What should the marriage of the post 80s generation be like, and how should the post 80s generation

Girl, the matter of marriage puts you in a dilemma and hesitates, but the decision can only be one, and ambiguous words have no practical meaning for you.

The old man thinks that marriage is a matter of his life, and he must consider it carefully and comprehensively, and his parents "He is too thin, insecure, and young and unenergetic." It is not unreasonable to say that he is timid and will not be able to be the master in the future" and that "if you follow him, you will suffer". Parents are from the past, and it is very acute to see the problem, and it is right to listen to the parents.

You are right to say that "after being together for a long time, you have feelings", but feelings are only one level, and they do not represent the whole content of marriage. You also said that "there are not many ready-made good men now", and the opinion is also wrong, there are good men, but you don't look for your boyfriend.

The lesser of two evils", the old man said bluntly, on the grounds that his parents do not agree, for the sake of his own happy life in the future, it is better to break up!

If during the war years, you must give up, if you are worried that you will fight with people every day in the future, you have to give up, if he has no job and cannot fight for money, you have to give up, but if there are no three ifs, what will be the reason for you to give up, people are not fat and thin, there are many fat people, but there are many fat people who suffer. People want to see if they have ambition, whether they have the heart of hard work and enterprising, and you don't let your parents pick up troops to fight, why are you dumb? And his current efforts, do you have the confidence that the two of you will live a good life in the future, if you are not sure, get along for a while, don't break up easily.

Or listen to the old man's words, don't go wrong, this can affect a lifetime of major events, the old people listen to a wide range of things, speak should be in line with the principle of responsibility, you still think about it in a balanced way, don't hurt yourself because of willfulness.

Of course, it depends on how you feel.

Don't miss out on your happiness for a while.

It's up to you to decide.

What age is it, and let his parents interfere with his marriage.

It mainly depends on whether you love him or not, don't be anxious because you have reached the age of marriage, this kind of thing is a lifetime, and you will lose if you take a wrong step. I hope you think it through.

Taking your parents' words as opinions is a good opinion after all.

Decide on with yourself.

I think this question is not only for the post-80s, but for all couples. Husbands and wives should be honest with each other and trust each other, and I think these two points are the bare minimum. You must also know how to give, don't follow your own temperament; Tolerance is also very important, while seeing the other party's shortcomings, we should also see the other party's advantages, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and amplify the other party's strengths.

Treat each other's parents the same as your own. There is also the courage to dare to say "I was wrong".

Now the post-80s generation is basically married and has children, so just work hard to earn money so that their wives and children can live a happy life!

People of different generations have different views on marriage. When my colleagues were chatting this morning, they talked about how to choose each other to marry? Lu is a representative of 80 years later, young and beautiful, with an active mind.

Most of us 70 years later said that at that time, emotions came first, and material things came second, ......Lu didn't understand our idea, she said that their best friends of the same age didn't care whether the other party was fat or thin, and how they looked, they were more rich than the other ......They are more materialistic and more realistic......

Looking at the people born in the 70s around them, they have their own ideas, dare to break through, and can endure hardships, they should have their own opinions on love, relatively respect love and marriage, and generally choose their ideal partner in their hearts, and then work hard together, and they also cherish family ......For example, in that era, for the sake of feelings, naked marriages and elopements were not rare.

The living conditions of the post-80s are much better, but they are not as good as the post-70s can endure hardships and break in, for love, they will pursue each other's heart-warming feelings and romance, and it is easy to compromise with reality when encountering practical problems in life, the so-called "do not seek to last forever but seek to have", extremely eager for love but have no courage or ability to defend, the view of marriage is also more realistic, most people will follow some of the opinions of the post-60s fathers, but for the family, there is no tolerance of the fathers, In terms of career, some people can break through the traditional concept of "stability is greater than everything" of the post-60s parents and go to their own careers, while others will succumb to their own inert ......

Although we have different views on marriage, we hope that we in different generations can not only have it, but also have our own happy marriages for a long time.

Post-70s: introduced by others - in love - married - born - 30% divorced;

Post-80s: Online acquaintance-cohabitation-love = marriage - 40% divorce;

Post-90s: I am not very familiar with it-ons-pregnancy-marriage-childbirth-whether to divorce or not is still entangled.

The post-70s want to find a job, the post-80s want to have a house, and the post-90s want to find a house, a car, and a boss.

70 is mostly blind dates, and 80 is more in love.

You can see that, don't you?

The concept of marriage is different, Guo Degang is by your side in this meal.