about the money to support the family?) 2 go out to work with a wife and children with a high salary, then there are parents, if there is one, you have to consider it, (don't be afraid of wolves in the front, and tigers in the back, you will never be able to get out.)

Look at your wife's moral character, just for your reference.

Of course, it's better to stay at home. Money is nothing compared to family affection. There is a general lack of importance attached to family reunions. It is difficult for foreigners to live in two places like a husband and wife. It's all to **, one family is not separated.

If you have a high salary, you can afford to try to find another good job in your home city, even if the salary is a little lower, or convince your wife to go to your city. But if you live apart for a long time, not only the emotional problems you are worried about, but also the problems of your children, and all kinds of problems, and even such a family is incomplete, what is the use of a high salary?

I took my wife to work outside.

Depends on what you focus more on. If it is a family, you can choose to transfer if you have a branch in your hometown. If there's no better way, find a chance to go home, after all, family reunion is the greatest happiness.

If your children are still young, I suggest you go home, companionship is the most important thing, and it is best to work in more than one family. It's gold, and it shines there.

Pick her up and come and stay with you.

Without a career, it is nothing. There are gains and losses, and sugarcane is not sweet at both ends.

Men don't have mother-in-law and mother-in-law's no interest.

Take your wife and children away from home, where are the people, where is the home.

It's better for an unassertive man like you to get a divorce. lest you be afraid of yourself, lest you be suspicious of your wife.

It's better to be at home, your family is the most important, aren't you earning money just for your wife and children? What's the use of the extra money you earn if your daughter-in-law is gone?

Stupid, just take it away.

Do you distrust your wife so much? She got married and had children for you, are you still afraid that her red apricot will come out of the wall? If you don't trust, it's better to get a divorce sooner. If you can stay at home with your children, your wife will be better, the family will be harmonious, and it will be good for your children.

It's better to be at home, and it's more important than anything else to be together as a family.

You don't trust your wife so much, what's the need for marriage?

This choice is actually a choice between family and work prospects, work itself is a voluntary thing, if you really want to go home and take care of your family, why can't you quit?

If you feel that work is more important, you can bring your children and family to your place of work. The transfer of children to schools can be discussed. As long as you take over the child and you help him adapt, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

Another point, I advise you not to let your parents educate their children, you should also know that intergenerational education is prone to problems.

How you choose depends on your own values.

If you think making money is the most important thing, you go out and make money. But beware of being deceived. Now a lot of ** deceives their own people.

If you think that the most important thing is for the family to be happy together, as long as you have enough money, you will guard your family.

Personally, I think that when there is enough money, it is still the family that matters! Family is the most satisfying person.

I personally think that you should stay with your wife and son, life in the world, money is not the only goal, sometimes a family loves each other together, more happy than making a lot of money, the idea of making a lot of money is good, however, it depends on whether what you give up is more important, there are many people around me, leaving the familiar hometown, a person to work hard in the field, go home after a few years, the money is there, the child's education is delayed, the child's family affection is gone, the gains outweigh the losses, you earn money in your hometown is not less, There's no need to trek just to earn a little more.

I'm just reminding you that there are a lot of pyramid schemes in Guizhou, and I'm afraid that you will make money over there, and your wife and children won't recognize it...

From what I know of the market, it's rare to have a job of 10,000 yuan, especially in Guizhou, which is astronomical.

You have to believe that pie doesn't fall from the sky.

It is recommended that you change your job, but not to Guizhou, away from your relatives and hometown, when you have money, you will feel that family affection is more important.

first went to work, settled his wife and children, earned a sum of money, and then came back, and had enough food and clothing for himself.

I'm going to go out with my husband, his salary is not high, I'm lazy by nature, so you have to discuss it with your wife.

Brother, get out decisively.

I'll analyze the analysis. If you stay at home and are reluctant to pay a high salary outside, you will not be happy to go to your current job, and if the family needs money urgently, and you have no savings, life will be difficult. Since you stay at home and work, you are not happy, and you can't make money, you are still unwilling in your heart, why bother.

Then go out.

Of course, the wife and children can't be left alone. It's also good to have the opportunity to come back twice a year. Give my wife a ** every day. When you earn money over there, arrange a place for your wife and children, and bring them over, it's only a matter of a year or two.