I m a little confused about my current life

The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article. Although it has been more than 30 years since China's reform and opening up, and its economy and culture have entered the era of globalization, China is, after all, an ancient country with a 5,000-year-old civilization, and its Chinese characteristics are unique. If a person does not have good interpersonal relationships, it is difficult to succeed no matter how great his ability is.

You are not very good like this, you have to learn to communicate with people, so that you can discover the beauty around you, people need to communicate more to know who is good and who is not, so that you can make more friends, more friends are easy to walk, more friends and one more road. In fact, I am really happy when I have a lot of friends around me!

I used to work on computers, dealing with machines every day, and I talked less, sometimes I don't like to talk to people around me, and I like to communicate with words, such as QQ, logs, etc. Now I have changed jobs, salesman, and now I am more cheerful, talking and laughing with my colleagues every day, and I feel that life is also interesting. I feel that the key is not to stop talking if you don't want to, but to communicate with people more, and after a long time, you will become outgoing.

I think you should be more cheerful, make more friends, talk to the friends who come to talk, you can make friends according to your personality, and improve yourself appropriately, so that maybe your life will be more interesting and your career will be more successful.

You can try to make some friends, usually care about others, try to expand your circle, and you can talk to the computer every day, you can also talk to netizens about your heart, I believe that there will be a lot of enthusiastic people, you will succeed if you have the desire to grow, you have this desire, I believe you will do it.

Get to know the people around you more and be good at communicating with them, because it is impossible to continue without communication in life or work. Be optimistic!!

Increase your own interests and hobbies, broaden your mind, and pay attention to absorbing the opinions or suggestions of others.

Whenever I am alone, bored, or after completing a task, I feel lost and empty, which is a normal physiological phenomenon because we can't control our thoughts all the time. The way to deal with it is simple: find a way to make yourself happy. The commonly used methods are as follows:

1. Chat with your family. Reminisce about the good past or make a small plan for the future, such as going shopping, watching a movie, etc., to give yourself a hope.

2. Work and study. Moderate work and study can relieve anxiety and enrich yourself.

3. Listen to ** or watch movies. I love watching horror movies when I'm bored, and I feel lucky and happy every time I watch them.

4. Moderate exercise. Exercise that is not too tiring can make people happy, especially confrontational sports.

5. Travel. Strap on your backpack and go out on the nearest bus, get off at a stop with your favorite name, walk aimlessly, watch the rush of pedestrians, it would be better if there were singers on the side of the road, listen to the song in its entirety, and you will become happy. (Of course, you have to go home before dusk, don't accidentally become a missing person.) ）

When you are confused, you can't consume yourself with nothing to do.

Try the inner strength again, and we walk together.

When you feel lost in life, maybe you should ask yourself these eight stupid questions to clear your mind.

Although it is very confused, it is necessary to keep moving forward. Because I believe that there will always be a bright moment. It doesn't matter what direction you're going in the confusion.

Keep walking, don't stop! Even if it's wrong, at least you'll be grateful that you didn't stop there and missed out on a lot of valuable scenery.

I just want to say that 20-25 years old will have this kind of thought, look away, this is just a test of time for us, see how you deal with it.

Be confident, confused, difficulties are only temporary, be calm in your heart, don't be irritable.

I'm the same now, I'm confused, standing at a crossroads, not knowing which direction to go.

Many people (including myself) are confused, overwhelmed, and don't know what to do when time passes, or their subconscious tells them that they should do something, but they never take a step to do it.

Personally, I recommend thinking about what you want. Or just make up your mind to do something, be quiet alone, and cry when you want to cry. I wish you a quick recovery, and may your friends and family see your smile more often.

Find a quiet place to think, quiet places are everywhere! Just see if your heart is still! Got it!

Think quietly! Watch a motivational book or movie.

Read a book, relax, and open your eyes.

When you are confused, listen to more of your favorite songs and think about what your goal in life is.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

What to do when life is confused?

Everyone has a time when they are confused, and when they think that they have done so much and have not achieved results, you know the hardships of life. As long as you cheer up, you have to be confident and never give up, never give up, never give up on your life. Come on.

There are a lot of small confusions in life, when you want to sleep, but there are still a lot of work not done, drink some coffee when you are sleepy, this can refresh your mind, want to buy a brand-name clothing, the wallet in your hand is a little tight, the more money is tight, the more things are more confused.

Hello, there are a lot, when I want to sleep, but there is still a lot of work, this time mostly.

Hui Shu people will choose to drink caedine, this refreshing ability is still known to everyone, but there is another role that everyone is not able to know. It's about drinking more coffee when we're constipated. Because we often sit and have no time for exercise, the function of our stomach and intestines may not be very good, so we choose to replace soy milk with coffee when we eat breakfast, so that our symptoms will be relieved a lot, and the effect will be very obvious if we persist for a week.