For me as a junior, can you give me a reason not to fall in love?

Updated on educate 2024-04-19
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you only go to undergraduate school for four years, you have to find a job, falling in love will bring unnecessary trouble, such as taking into account the employment territory of the other party, considering the problems of two people rather than one person; If you want to continue your studies, you will face graduate school entrance examinations or other learning problems, and your energy will be easily distracted.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Those who should come will come back and go, don't deliberately force it, in fact, you have to find a reason just to give yourself an excuse that you didn't have true love but it's not your fault.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It takes a lot to fall in love: energy, time, emotion, and the economy, which is also the most important, and college students generally do not have rich money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just make friends, don't fall in love. You know, life is not good, housing prices are rising every day... It's a waste of time to fall in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't want to, that's the best reason!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Say to yourself: I don't want to!!

    If you think about it yourself, any reason is useless!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are the best reason, when you don't want to be in a relationship, when you feel very uncomfortable, when you

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not to mention one, money is a problem, and whether we can be together after graduation is also a problem, don't hurt each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To like is to like, and not to like is not to like.

    There are so many reasons to come there.

    Disturb yourself!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Say to yourself that your sexuality is unknown.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There aren't too many people walking out of the school gate, and it's you who will be uncomfortable at that time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's best to tell your parents, but it also depends on what kind of personality your parents are and how much they have a relationship with each other.

    1.If you don't know your parents' attitude, talk secretly and hang up the performance first. However, you need to be uproaring when driving.

    Please wear a helmet. It's not their fault that your parents are against your college love. After all, everyone has a different position, and they are also worried about you.

    Especially girls, I want your parents to work hard to raise you and not let you recognize the wrong person. There are a lot of scumbags in the erection, what if the spare time is ruined? Please make sure to hide from your parents and remember that the circle of friends will be blocked.

    Don't think that parents don't always see the circle of friends. If there are clues, it may help.

    2.Explore your parents' views on their relationship! The action is ambiguous, which attracts the attention of parents, and try it when you ask if you are in love in college.

    How to apply your parents' words varies from person to person. That depends on your mouth and IQ. If it is a fixed attitude, just say what should be said, walk together appropriately, and don't say that it will affect learning.

    If you can't find a partner in the future, cry.

    3.Parents are open-minded people who are open to college students in love. Some parents not only do not prevent their children from falling in love, but also encourage their children to speak.

    Especially now that there are a lot of single dogs. The mother of the first grade of the seniors said that she was not in a hurry, but when she reached the third grade, she said that she should look for it. What should I do if I can't find it in the future

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on what kind of personality the parent has and how much affection he has with his or her own object.

    1. If you are not sure about your parents' attitude, it is better to talk secretly. It is not their fault that your parents oppose your college falling in love, after all, they are worried about you because of their different positions. Especially for girls, your parents have worked hard to raise you, and they don't want you to look at the wrong person.

    There are so many scumbags, what if you run into them? If you are sure to hide your parents' love from you, remember that your circle of friends should be shielded, and don't think that your parents will not look at your circle of friends when they are old.

    2. Tentatively ask your parents what they think of their love! You can make ambiguous gestures that will provoke your parents to test you when they ask if they were in love at college. As for how to deal with your parents, everyone is different, and it depends on your eloquence and intelligence.

    If you have a certain attitude, you can talk about what you should talk about, and if you are suitable, you will walk together, don't keep talking about affecting your studies, and if you can't find a partner in the future, you can cry!

    3. My father and mother are open people and have an open attitude towards college students falling in love. Some parents not only don't stop their children from falling in love, but encourage them to talk, especially now that there are so many single dogs. When I was in my junior year, I said that I would look for it, and what should I do if I couldn't find it in the future, a 360-degree change scared me to suspect that I was not my own.

    Obviously, you told me not to be in a hurry, but now you are urging me to find one, and I have 10,000 MMPs in my heart!

    College Romance Matters to Note Items.

    1. Men and women are prohibited from renting houses outdoors.

    Many men and women are too open-minded in their love thinking, and they spend most of their time in rented houses. Due to the lack of self-protection among university students, outdoor renting can easily affect the relationship between the two parties. This in turn affects learning.

    2. Men and women should be single-minded in their relationships.

    When they are in college, they must learn to share happiness with each other, give themselves more space for freedom, and not put love in the first place, let alone engage in ambiguity with many classmates, and as a result, they will hurt themselves and others, and they will pay a heavy price.

    3. College love should also be based on learning.

    If both parties love each other, they should study hard in order to have a better life guarantee in the future, and they should not focus on love. The university period is the best era, and both sides should learn to cherish the feelings between them, work hard to make progress, and make plans for their own future development.

    4. In college love, women must learn to observe words and feelings.

    When you fall in love in college, even if the feelings of two people are too pure, you must guard against scumbags and being deceived. As a result, women lose their concentration in their thoughts, lack the energy to study, and suffer from their physical health. We must resolutely reject unreasonable demands from men.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For long-distance relationships and online dating, we should also overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, and strengthening communication, so that the relationship can still have results.

    As long as the relationship between the two is stable, it is not enough to be a reason to break up. Long-distance dating and online dating are just a starting point, although long-distance dating and online dating will have many changes, such as location, work, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the test, the future relationship will be more precious and will have a beautiful result.

    How to talk about a love without breaking up?

    First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to think carefully, take into account both rationality and emotion, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as the mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.

    Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people.

    Economy is the basis of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then graduate in order to move in the same direction.

    Again, learn to compromise and give in.

    When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, long-distance relationships and other issues need to be discussed slowly by both parties to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.

    Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good relationship state is when two people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other person stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    College students fall in love for the first time is the best not to choose the object, personally think there are the following points?

    Type 1. Seniors type.

    You may think that older people are more distressed, or that people who have experience in relationships will make you more comfortable in relationships.

    But because seniors have gone through this stage of yours, they have their own understanding of feelings, and they can easily influence you with their own experiences.

    The second type.

    The innocent type who has never been in love.

    Many times, we will be willing to find someone who is like a blank slate to fall in love, but if you decide that this person is your lifelong partner, you can choose to fall in love with her and make her what you want.

    Otherwise, you must not fall in love with such a person, because she can't afford to be hurt, and because he hasn't been in a relationship, you don't know what it will look like after falling in love, and if the two of you can't go to the end, it will hit each other hard.

    The third type.

    Typical rich second-generation type.

    If the other party chooses to chase you, you will be easily caught up by the other party, not only will the classmates around you think that you are material, but also if you don't know each other, it will be difficult for your relationship to last for a long time.

    Rich second-generation people because you may have less contact with them, you don't know much about their character and living environment, and because you are in love for the first time, if the starting point is very high, it will have a very big impact on your future love and affect your view of love and worldview.

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