Should I take revenge Should we have the mentality of revenge?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, you don't need to take revenge on him. Judging by what you have said, you already know that he is such a person who likes to split his legs, so why should he accept him when he comes back to beg you. Is he the only man in the world?

    I can also tell that you really love him. But you know what. The reason why love is sweet is because of the love of both parties.

    The so-called slap doesn't make a sound, that's the truth. You're there alone, and he's there to split his legs. Do you think such a man is still worthy of your love?

    Is it worth accepting him again? After all, if you want to take revenge on him, then your psychology will not be good, because you are hurting your favorite. Or rather, a favorite of all time.

    You're taking revenge on him, you're actually taking revenge on yourself. Revenge will not make you happy, but will make you sad and sad again, which is not worth it, especially for such a man. Think for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up and live better than him, that's what you have to do. Let him regret going.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Revenge will only hurt you.

    Leave quietly and find his own happiness, he will regret it later.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think he really likes you, and if he likes you, he shouldn't do it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, this kind of person gives him a little sunshine and he shines... Because of his revenge.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What you need is not revenge, but self-reflection.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's okay to break up.

    No retaliation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People are not machines, and they cannot be forgotten when they are forgotten.

    As long as you figure it out for yourself.

    There is nothing to simmer about.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Break up put. It's always you who suffers in the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you're a bit of rubbish.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    We only have a few decades to live, and our time and energy should be spent on things that are good for us. If your goal is revenge, it is not good for others, and it is not good for yourself, except for a moment of anger. If we have time, we can read more books and increase our knowledge.

    It can exercise the body, strengthen our physique, we can live two more years, we can carry out labor. to create wealth for us. You can be with your family, happy and happy.

    Revenge wastes our time and energy, drains our spirits, and affects our emotions. We live in this world and should cherish ourselves.

    We should not have a sense of revenge. With this mentality, we have negative emotions that affect ourselves and the family members we live with. We will not trust others and will not treat others kindly, which will cause us to be psychologically unhealthy, and psychological unhealth will reduce our immunity, and it will also affect our physical health, so we will not be able to live happily.

    We should not have a sense of revenge. Imagine that you take revenge on others, and others will also come to take revenge on you. The grievances of the previous generation will continue to be reported by the next generation, and the grievances of our generation will continue to be reported by the next generation, and when will the grievances be repaid.

    A generation thinks all day about revenge, hatred, what's the point of living, what hope does your family have with you.

    We should not have a revenge mentality, we are not weak. We are tolerant and generous, and we may also repay grievances with virtue, only in this way will our living environment be harmonious and we will be stronger.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Should we have a sense of revenge?

    Someone asked me if you would hate someone or take revenge on him if he ruined your life. I replied no, because hating someone is painful and tiring, so I won't punish myself for other people's mistakes. But that's not what I think of now.

    Of course, I'm not saying anything that will be retribution, to try my life to take revenge, I don't know how to stop, and finally fall into the abyss!

    If a person really touches your bottom line, you will never easily forgive or forget him, you will hate him! Because you care about what you care about, and when you still care about what you care, then his violation of your bottom line will not be so uneventful. Of course, unless your mind is really broad-minded and can accommodate all rivers, you can forget the seven emotions and six desires such as ignorance, hatred, greed, and desire.

    If someone offends something I care about, I will hate this person, but I will be worthy of my own hatred, and the appropriate revenge can be turned into motivation, but never do revenge and immorality. I will allow myself to grow, and I will use all my revenge as motivation for my own progress.

    So, if no one touches your bottom line, maybe you will never know the mentality of revenge, but when this kind of thought does appear, please use it correctly, instead of letting it become the devil seed that ruined you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why don't we have the idea of revenge, do we admit defeat when we are defeated? Do you admit to being bullied? I think it's too much to live like this, we have to speak up for ourselves, we have to make a name for ourselves.

    We were defeated, we lost to some people in a certain competition or competition, but we were not willing to lose. We just look at the glitter on other people's heads, we treat our efforts like this, and let our previous efforts go to waste, I don't think we should be like this. We must take revenge, we must grieve and be angry, and then turn these anger and unwillingness into the strength to move on, and finally reach the top successfully.

    This year, the Warriors won the championship of the year, and I think this year's Warriors are revenge on the Cavaliers. We all know that the Warriors led the Cavaliers 3-1 last year, and the championship was basically stable, but James dragged the Cavaliers into a tiebreaker, and in G7 Irving's last lethal three-pointer, James' chasing hat allowed the Cavaliers to take away the victory. The Warriors were not reconciled, so they brought in Durant.

    Durant is also here for revenge. In 2012, the young Thunder broke into the Finals, and the Thunder three young people were so beautiful, but their opponents were James Wade and Bosh, and the Heat took away the Thunder 4:1, and that time was also the closest Durant was to the championship.

    In this year's finals, every Warriors have particularly strong fighting ability and morale, and they are here for revenge. The Warriors sent the Cavaliers back to Cleveland 4-1.

    The Warriors got revenge, and Durant got revenge. Yes, every athlete is desperate for a championship, but revenge really gives them more power to challenge stronger opponents.

    When we are maliciously bullied by some people, of course we have to fight back. Could it be that people bully you, and you still lick your face to laugh at others? People have to have a temper, and they must reveal their bottom line at the right time, otherwise there will always be some people who don't know how many brushes you have.

    Do you think those who are incapable should sit where you should be? Of course you can't get used to him so much. You have to be better than him.

    For this kind of immoral person, it is just one word. Don't say when to repay grievances, if you don't repay it, it will go on in an infinite cycle, because you are dealing with a group of people who have no ability and no morality and still want to get promoted and get rich every day, you can't compare with them, don't worry, you haven't changed, you're just teaching those garbage.

    Therefore, we are going to take revenge, and we must have this mentality, and we have to have this spirit. Life should be a little stronger, and you should not admit defeat.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Resentment and revenge for those who have caused harm to themselves are a knee-jerk reaction for many people. In life, there will be some people from time to time, they are like flies, and they may not cause much harm to others, but they come out from time to time to harass them, which makes people feel upset and disgusted. But if you hold a grudge against them and think about revenge, it will affect your daily life and let yourself fall into the mud of pain.

    Dale Carnegie, in his book "The Merit of Human Nature," said don't try to get revenge on our enemies. Indeed, it is very painful to think about revenge on others all the time in life, especially against those little people who are like flies. The harm they cause is too small, the law does not do much, and resenting them is more of a way to sulk.

    For those people, the most important thing you want to see is that you hate them and have nothing you can do about them.

    The result of sulking is to cause damage to your body. But if you use the way they do you to deal with them, you're going to get into a pointless fight. And they may be more familiar with those methods than you are, and you won't get any bargains in the end.

    Fighting with villains often turns themselves into villains as well.

    Dale Carnegie said that people who can't get angry are stupid, and people who don't get angry are smart. The best way to deal with those small frictions and injuries is to forget them and let your life be at peace.

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