My boyfriend and I have been around for almost two years, and recently I suddenly found myself a lit

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I happen to see your question and think it's a little interesting, just talk about your thoughts, I think people like the new and hate the old, the boy in front of you has a different temperament and taste from your boyfriend, you feel very fresh, you are very eager to get to know him, it feels good to stay with him, right, but you don't know this person at all, your good feelings about him are all made up by your wishful thinking If you are really together, and he doesn't really like you very much, he may be very cold to you and doesn't care about you, can you bear it In fact, both men and women will like good-looking and excellent people of the opposite sex, this is human nature, I suggest you can try to find something to divert your attention, and come back after a while, you may not like that guy that much, in other words, it's just your impulse, and that's all, I hope it will help you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, I understand this kind of distress you are experiencing in your relationship. In this case, the most important thing is to communicate honestly and frankly with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. This way, you can better understand each other's thoughts and emotions and explore solutions together.

    At the same time, you also need to think carefully about your heart to determine whether you really like another guy, not because of impulse or curiosity. If you are sure that you no longer love your boyfriend, then you can try to find a peaceful way to break up, respecting and understanding each other's decisions.

    Finally, whatever decision you make, respect your own and others' feelings and be honest and upfront. I hope you can find your true happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you can still like others when you have a partner, if it's not that your partner is very bad, then you need to think about whether you are suitable for a relationship, because if you can still have such thoughts in your heart without any bad happening, then you are just playing with the mentality. You should think about these things calmly.

    Then you think a lot about how good your boyfriend is to you, maybe you just think that the guy is kind to you for a while, and you feel like you're feeling upset, maybe he just helped you when you need help. If this is the case, you can be grateful, you can thank others, but this is not the reason why you want to change your partner, falling in love is not changing clothes to like the new and hate the old, the two of you must have passed the test of time together, if there is nothing bad about your boyfriend, why do you want to change it. Do you know what to do with the boy you like?

    Do you think it's good to get along? If you choose something that you never know what the consequences of your choice will bring, it will not only hurt your boyfriend, but you as well.

    Finally, if you really still have thoughts about liking that guy, I think you should talk to your partner, and then you don't come back to your boyfriend. There's nothing wrong with your partner, he did what he did, but he can't change your heart of liking the new and hating the old, and he shouldn't pick up leftovers.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, your question should be viewed in this way: it should be divided into several aspects to analyze:1

    Do you still have feelings for your partner? 2.How did you and that guy meet?

    Under what circumstances did you meet? 3.If there is no boy who comes after, will your relationship with the subject continue?

    4.If there was no object, would you choose to be with this boy?

    Below I will analyze 1 for you from each pointDo you still have a relationship with your partner? That's for sure, otherwise you'll be entangled and hard to decide.

    2.How did you and that guy meet, and under what circumstances? This question is also very good, there is a problem in the relationship between you and your partner, and he is indifferent to you, so the boy takes advantage of the situation.

    3.If there were no later boys, would you continue with the object? The answer is yes, it will continue, in fact, a relationship is dull in the end, sometimes more like family affection, and if we want to have a long-term relationship, we should stick to the flat.

    4.If there was no object, would you choose to be with that boy? The answer is no, no, because you and the boy are just so-called freshness, acting under the cover of a relationship.

    So I hope you understand what I mean, and it's not too late to get back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you stay away from the boy you like, out of sight and out of mind, as long as you can't see it, after a long time, you will slowly fade away.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Doesn't that mean you don't really like your boyfriend? Either be single-minded or let go. It's still too late.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have a partner, but I recently liked another guy, what should I do? It should be carefully considered.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello: Before you politely reject the boy, please forgive me for taking the liberty of asking a question. Which guy do you really like?

    Wouldn't it also be a big injustice to him if you don't like your current boyfriend and just stay with him because of guilt in your conscience? In the next opinion, there is no right or wrong in love, and there is no first come, first come, love is just the process of finding the most suitable person for you, the most suitable love, so if you stay with your boyfriend because of guilt, it is not good for the two of you, it is better to leave your boyfriend.

    If you've thought it over and still want to say no to that boy, I suggest you say this:

    You're a good boy, and I like you very much, and you've warmed me. However, I feel that there is still a disagreement between us, if we are together, we can't last forever, and I still like him (boyfriend). Thank you for the warmth you have given me, you are a good boy, so there will be better girls waiting for you ahead.

    I don't deserve your wait, so, I'm sorry, let's break up.

    Good luck with your feelings.

    A stranger - Chiyo uki

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