I don t know if I should keep chasing her

It's a headache for you.

But you have to know what you want and what she can give you. If you're just looking to what you once had, then you go ahead. But if you want a good outcome, you have to make a choice and ask her who the final choice is.

If it's you, ask how long it will take (because I'm also in love and I know what it feels like to love someone) but you have to be sensible, or you'll fall deeper and deeper!

Of course, if it's him, then you have to leave. Leave resolutely, you may be in a lot of pain at that time. But you don't have any other choice, or you'll be in more pain later!!

You must know that there are many beautiful things in this world that we can't get, this is the cruelty of reality, as long as we work hard, we will not regret it!

Of course, it's quite possible that she would say; "Don't push me, it's hard for me to choose something like that! We're not kids anymore.

I don't need to say any more!

In short, feelings are your own business, and in the end, you have to make your own decisions. Others just give you advice!

Good luck!!

Get your own happiness soon!!

Of course, you have to bless me too!!

Hehe. I'm in Henan.

You can find me when you want to find someone to accompany you, no matter how big the difference between our social status, age, and education level is, in the emotional world, we are the same. When you find someone to talk to, you can come to me, (depending on my convenience,).

Hehe. In addition, the fee is out for you! Hey.

Give her a deadline to choose one, don't be soft-hearted or it won't be good for all three of you

How can a man tolerate a girlfriend having another boyfriend, you have to pay attention.

First of all, you need to be clear about what you want? Everyone has the right to love and be loved, and of course, this refers to those who are not married; You should talk to her and tell her that you can't have both "fish and bear's paws", if she still insists on going her own way? Then in the end, both sides lose!

It also involves the question of one's moral character. Would you marry such a girl as your future partner?

Don't force it, just give up. It is said that the person you love is worth the wait. But the person who really loves you will not let you wait too long, the person who loves you will feel sorry for you, and he can't bear to refuse your pursuit again and again.

Only people who don't love you will exhaust your time and energy to enjoy your goodness, and they will never be willing to accept you.

She neither refuses nor accepts, makes you ambiguous and keeps asking for your love. A person who asks you to pursue hard, does not agree or refuse, is really selfish.

A true story, I saw a young man pursuing a girl, and I could see that the young man really loved girls too much, and he responded to his needs during the pursuit, and his kindness to girls could move the world.

I don't know how many movies I watched, how many meals I ate, and I don't know how many times I helped the girl repair the household appliances, and soon more than half a year passed, and as soon as the boy approached the behavior, the girl was very disgusted, and the girl who wanted to hold her hand was also very repulsed.

The girl said, "We're growing so fast, I haven't figured it out yet." It's been half a year since we got along, and I haven't sparked a spark of love, and I've been asking for it all the time, is this kind of love worth sticking to? There is no doubt that men are just spare tires.

A person who doesn't love you, you will never be able to move her, instead of wasting time waiting, it is better to vacate that place in your heart and leave it for the next person to call you. People who really like you will always be available for you on the road of falling in love with you, rain or shine.

The girl who pursued for half a year and didn't have a result, just let it go silently, anyone's time is precious, there is a time to pursue a girl for three or five years, I change the object to chase maybe the wife and children have already had. If you chase it for too long, you will be tired, and you will not be able to find the original feeling when you are tired.

Continue to pursue for a month, set a deadline for yourself, and let go if you can't catch up, which is a reason to regret it in the future. Since you are all excited, you have to work hard for another month to try it, and you give up when you feel tired after taking the initiative for a long time.

Why didn't the girl give you an answer for a long time, because she thought she liked this thing, and she couldn't figure it out. No one knows if the person who likes it in full swing one second will not like it the next second. There are too many people who will try their best to pursue a relationship before it starts, but after being together, it slowly fades away.

There are also many people who establish a relationship by holding hands and go a long way before they know it.

This life is too short. I really wish there was a progress bar when pursuing girls. In this case, even if the girl doesn't respond to you, at least there is a progress bar telling you how hard you try, and she will like you, or instructing that you don't need to work harder, it's time to quit.

If you think about it carefully, you can't tell whether we have passed the age where we continue to love without responding, or later, we have never met the person we chased desperately.

Nowadays, we are slowly learning to look at a relationship in a more rational light. When you see that the other party does not respond, you have to consciously stop and leave with interest, which not only maintains your own decency, but also avoids causing discomfort to the other party. It's just a little bit sad.

Give it up, it means she doesn't like you. When you slowly treat her as an ordinary person, you will find that there are many excellent girls.

In my case, I chased her for three months, and her reply was exactly the same as you described.

Is it the wrong way to pursue her, and people don't feel that you are chasing her? If not, after chasing for half a year without responding, I think you can stop, a completely hopeless feeling.

If she is still single at the moment, and she still likes her very much, then continue, after all, there is still a chance, don't give up halfway.

I think it's better not to continue, how to continue if you don't respond, and continue if you have a response.