Why do they say I m pretty, but I don t?

It's easy! Suppose you are super beautiful, then you will see yourself in the mirror every day when you get up, brush your teeth and wash your face, and then over time you will get used to this beauty, and you will not find this beauty.

Assuming that you are not beautiful, then you will still see yourself in the mirror when you get up every day, brush your teeth and wash your face, and then over time you will get used to this ugliness, and you will not find this ugliness.

But the people around you don't get up every morning to brush your teeth and wash your face to see you, so people say that you are beautiful because they are not as beautiful as you, so they will find this kind of beauty.

Ahem. It seems a bit too profound.

The face is long to be seen by others. It's okay for others to look comfortable.

If you're wrong, and everyone else says so, then you must be pretty, and you don't say it. If you're not good-looking, and others say you're good-looking, it seems a little unrealistic, almost impossible unless your family is rich, powerful, or statused, or someone else wants you.

If you think about it carefully, they let you do anything else after they said you were beautiful, if not, it proves that you are at least good-looking, in fact, you should send a **.

Why don't you think it's pretty. You can tell us about some of your real feelings and thoughts when others compliment you.

The key is who says you're pretty.

Because you haven't figured out where you're pretty.

Who knows if that's the truth or not.

Being praised for being cute doesn't mean it's not beautiful, and this needs to be discussed in different scenes.

First of all, to clarify a concept, many people think that being cute means not being beautiful, in fact, in psychology, this is called "false consistency bias", that is, people often overestimate the universality of their belief judgments and behaviors, that is, I think cute is not beautiful, so I speculate that others also think so.

This kind of bias can easily lead people to assign their own beliefs to others, when in fact, others may say this sentence based solely on their beliefs and understanding.

Therefore, it is necessary to distinguish the three scenarios of this sentence: to whom, when to say it, and what is the purpose.

Praise cuteness expresses good feelings.

If a man compliments you on being cute, cuteness at least expresses a good impression to some extent. As for whether "cute" means beautiful, it depends on the man's understanding of cuteness.

Secondly, cuteness contains praise for character, praising cuteness, although it does not directly praise beauty, directly reflects your appearance level, but, cute girls, in the status of male psychology, is not necessarily lower than beautiful.

When a guy praises you for being cute, it is likely that he wants to express your personality advantage, which does not negate your appearance, but in his heart, what you bring him the most appreciation is your character, and he recognizes and appreciates this character.