I don t understand why my mom always says I m ugly. 5

Oh normal, everyone's mother is different, some mothers are used to praising their children, and some mothers are used to "belittling" their children, but whether it is praise or "belittlement" is on behalf of their love for their children, my mother often says in front of me that I am not good or bad, but once in front of outsiders, I always praise me, so don't care too much, maybe your mother just doesn't pay much attention to the way you speak, which makes it difficult for you to accept, I suggest you find a time to communicate with your mother, Say you don't like her talking about you like that, and I'm sure your mother will take your words to heart.

I'm the same as you.,,I'm not ugly.,,It's also a class flower.。。 My mom also said that the older I get, the uglier I get. Actually, you don't pay attention to him.

He's just boring to talk about. No parent is absolutely satisfied with their children. When I'm bored, I'll find something boring to talk about.

That's what they said. Actually, I don't think so. She heard someone praise you in front of outsiders.

Although she said ****. In fact, the heart smiled and blossomed. Parents are like this.

You have to be considerate and considerate. When you can't hear it, it's fine. Don't feel inferior because of these little things.

I'm afraid you're too narcissistic and feel good about yourself. It's just a matter of spurring you up.

It's also for your good.

It's all said that I'm afraid that your tail will go up to the sky.

It doesn't matter, every child has to go through this low period, for example, me, my mother didn't talk about me less, everyone has heard an old saying: beating is kissing, scolding is love, after all, it is the person who gave birth to you and raised you, she always talks about you, indicating that she wants you to be better, she doesn't praise you, it means that your mother doesn't want you to be proud and take a detour. But I don't understand the fact that you are not beautiful, Jie Yi of the soul dressing room said:

What girl is not a little princess in the eyes of her parents? Don't let the princess babysit you! "You can ask your mom for advice, if your mom doesn't agree.

You start crying, crying heartbreakingly, and then crying while saying what you haven't told your mom all along, or deliberately writing a note to your mom.

First of all you have to know that it's not your problem, you're fine. It's your mom's problem, it's that she's not mature enough to impose her own wishes and demands on you, and you don't have to hate yourself for her reasons. Live well and be yourself.

Although you have no choice with such a mother, you must know that you can choose a different life from her, and you can do well.

My mom too, since I was a kid, I don't think I've ever made my mom proud, or sure, because my sister was prettier than me, more capable than me, and would speak. So I wonder if there is a comparison, my mother often says, you are fat and ugly, you are ugly, and you can't speak, my academic performance is good, and my mother has never praised me, and said that I can't find a job, I can't find someone to marry me, etc., etc., etc. It makes me even more afraid to speak in the presence of my mother.

Now I'm married, my son is smart, and my mom says like my husband. The son is handsome, saying that it is like my husband, the interpersonal relationship at home, she also said, your husband does it, you let the family watch it. So far, I really don't know what kind of daughter I am in my mother's heart, and does she regret having me?

Just like today I asked my mother if I needed anything and I bought it back, and my mother said clothes, but you can't wear what you bought. I'm really sad. Sometimes I think about it during the day and dream at night to tell my mother what I really think in my heart.

But when it comes to face-to-face, I don't know what to say, and it seems that there is no chance, no chance to be affirmed.

Generally speaking, women have this kind of performance, one may be the physical and psychological changes caused by the arrival of menopause, and the other may be some psychological distortion caused by the long-term pressure of life and work, such as: the subconscious sadness caused by the sense of loss of life is transformed into a sense of urgency for the education of the next generation, hoping that their children will become excellent; Long-term lack of psychological communication leads to the use of obsessive communication methods such as compulsion and nagging; The gap between the high requirements of the ideal and the cruel reality of the children cannot be adjusted, causing anxiety and irritability.

Like my mom, the blow left me with no self-confidence and never understood what was really going on in my heart.

Read more books, pay less attention to her, she is menopause.

