Do you want to marry him? Not supported by your family? 80

Updated on technology 2024-04-23
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is no fate in love, only fate. It is said that people are very realistic now, and the feelings in reality are several true and pure, in fact, for your confusion, it completely depends on yourself, on your inner world, some things, you need to look far, the bread in front of you can't solve your hunger. I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you fall in love, it is true that it is true that the relationship is true, and when it is really in the hands of firewood, rice, oil and salt, when you need money everywhere, will you still be so chic? If there is no material basis, can you drink the northwest wind? Maybe it's too realistic, but you have to think about life in the future.

    Marrying a man and marrying a man to dress and eat, can't even solve the problem of food and clothing, can there be a future? A woman's life is important when you figure out what you want. Because when God gives you the same, you are destined to give less to another.

    When your choice can't be realized, it's time to give your family a chance, think about it carefully, this is the most important thing, the decision is still up to you, good luck friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You must persist in walking, this is your own life, not your parents' life, your happiness, your parents will never understand! Top you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No. In fact, it will be found out later. You can live well without him. The family's objections are also legitimate. I don't want to say more specifically, if you really want to hear me. Then reply to me and ask me to QQ. Is that okay?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    can't go on, so find a way to make your family accept him, and you can do a business together. Brother top you guys!! , no need to give points!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Affection is the basis of marriage, a marriage without affection will not be happy, if you still like him and want to go down with him then prove it to your family with him, you will be happy... If you don't feel for him anymore, it's easier, just say goodbye...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    See if you love him or not.

    Love has an expiration date.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, you have to know that you are happy, because they are all worthy of your choice, we love our parents, and our parents love us! Parents intervene to make their children happier! When you encounter such a thing, communicate with your parents and tell them what you think, sometimes it doesn't hurt to listen to your parents' opinions!

    As long as you can convince your parents that you can be happy in the future, you can trust them to support your choice! If you just listen to your parents, a marriage without your own love foundation is unhappy, but it is definitely not happy. If you lose this relatively happy marriage because you missed the introduction of your family, you can only say that you missed a beautiful scenery in your life, such scenery in your life.

    It's also absolutely rare, but what is not known is whether it is only brilliant for you. If it were him who had spent three years with you.

    Even if he's not that dazzling, you're clever', "lazy", "little ostrich" and "little white" at least this side has been.

    There have been you. Since you've been happy, it's like the "article.""Show your happiness the same and let your family know each other.

    What can be given to you (this mainly depends on the man's drop) is what you want. If the man really cares about you, I think.

    At this time, he should not keep you, not knowing how to save this love, but to make up for the last flaw of this love.

    A determination, a commitment that gets your parents nodding. All you have to do is respond with a "I do". Best wishes.

    You can say those three words.

    The first time you open the answer,; Oh good luck).

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I suggest that you can be friends, not husband and wife. He is easily tired now, and you will be responsible for everything in the future, including sex, women are about 30 years old, like a tiger, and when the time comes, go out to find someone else, and the fault will all be hung on you, do you think it's worth it?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why do you want to get married? Find the purpose and see if he can complete it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    True love is priceless, true love is infinite.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Together, don't give up! You will be happy!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents don't approve of a relationship or marriage, which can often be very distressing. But the opposition of parents does not mean that they really "can't" be together. It still depends on the following:

    1.How strong the emotional foundation is. If you have a strong relationship with the other person and your interests are complicated, then even if your parents oppose it, you have the opportunity to create your own happiness together.

    Feelings can overcome many obstacles, and the key is that both parties must have enough determination and courage.

    2.The ability of both parties to become financially independent. If you both have good financial independence and can support yourself for your own livelihood, it will greatly increase the likelihood of being together against your parents' wishes. If either party is heavily dependent on the parents, this will be even more difficult.

    3.The attitude of both sides in the face of parental opposition. If you are both determined and courageous enough to face the opposition of your parents, you can reach some kind of compromise with your parents rationally, which will increase your chances of success.

    If either party is unable to face parental opposition and is easily shaken, then the outcome is unpredictable.

    4.The influence of the specific environment of the family. A relaxed family environment is also key. If your parents' influence is less in the family and other family members support you, you will have a better chance of success. If parents have too much influence in the family, this can be a big obstacle.

    5.The ability of both sides to seek social resources. You can also seek help from friends, family and social resources, such as counseling, if needed.

    To sum up, the opposition of parents does not mean that there is really no chance. The key lies in the determination and courage of both of you, as well as the wisdom with which you handle things. Communicate rationally, grasp opportunities, seek social resources, and insist on yourself, and you can finally overcome obstacles and create happiness that belongs to you.

    However, there are trade-offs to any decision, and if you feel like you can't afford the consequences, it's okay to let it go for the time being rather than forcing it. But I believe that as long as both parties truly love each other, they will be together one day.

    If you have any troubles or confusions, please feel free to share them with me. I will provide more personalized advice and suggestions. I'm here whenever I need to. I believe that everything will be fine, and you will definitely find your own happiness!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents are not allowed to marry, there must be factors for them to consider, first of all, to understand the parents' thoughts.

    Parents hope that their daughters will find a good family and find a man who can be entrusted for life. If the parents do not allow them to marry, it means that there are some things about the man that cannot reassure the parents.

    It can be considered in several aspects:

    1. Personal character problems, whether there is a good personality, and whether there are problems in dealing with people.

    2. In terms of family, marriage is a matter of two families, whether the other party's family has something to worry about the parents, and whether the other party's parents can treat your friends well.

