Rejected by a good friend! How to continue chasing after being rejected by a good friend

I think it's time for you to break out of this awkward situation. Moreover, since she has taken the initiative to reject you, what position do you have to say no to her? I don't think it's possible that she's rejecting you because she's terminally ill or something.

She actually wants to redeem your friendship, although it doesn't seem to you, but compared to love, friendship is more suitable for you and is also a choice for both parties.

It is not often said: love is like a ghost, and there are more people who believe and fewer people who see it. In fact, this sentence is quite reasonable.

In the past, people's love was an ethereal thing for them, but now, although it is no longer invisible, it is blocked everywhere. Sometimes, you think you have seen it, but in fact it is just a trick to confuse passers-by, and in the end, it took a lifetime of chasing before you found that you had lost your eyes. And you are in that state of confusion right now.

You think it's love between you, but it's not. Besides, love is a matter of two people, and there is only one one-man show, and I don't think anyone wants to watch it.

So, in fact, it is not love between the two of you. It's just that over time, the gradual relationship pushes you to think that you are in love. In fact, in the end, it may just be an ambiguous affair, and no one owes anyone.

Other than that, I think you know that love never lasts as long as a friend. In addition to the embarrassing situation you have now, there is also an embarrassing situation after the breakup. When love is happy, there is only two loves, and when they are together.

After the breakup, I didn't even have friends to do it. We may not see each other for the rest of our lives. And friendship, even if it is separated for 10 years and reunited after 20 years, it is still a friend, and the relationship between them remains the same.

Yes, both friendship and love are prone to spoilage. Just like your current situation, friendship has turned into love. But compared to the terrible deterioration of love (love deterioration, it will become feelings, habits, and even love becomes unlove), friendship is more beautiful.

I hope you can understand that love does not last as long as friendship.

Also, since she's made her decision, all you can do is respect her decision. Judging by what she said, she must have wanted you back as a friend, and if this situation is maintained, she must have abandoned the army to protect the commander—she would rather not have you as a friend than be embarrassed. But I'm not telling you to give up, if you really can't give up, I think you can choose to love her silently.

Of course, you silently love her and protect her, and you can't expect others to give you anything in return. This emotional world is so unfair, but many people are willing to eat it, and they don't know how you are.

Hope it helps.

Freeze, wait for her to talk to you, then thaw, and then mention it again to see the reaction.

If you think she has a good personality in all aspects, you can continue to contact her, even if she is a friend! When the relationship between two people reaches the point of falling into place, you can confess again, and the success rate at that time is relatively high!

Well, yes, you're going to have to reconsider, I think she's doing it for your good. A girl may have a crush, or his feelings for you are limited to friends.

I think you can go with the flow. Life is still very long, you will meet all kinds of people, and there will always be someone who is suitable for you waiting for you. If she rejects you, she will definitely not call, and she will take the initiative to find you, which means that she is unwilling to lose your friend, girls may not like people who are too persistent, give up what does not belong to you, I believe that you will get your own happiness!

How good, I like this.

I don't like what you say, wake up.

Don't wait, apparently she made her mean it very clearly. Forget about her, although it's hard.

In fact, boyfriends and girlfriends can be very good friends.

If you really like her.

You should respect her opinion.

Maintain a good relationship and affection between two people.

I think. Her handling of this relationship is still very good!

Hehe. Don't bother.

Let it be!

You're still young! Personal advice: it's better not to wait! (Of course, that doesn't mean you have to find someone to fall in love with!) Just don't be stupid to pay for him! ）

It's up to you to decide exactly how to do it!

If you're going to be a freshman now, or already in your freshman year, if you have a dream in your heart, personal advice is not to fall in love before your junior year!

Thinking that it will be easy to get lost, it is easy to get hurt!

Maybe she has someone in her heart who has always loved her.

A good friend should continue to accompany her unconditionally.

A good friend is someone who will not be embarrassed if they stand together and do not speak.

