The realistic love of the post 80s, the current situation of marriage after the 80s

I think you should still insist, it's not that you can't get true love, you have already got it, you convince your mother, come in the long run, go and prove it to your mother. If you break up, 5 years of relationship, your boyfriend is upward, and loves you so much, there are not many such men, the post-80s are pitiful, the post-90s are even more pitiful, I am a post-80s, very young my parents did not understand to send me to extracurricular classes, the family is very poor, my parents have no ability, the family is rural, are farmers, and then my father went abroad to work and work as coolies to support the family, but one day, suddenly became rich, because my father's only characteristic, that is, careful, usually lazy, things do work hard, In a foreign factory, the return rate of products produced under the supervision of others was too high, resulting in very little profit or even loss of the company, and later the return rate of products produced under the supervision of my father was 0. He has status, he has money, and he climbs very fast, so why should I tell you about this, my father, a junior high school graduate, a farmer, and a person who has nothing, has done it now, your boyfriend???

How are you feeling right now? I think it's enough to have only one chance in my life, and then my family is better, I also studied abroad, and I met a girl, the so-called rich second generation, but she is special in that she is a good girl who never resists, everything about her is arranged by her father, and then her father invited me to her house for dinner, in fact, he just wanted to see me, went to her house, do you know what it feels like? The feeling of putting a farmer in a Lamborghini, I was dressed all over, no matter what was not in harmony with her family, when she was eating, her father asked her to drink all kinds of red wine, that is, to exercise her to taste wine, and then her father's objection, could not be together, she was a good girl, I felt the gap again, what am I saying these things for, I just want to reduce the distance of your contradictions, I have never participated in the work, I am still studying, I am about to graduate, I am also 24, because I am stupid, I read the language for an extra year, so I said, There's not a big gap between you, and you love each other so much, besides, your boyfriend needs a chance too.

Also, the last sentence you said is my usual words, in the face of reality, I bow my head, and I am not ashamed.

Okay, okay, believe in your choice, divorce is a small thing, if you really regret it, then you will leave! How can love be so strong now? One way to the end? The road is all dark, how can you walk without groping?

I appreciate the happiness of co-creation and affirm its value.

Your mother is nothing more than trying to find you a golden beetle son-in-law so that your life can be stable and she can worry less. It's just that the golden beetle son-in-law is so easy to find and so easy to get along with?

It's been five years, and it's not a short time. You have cashed out the house and car, but you will only repay the loan later, with the current momentum of the two of you, that is, it will be a matter of a few years. Don't get too lost.

I am also a post-80s generation, and the most painful thing for me personally is to see the girl I once loved sitting in the big bus now, while I am squeezing the bus. What's the solution, society is too realistic.

You're not bad, cherish what you're looking for.

Hesitation in the present is an obstacle in the future. I just want to tell you that it is not easy to meet a good man, and it is even more difficult to meet a good man who is dedicated to himself. Don't cherish the present ** has a future?

What is a good day? Is it a good life if you have more money, or is it a good life for two people to live in harmony and happiness? It depends on what your own heart is pursuing.

Although our current life is not as good as yours, when I married him, he had nothing, a house, a car, a stable job, a high income, a high education, nothing. But since you like it, these material things can work together, although the reality is cruel, but life is only a few decades, how much you can eat, are destined. It's the same whether you have money or not, only two people have one heart, and working hard is happiness.

The outcome doesn't really matter. What about greens and turnips? I prefer green vegetables and radish to fish for bird's nest.

Hold on, you have to do your mother's ideological work, even if your mother introduces you to a very rich person, you don't have to work, but then you will be very bored, reading so many books is not in vain, I think only two people through hard work, create happiness, that is called happiness, will be cherished.

Damn, there are still problems with such a perfect life.

Too much: "A Smile is Alluring", "The Translator", "Half Honey, Half Hurt", "Little Newton", "If Life Is Like the First Meeting", "Evergreen", "Why Too Much Love", "Why Need Light Blue and Light Red", "Gentleman is Difficult", "Good Day Waits", "Who's Who", "Gentleman Yinuo", "Shimmer", "Why Sheng Xiaomo", "Money ** Love", "Let Me Thank You, Give Me Empty Joy, I Will Not Forget", "Earthly", "Tulip Blossoms", "" Meet You in the Most Obscene Time of Your Life", "Our Story", "Huan Yan", "All in the Silence", "Warm Strings", "Great Love Late Blooming", "Luoluo Qinghuan", "Just Blame Us for Being Too Playful", "Mulberry Has Not Fallen", "We Have All Loved", "Passerby in a Hurry", "Qingqing Mo Shangsang", "Shanshan Come to Eat", "Where to Fly Flowers", "Lotus Leaves He Tiantian", "A Thousand Sails Over", "After a Blind Date", "Good News Like a Dream", "Starlight in the Day", "Between Flowers", "Tibetan Love", " To Our Dying Youth", "The Wind Rises Qingping", "Deep Love", "Twilight Light", "Twilight Retrospective", "Driftwood", "Coke Notes", "Which Year Changes a Life", "White Moonlight on the Rooftop", "Love is the Most Luxurious Thing", "The Smile Remains", "The Goose Returns", "A Peach Wood Comb", "Pure Love on the Left Bank, Charming Color on the Right Bank", "Binary Two", "Deep Blue", "I Take a Snail for a Walk", "Love Weiyang", "First-class Love for Second-class Girls", "Light Rain and Red Dust", " Young Love".