    3. Material basis. Material determines the happiness of your future life, and if the other party's material stuffiness is very poor, it may not be able to bring good security to your life. At the same time, the quality of the material also shows the problem of the man's ability to work.

    These are the main aspects that parents consider. Then you have to understand the man and the other party's family, and at the same time communicate with your parents, so that you can know whether the man really can't marry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is true that parents can make suggestions or opinions on the marriage of their children, but in modern society, the right and autonomy to choose a marriage partner still belong to the individual. Therefore, the decision to marry should ultimately be made by the parties themselves, not entirely by the parents.

    Of course, there are special circumstances, such as the need for parental consent for cultural or religious reasons, or hidden problems with potential marriage partners. In such cases, parents may impose stricter requirements and restrictions on marriage issues and more interference and management of the process of choosing a marriage partner.

    In either case, the most important thing for the Shakdans is to respect the opinions and suggestions of parents and to have positive communication and understanding with them. If your parents raise objections to your chosen marriage partner, you can try to communicate and resolve the issue in depth, or seek outside professional help to find a compromise that is acceptable to both parties.

    In short, personal happiness and choices are more important than parents' expectations and opinions, and you should make decisions that are in line with your own wishes based on your own ideas and values.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello. If the parents don't let you marry, the undefeated stool must be that person who is not good, but afraid that that person will be wronged because of something in front of you.

    I'm just my parents won't let me get married, and I'll get married. In fact, it is up to you to decide whether you are doing well or not, maybe you are not doing well in the eyes of others, but you are very happy and happy. You feel that life is miserable, but others find it fulfilling.

    Everyone's definition of happiness is different, so just go with your heart and don't regret it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I understand your troubles, here are some suggestions:

    2.You can communicate more with parents, understand their worries, and let parents understand your choice. Gain understanding step by step.

    3.If your parents' reasons are too subjective, you can euphemistically say that you are also responsible for your own well-being. But you should be rational and do not break up with your family.

    4.You can also ask a third party, such as a relative or friend, to convince the parents that your choice is reasonable.

    5.Marriage itself needs both parties to use rational thinking and mature love to establish, and relying too much on loose parental opinions also has the influence of not rushing to the file and seeking profits.

    6.You also need to take responsibility for your choices and actively negotiate with the other party to resolve possible obstacles.

    7.Finally, both partner and family relationships need to be viewed and handled carefully. Family members should be given time to understand, but they should not give up their own judgment.

    In summary, I believe that adults have the right to choose their own partners, but they also need to maintain communication with their families and gradually gain understanding. Love and affection need to be cherished at the same time. Thank you for bringing this up and I wish you a happy life! (Already).

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, marriage is not a matter of two people.

    Don't let your parents worry about you. All things considered.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A marriage that is not supported by the right family will not be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Talking about a consensual love and entering a marriage that is mutually satisfying is probably everyone's yearning for love.

    After all, everyone only has this life, and this limited life must be spent with their beloved, so that can be considered complete.

    It is true that when you are young, everyone wants to marry someone you love very much, but in the end, not everyone can be so lucky, and many people end up not with the person they love at all, but just choose the person who happens to appear around them.

    And it is precisely because true love is so rare, and there are even fewer people who enter into marriage with true love, so that kind of relationship is particularly enviable and especially desirable.

    Perhaps, for many people who have never married their true love, marrying someone they love will be so fulfilling.

    But what a person who is truly married to true love may not really be as happy as others envy.

    Think about what a wonderful morning it would be when you woke up every day and the first thing you saw was the person you liked, and how motivated you would be to start the day.

    At the same time, when you go to bed every night, the last person you see is also him, the person you like happens to be around, you can see, touch, hug, and sleep, what a romantic thing it should be.

    It is precisely because he is the driving force for you to wake up in the morning and the sleeping agent for you to fall asleep at night, when he fills your morning and dusk, then in the middle of the day, no matter who and what happens, it doesn't seem so difficult.

    With the person you like, with him as your most solid backing, with him always by your side, as soon as you see him, your mood will be inexplicably good, so that many things, you will not care about it at all.

    Because you can't enjoy your time with him, you don't have the mood to care about anything else.

    For you, with him, you already feel that God treats you well, and your heart is already very comforting.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As it turned out, the parents' decision was right, she said. In fact, she had also been in a three-year relationship before, and the boy was her college classmate, but her parents strongly opposed this relationship, and finally had no choice but to break up.

    Later, I asked her, do you regret giving up this relationship? She said she had no regrets. Now that I think about it, it seems like the two of us really don't fit in. Although, we love each other very much, but we are both very short-tempered and often quarrel, if we really get married, I guess life will be a mess!

    Friends say that she is very satisfied with her current state of life, and it seems that everything is just ......My husband takes care of me meticulously, he doesn't let me suffer a little bit, every day he helps me do housework when he gets home from work, even if he works hard, I have never seen him bring negative emotions home, angry at me, we will watch movies at home together, chat ......Now the baby is 5 months old, very active and healthy, and now I am very satisfied with ......

    I couldn't see the expression of deliberately showing off or showing affection on her face, but I could see that she was really happy and happy.

    The person your parents let you marry is not necessarily the most suitable for you, but the person who doesn't let you marry must not marry! When your marriage is not favored by your parents, we still have to listen carefully to their opinions as a return to ordinary life. After all, they know better than you that no matter how vigorous love is, they will eventually return to the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

    In fact, we have all met that girl or boy whose eyes are full of you, but we have all missed the person who should be cherished the most at an age when we don't know how to love. But if you haven't missed it, or have someone you like, you must boldly confess to him [her], don't wait until you lose it to learn to cherish it, please cherish the person in front of you!

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