Second child parents are partial to their children, what impact is it easy to have on Dabao?

Nowadays, many parents will choose to have a second child, and our country also advocates such a method, but once there are two children, then parents must not have the energy to take care of two children at the same time. Sometimes because the second child is too small, so the big baby is neglected, I think this is very wrong, every child is very eager to get the love of their parents.

If it is because the second child ignores the eldest child, then the eldest will feel that his love has been taken away, all because of the second child, and they will hate the second child in their hearts. So no matter what, we still have to treat the two children correctly, and we can also let the eldest develop some. Good habits, for example, are when we tell him that we are an older brother or a younger sister.

In fact, you can help your brother's headphones and help each other with your brother when you grow up, in fact, if that's the case, it's better, but be careful not to blindly let the eldest take care of the second. Since you have chosen to have a second child, you should think in your heart whether you can have a bowl of water, if you can't have a bowl of water, then there is no need to have a second child.

If you have a second child, it will only make the boss rebellious, or make the boss feel that the world is unfair, so that they have some more extreme personalities. And if it's always eccentric, then it will indeed make the eldest hate the second child, or it will beat the second child without the parents knowing. Anyway, since you have the idea to give birth to the second child, then you should have a bowl of water, and you should treat the boss well, and don't ignore the boss because of the appearance of the second child.

If this is the case, then the boss will hate the parents in his heart, so we should think about these issues before giving birth to the child, and we should think about how to treat the child. Nowadays, the problem of children's education is becoming more and more difficult, and in any case, we, as parents of children, still have to find the right way to educate them.

Dabao is easy to feel left out, lack of love, lose the center of gravity all of a sudden, will become inferior, unwilling to play with others, forming a huge psychological gap, feeling particularly lonely, easy to form children autism.

The second-child parents are partial to the child, which is easy to have a very bad impact on Dabao, which will not be conducive to the formation of Dabao's character in the future, and will also have a very negative impact on his future life.

This will really have a great impact on Dabao's heart, and may make Dabao feel very inferior and unbalanced in his heart, so as a parent, you must have a bowl of water.

It is easy for Dabao to lack love, and his heart will become very sensitive, and he will also make his heart feel very uncomfortable.

When every couple wants a second child, they may think about being a companion to Dabao, or let the second child and Dabao share the pension obligations together when they are old. really waited for the second child to come out, but could not be treated equally, which troubled the husband and wife, and in fact, it would also affect the relationship between Dabao and the second child.

Under normal circumstances, parents almost never have the ability to treat every child equally, and partiality is also an instinct for parents to raise the first child, and when the first child is raised, there is no experience to treat the second child partiallyMany parents give birth to the first child, because they become the guardian of the child for the first time, so they do not know how to educate their children, and they will more or less use the wrong method in parenting. But when the second child is born, because of Dabao as a reference, parents know how to educate their children better and more properly, so they will work the second child. Just like a saying often said on the Internet, Dabao is equivalent to a large number that parents play badly, and after registering a small account, they understand the rules of the game, and naturally cherish it.

Traditionally, the older ones should be younger, and some couples, although they are not very old, are more conservative in their thinking and use such ideas in educating their children. For example, in the eyes of traditional couples, older children should let younger children, but they have not considered it at all, no matter how big or small, they are just children, blindly letting the big ones let the small ones, naturally not taking into account the idea of the big treasure in the family.

Habitually taking care of the youngest child in the family, whether human or animal, actually has a habit, that is, to protect the weak. After the parents saw the birth of the second child in the family, they would also habitually take care of him at home, after all, he was already the youngest in the family. If you want a bowl of water, it is really difficult for parents.

Don't let one of the children feel that he is too favoritistic, otherwise it is unfair for each child to have multiple children in the family.