Alas, understand your mother, he knows how to be angry, in fact, he also wants to train you to be a useful person, a person he likes, but he doesn't know how to improve you, so he has to use scolding to solve it, this is still related to his cultural water evaluation, so you have to talk to him, your mother is also pitiful, he wants you to become the person he wants, so that's it, he may only be able to compensate you with materials, I don't know that the soul is also very important, and spiritual food is more important.

I doubt very much that my mother and your mother are sisters、、、 are you talking about my mother, right?

At this time, you can only change the status quo by making yourself a genius.

From your expression, in fact, it can be seen that you are a very sensible child, you did not just think about complaining, but also thought of your mother's good, I think it is your mother has something in her heart or her personality problem, she does not know how to do it is to guide the child correctly, I think in this case you have to take the initiative, take the initiative to chat with your mother, with the right attitude to say your thoughts, tell your mother that you will work hard.

Maybe it's your mom's way.

Everyone has their own way.

But some people are good for blaming and some people are good for encouragement, and you can talk to your mom about that.

Your mother's method of education is a problem, but believe that your mother loves you

There is a kind of teaching called criticism, and there is a kind of maternal love called oppression. You never understood, from a mother's point of view. (Of course, it is not excluded that it is very ironclad and steely, and you expect too much from you, and you don't like your mother's expectations) Sometimes the family is like this, the adults are honest and blame, and the children always run away.

Hope that the son will become a dragon, and hope that the daughter will become a phoenix to understand and communicate.

You have to understand your mother, it may be that your mother's personality is really bad and she speaks very extremely, but no matter what, she is willing to pay for you, and she still loves you in her heart, but she doesn't use the right way of expression, you have to learn to communicate more with your mother.

Duty is also a kind of love, mom loves you!

Maybe she's demanding too much of you, but just wants you to do your best, her approach may be a little wrong, and you lack communication.

Girls can make up, dress, and be confident, and they will become beautiful You search the Internet for comparison photos of South Korea before and after makeup, in fact, everyone has flaws without makeup, and celebrities are the same, as long as you are confident and can dress up yourself, you will definitely become beautiful, cultivate more inside, I believe you will become a goddess in some people's hearts!

Everyone has something worthy of appreciation, only people who don't know how to appreciate, Ma Yun is ugly enough, but now there is no one in China who is more handsome than him.

The standards of beauty and ugliness are very abstract concepts, don't take it too seriously, each period has a standard for each period, and each country and region is also very different, so don't care, the heart is kind and the beauty is the most beautiful, you have ......to have confidence

Ugly or something, everyone is not perfect, since the appearance can't change, learn more skills, have some specialties, live hard, increase your beauty, your face will eventually age, girls with a good personality will be liked, don't care what others say, just do your best.

People rely on clothes, horses rely on saddles, I think there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women! If you look average, you can put more effort into dressing up, putting on more makeup, and buying beautiful clothes to wear! Although I have never seen the real appearance of my relatives, I believe that as long as you are willing to put your mind to it, you will definitely become more beautiful than you are now!

Be confident in yourself and always tell yourself that I am the most beautiful!

The more inferior you are, the more you feel ugly in your heart, self-confidence can improve your temperament, learn more things to enrich yourself, and cultivate both inside and outside. Be yourself. It's good to have a beautiful appearance, but without connotation, others won't appreciate it.

I'd rather be a girl who looks ordinary at first glance and gets more flavorful the more she interacts.

There are two kinds of ugliness, one is internal and the other is external. Everyone's aesthetic is different, as long as the heart is not ugly, it can attract others.

Don't care about your appearance, increase your inner quality, behave generously, speak with self-cultivation, think logically, etc., and you will be liked by many people.

In fact, a hairstyle and a few beautiful clothes are enough to change a person's image.

Are you ugly? Let's take a ** I see, it should look much better than me, right?!

Beauty and ugliness are not reflected by contrast, dear, every girl is an angel, as long as you have a good heart, you are the most beautiful.

My mom also said I was ugly, saying that I wasn't as good-looking as her, so don't listen to her nonsense, hum, fake, fake