Xinyiwu's ** basically speaks of the post-80s, highly recommended.

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The marriage of the post-80s generation generally encounters problems such as a crisis of trust between husband and wife, the inability of family members to get along with each other, the confusion of money and housework management, and various contradictions and frictions.

The Social Survey Center of China Youth Daily conducted a survey of 1,855 people through the Internet (of which the post-80s accounted for and the post-70s accounted for the post-70s), and those who believed that the phenomena of flash marriage, flash divorce, trial marriage, online marriage, and non-marriage were not the mainstream of "post-80s" marriage. people believe that the "post-80s" have a responsible attitude towards marriage and family.

The "post-80s" generation is presented as self-centered and has a high enthusiasm for self-understanding and self-acceptance, which is not necessarily a bad thing for marriage. "I think the 'post-80s' concept of marriage is to pay more attention to self and be responsible for self-happiness, rather than necessarily responsible for the marriage system. ”

The post-80s generation grew up in marriage, and they gradually understood that marriage has two sides, which can bring happiness, but it also needs to pay.

Refer to the emotional section of the post-80s gathering place.

Housing is the general status quo that overwhelms marriage, that is, getting married, but because of the need to repay the mortgage, I don't dare to spend money, and then I envy some rich lives and consciously live a depressed life.

When will we really have our own life, I don't like my mother-in-law to manage so much... It's depressing every day! Stressful! It's not fun to have a day like this.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless ...... well

No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is unconditionally for each other, do anything.

Do something meaningful! Even one person is not lonely.

I am also a post-80s generation, and we in the post-80s will look at love with a mature and realistic vision, and we can't be like those ignorant teenagers who only care about falling in love every day, what we have to consider is marriage. Although money is not the only criterion, it is also an essential factor, and marrying a good husband is better than anything else.

I don't think it matter what to do later, it depends on each person's character! They all said that I was very stupid and naïve about my relationship with my husband, and didn't care about anything (salary, house), but now we are married, and we are very happy, and my husband is very considerate and considerate of me. I feel so happy now.

Maybe I don't quite understand what you mean by going through the program.

But I think there are a few things you can think about for yourself:

1.Do you love her.

This is very critical, if a man doesn't love his wife, there will be a lot of trouble in the future 2If Condition 1 is yes, do you think you can afford that responsibility?

No matter who repays the loan, life is still long How long can you last under that pressure? What is the power?

Second, did you choose to break up because you couldn't stand her, or did you break up because you couldn't bear the pressure? You know this best yourself, it's useless to ask others!

Third, you and your daughter-in-law should calm down and talk. Have a concept of the future, not just about marriage. The meaning of marriage is simple, legal cohabitation.

In the future, two people will have a clear direction and will not get lost on the road. If you start with a big difference in your ideas about the future, then you can only say that you will not be able to last long. Don't give up because of temporary responsibilities or temporary emotions, and don't choose the wrong one because of temporary obsession.

I've never been in love, so I don't know very much! ~

But one thing is undeniable, your girlfriend is a person who lives a life, and feelings are cultivated. But the point is that you are going to marry someone who will accompany you through your life, not that you can do it in 2 rounds! Anyway, it depends on yourself, it's okay to quarrel occasionally, as long as you think it's true that you're still a person who lives with you, don't marry who is right and wrong, you are a man, relax your heart.

You have to understand that after you get married, you are a pillar and have to support many big and small affairs in the family. Don't worry about the child's mentality! The years are not forgiving! ~

Friend, my advice to you is to break up, what kind of family produces what kind of children! You always remember this, so it's very important to be a good match, and if you marry her now, maybe she will ask you for this and that in the future, you think about it yourself.

The most important thing is the relationship between you, don't let some external factors affect your relationship. You should also calm down and talk, mainly to communicate with your heart and find the feeling of being in love. Personally, I think it's a shame that the relationship is broken because of some other factors.