What would you do if Dad asked you to call your stepmom Mom?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-17
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is your own heart problem, bravely take this step, let me tell you a story, if you are particularly afraid of water, there is a particularly shallow pool in front of you, but you don't know whether it is deep or shallow, at this time you dare not step in, when someone pushes you, you find that it is so shallow, so you go and take this step bravely, I believe you can.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, no matter what the relationship between the other party and you is, you should call Mom. After all, it's already a family. If you can't accept it, you can express it with actions and tell her that you are going to accept her.

    Then slowly try to call Mom. This is just a transition. Talk to your father about the fact that you need to accept time and don't push yourself.

    It would be better that way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your stepmother is okay with you, you should change your mind. If your stepmother doesn't treat you as her own or targets you, you can consider not changing her mind. But that would make the relationship even more stalemate.

    But as a young person, you should be generous and patient for the sake of your father. A scream can solve a lot of problems.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think anyone can immediately accept that I call another woman Mom. But we have to accept that fact. She's married, and we should accommodate him.

    Don't let him be more serious, even if you don't scream, it won't change anything. So for the sake of a smooth life for himself and his father's future, it's okay to call Mom.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ma Ma is a title, you can try to shout. As long as you shout, you will open your mouth later. If your stepmother treats you well, then respect the old and love the young.

    If not, you have to get by on the face, and you will leave that home when you are financially independent. In any case, people must first ensure that they live well.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In addition to calling parents who are biologically related by blood, "Mom" is just a social relationship title, a code name attached to emotions, and the feelings are naturally called, and there is no need to force the feelings to arrive, otherwise the emotions such as greater psychological pressure or anger will outweigh the losses.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For the sake of the big picture. Just a salutation. And now you are alone, she is your father's companion, you want your father to be happy every day, a title is a good deal. And since you plan to live together, you must have a good relationship and don't make too much trouble.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To love someone is to accept everything about him.

    If you truly love each other, you will love each other's children from the bottom of your heart. When the daughter put her arms around her mother's neck, she pleaded with tears in her eyes: "Mom, I don't want stepfather, I will listen to you and serve you in the future."

    What woman in the world can withstand the tears of her own children? At this time, the man should appear as the child's big friend, tell stories, do homework, and play games with the child, and only after a long time can he be recognized by the child.

    The reason why many remarried families are unhappy is that two people are not of the same mind, and they look separated, especially when they treat each other's children as if they were gone, and they are even.

    Some people say it nicely on the surface, but behind the scenes, they treat their stepchildren badly. After you remarry, don't always say how good you want to be to your children, but really be good to your children, and believe that if you are good to other people's children, the other party can see it.

    Maybe you will care more about your children from the bottom of your heart, but for the sake of family peace and harmony, please take care of your children first and cultivate their caring, generous, optimistic, and tolerant character. When necessary, you should give more love to each other's children, smile more, care more, and the feelings will be deeper.

    It is normal for children to be resistant to new members of the family, and if you force your children to call you daddy, it is easy to exacerbate your child's rebellious mentality.

    It is recommended that parents should give their children a little more time in life, and usually care more about their children in words or actions, and he will naturally accept you after a long time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is normal for a stepdaughter not to be called a stepfather, it is the mother who marries the stepfather, not the daughter who passes on to the stepfather, the stepfather has the responsibility of supporting the stepfather, and the stepdaughter has the right to call or not to call the stepfather.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Should. What does stepfather mean, that is, another person comes to continue to take on the duties and responsibilities of the father, so it is called stepfather. The difference lies in the pro and the reincarnation, and it should be called when you get along, after all, he also bears the responsibility of being a father to you.

    Besides, you live in a family, take 10,000 steps back, you should politely call him Dad, he may be very calm on the surface, but in fact he will be very happy inside.