Silently caring for her and supporting her, this is the last thing you can do.

Find someone else, don't get it to the point where you can't even make friends.

I don't think he wants to be with you, so let go of the handle

It's okay if you catch it, it's embarrassing to catch up, in fact, it's good to be friends, when the two are really together, they will slowly find each other's shortcomings, love is not as good as we imagined.

Continue to treat her well, and slowly get better.

Obviously she doesn't like you, if you still want to have fun with her, don't show it, just watch her happy, if not, separate.

Why should you be in a relationship if you like someone? But how can you be willing to be friends if you like someone? Stand up for you. Don't let yourself regret it years later.

Get along slowly, and sincere efforts will always be rewarded.

Wait quietly for ......Silently pay ......It's just good ...... herThere's always something to gain.

Calm and calm, good for everyone... We'll talk about it later.

Silly, don't open your mouth when your friends don't have a high degree of certainty that you can win it, A good story between friends if you become a good story, and a joke between friends when you lose! And you are the second type, long point to remember the gender dead skin and face, give both parties a way back, otherwise it will be difficult for friends to do it!!

She ignores you. You don't pay attention to her.

Don't fail to take yourself seriously. Everyone is unique.

There's no need to force it! What you can't keep will be lost eventually, your heart is not in you, and everything you do is superfluous! What can you do!

Turn shame into strength! I'm sure there's something you're not doing perfectly! Do your best to perfect yourself!

There is no need to force yourself for someone who doesn't care about you, and there is no need to be friends, in his eyes you are worthless now! If he doesn't respect you, then you don't have to be reluctant to give up on him! There will always be someone who loves you waiting for you in the world!

Love is equal, and there is no need to deliberately give up anything in pursuit of results. Take care of yourself and just go with the flow.

Love can't be forced, don't feel ashamed, this proves that you really love him, but don't do anything like that in the future, it's not worth it in case he promises you a few days and wants to break up with you again, isn't it a vain dedication?

You are too active just because you are too afraid of losing him, you are willing to pay for this feeling, don't feel anything.

Now that it's happened, there's nothing it can do. Be yourself calmly, cherish yourself in the future, and don't need to make yourself so unbearable.

It's just to prove that you've worked hard, at least you won't regret it later, and you don't have to feel ashamed

If he doesn't reject you, you'll be in vain, losing thousands of dollars.

What about self-esteem? When you think back on this past in a few years, you will definitely slap yourself a few times. If you don't love yourself, who will love you. Women sometimes have to maintain that "pride".

proves that he doesn't love you, it's time for him to let go, it's no big deal.

It's a shame indeed.

It's counterproductive, and my girlfriend will break up if you're like this.

Don't worry too much, he just doesn't want to be with you anymore.

It shows that I really don't love you anymore, and I can refuse this kind of good thing these years!

Explain that he is not with you because of sex.

You can rest assured that he will not come to you again, he will feel that he is more complete, and he will save it for the next one who loves you or you love.

Someone who doesn't love you, your body is not worth mentioning in his eyes.

Girl, it's not sweet to grab the sweet potato, let it go, you will find the best.

Forehead! That's why we broke up!

You didn't take advantage of the opportunity when I liked you, and now it's too late.

Don't talk about it in the future, unless someone else brings it up, just like before, and don't take it to heart at all.

Responding to relationships through time That's how I am.

The other party may not look down on you, who has not rejected others, who has not been rejected by others, in fact, the most likely reason for rejection or rejection is that it is not suitable or there is a better option.

Probably not, it's just that you're not her thing.

No, you don't have to think about it. Maybe there's something else? Why don't you ask her!

Since you are a good friend, you should also know her character, if he looks down on you, how can you be a good friend? He may have rejected you for a reason, and you should also empathize with her difficulties.

Maybe you didn't think of what she thought, don't slowly distance yourself in the future, you must be a good friend, otherwise you will regret it.

No, maybe it's something else, but you have to have faith in yourself