What should I do if my child is tired of school and stays at home for three weeks in the second year

Updated on educate 2024-04-28
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Parents in my hometown are more comfortable with such situations, and they usually deal with them step by step.

    Seriously preach to him a lesson in ideology and morality, it depends on the parents' lip service, and preaching is better than anything to save trouble.

    2.If he can't preach, let him experience life, and arrange for him to go to the society as a technician apprentice, preferably the kind that is more tired, and he will naturally turn back after hardship.

    3.In this way, there is no turning back, and there is a way to say that you don't listen to anything - take him to play, you can travel to a distant place, you can also go to a relative's house with a child who is studying, no matter where you go, the place you go must have connotation, and the number of times must be frequent, there should be no too much verbal guidance in the process, you need to have seemingly casual guidance, which requires brainstorming.

    Educating a child is a very brain-consuming thing, he must not go to school must be a problem in this aspect of education, the child in the second year of junior high school is still young, and can be reformed, which requires parents to continue to work hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If not, he really doesn't want to go to school, so he can consider sending him to the army.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    One hit is good, but one meal is not good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The age of the second year of junior high school is in a rebellious mentality, more rebellious, if you use coercive means only for fear of the opposite effect, I said that I was in this situation at the beginning, and now I regret it, I skipped school in the second year of junior high school, and then my grades dropped particularly badly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Parents should learn more about family education. Education is a science, the process of educating children, but also the process of parents and friends growing up, we need to learn and improve their education level and discipline ability like children, yelling is useless, can only intensify the contradictions, make the children more rebellious, we must use wisdom to help children through the rebellious adolescence, and then successfully complete their studies.

    2. Parents should be more understanding and less critical, more tolerant and less accusatory. Children in junior high school are rebellious, and as parents, try to be understanding and tolerant. We want to give them as much freedom as possible and allow them to have their own secrets.

    The same is true for Luyu learning, allow them to make their own study plans reasonably, and encourage them to implement the plan, even if there are delays and incompletions, we don't blame or complain too much! Remember, your encouragement is always more effective than criticism.

    3. Parents should do more things and talk less, observe more and command less. In the face of junior high school children, parents and friends must not still treat primary school students all day long to ask for warmth, or point fingers at their learning status, otherwise not only will they fail to achieve their goals, but will make the children very disgusted, thinking that you do not trust him (her), always supervising him (her) at all times, and trying to control him (her).

    4. Communicate with children in a timely manner, try to teach children in an encouraging way, this is the most direct and fundamental way, any problems can be raised and solved together, after all, parents are from the past, and they have more experience.

    5. The communication between parents and teachers, the child's reaction at school and at home, parents and teachers maintain communication, provide a more relaxed environment for children, which teachers let parents cooperate, and actively cooperate, and which need the help of teachers, parents can also put forward.

    6. To create a warm and safe learning environment for children and cultivate children's feelings is to cultivate children's worldview.

    7. Find ways to let children release their sense of existence and experience the joy and sense of accomplishment of learning.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Encourage the child and tell him that you can do it. You can also sign up for a cram school, try to keep up with the school's classes, and understand the problems you don't understand, so that you can slowly have the enthusiasm to learn.

    If the boredom of school is very serious, parents can suspend school for a few days, take him out to relax, seize the opportunity to persuade, and find something to stimulate or touch his deep desire to learn.

    In fact, the care and attention of parents is really important.

    Parents must maintain a good relationship with their child, and cannot force him to give up his life and studies, but also to understand his current situation and pull him back when he is about to go astray.

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