    If he is very good to you, just like your biological father, and you can accept him in your heart, then it should be called, if he is very good to you, and you accept him, but you just feel that no one can take your biological father's place, then it doesn't matter, as long as he is old, you can also do some children's obligations, and compare your heart with your heart. You must know that although he is not related to you by blood, he will nurture you and take care of you in the rest of your life.

    Do you want him to hurt you? If you want to, you have to be sweeter. Although the heart refuses, sometimes you have to learn to be smarter.

    You should just be a title. Walking on the road and seeing a neighbor, you call a lady or something, out of politeness. If you don't call him, it means that you don't respect him, and he is bored with you in his heart.

    Repel. Resulting in a bad relationship between you.

    In order to build a good relationship. It should be called. In fact, it's nothing to shout Dad, just give money.

    Originally, this kind of family is going to live together, and you must not make your parents feel bad because of you. Learn to call slowly, thinking in your heart that just a hello is good, and you don't have to pay too much attention to it. Have a great day.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should call him Daddy, of course, it depends on whether you accept him in your heart, and I suggest that if he is good to your mother and you are good to yourself, you can call him Daddy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should be called, if you are very good to you and your mother, and take great care of you, you should call Dad, after all, you are going to live together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you can't get over that hurdle in your heart, you can just call it uncle, and no one will force you to call it, after all, there is still no blood relationship between you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think I should call him Dad, no matter what happens, in this restructured family, he has taken on the responsibility of being a father, taking on the task of raising you and taking care of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, he and your mother are already a couple, you are a family, he did not dislike you because you were not his own, but did better than your father, and he did enough to make you call him father.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My parents are also divorced, and I'm a boy! There are so many people in my stepfather's house! I have to call every uncle and aunt! I don't want to do it myself! Later, I lost my temper and scolded my relatives at home! was imprisoned in a psychiatric hospital by his parents!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, although you are not related by blood, after all, he and your mother are married, and a certain amount of etiquette is still required, which is also for the good of your mother and son.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course it should, for the sake of your mother's face, you have to scream, this is her second relationship, and she still has to support it as a child.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, he fulfilled his father's obligations and succeeded your biological father to continue to raise you, and you should also fulfill your son's obligation to call him Daddy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you get along well, I think you can call Dad, because after all, it's someone your mother likes, and it's good for yourself, such an emotion.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, he is already husband and wife with your mother, he is already a family with you, and it stands to reason that you should call him Dad.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He's your daddy, you have to call him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello, stepmom can be called a mother. In law, mothers include biological mothers, adoptive mothers, and stepmothers. We collectively call my mother my mother, but from a human point of view and psychologically, if I get along with my stepmother for a short time, it is difficult to change my mouth, I also have friends around me who have an extra stepmother at home for other reasons, he usually calls him aunt, because he was a teenager when he met his stepmother, and he didn't change his words, but his stepmother was also very good to him, but he didn't change his words, but the relationship was very good, and they were no different from a normal family.

    There are also many examples in reality, as for the stepmother to be called so, it is based on their actual situation to talk nonsense, some people call mother, some people call aunt, as long as you can get along, it means family harmony.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Stepmothers are not inherently bad-hearted, it's just a stereotype and misunderstanding. Just like any other character, stepmothers have different personalities, backgrounds, and experiences, and Hiromori can't simply categorize all stepmothers as bad-hearted.

    In real life, there are many stepmothers who have established a good and cautious relationship with their stepchildren and stepdaughters, respecting, caring and supporting each other. Of course, there are some family frictions and problems, but this does not mean that all stepmothers are bad-hearted.

    It is important to avoid generalizing and ignorant judgments. Each family has its own unique circumstances and dynamics, and it is essential to understand their backgrounds and practices and communicate with each other.

    If you have doubts or concerns, the best way to do this is to have an open, honest conversation with the person involved. Communicating with understanding and respect can help eliminate misunderstandings and build a more harmonious relationship.

    Whether it's stepmothers or others, we should treat them with tolerance and understanding, so that we can build a positive, healthy relationship.

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