My family conditions are not very good, but my boyfriend is very unmotivated, I want to get married,

Are you going to be sure that you will always like a man who is not motivated?

You have to decide if you want to get married or if you want to marry your boyfriend!

Poor family conditions have little to do with getting married. If you think he will dislike you because of your family situation, then you can try to talk to him. This way you can also know the reason why he doesn't want to get married!

How old are you? Is it that you are not too old so your boyfriend doesn't want to get married yet?

Sometimes, many factors have to be determined before thinking about whether to get married or not.

Finally, I wish a lover a family member!

A good man must have three basic points: motivated and responsible, love his family, understand family affection, and the most important thing is the first point, if a man is not motivated, he doesn't even want to change himself, life is so-so, how can he cherish the people around him?

The most important thing is to figure out why he doesn't want to get married, and then think about it.

Ask him if he really loves you.

What is the reason for not knotting?

Ask him if he can give you a future.

If it's negative.

The ending will be seen.

You don't have a financial foundation, the other party is still an unmotivated person, and you still want to get married?

Don't you feel how serious this mistake is?

yes, don't blame the good guys, let's talk about it.

Don't regret it.

Or break up right away.

I believe that every girl has her own expectations and imagination for the other half, and hopes to find a boyfriend who is hard-working, has good family conditions, and is handsome and gentle. However, in reality, it is often unsatisfactory. So what should you do if your boyfriend's family conditions are not too good and he doesn't work hard?

I think if you really want to go down with your boyfriend, you have to talk to your boyfriend about his plans for your future. If your boyfriend doesn't have any idea about the future, gets by, and doesn't want to be motivated, then I think you need to think about this relationship. If your boyfriend has changed, then the relationship can be saved, but only if you still love him.

A person can have no money, he can have a bad family condition, but he can't be poor and short-sighted. My conditions are not good, I don't work hard, I have to get by, and I don't have a plan for my future life. And as the girlfriend of this kind of person, you may feel a deep sense of powerlessness, hating iron and not steel.

If your boyfriend is this kind of person, I think as a girl, you must have a good talk with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend can listen to his advice, improve, work hard, and prove himself with practical actions, it will give you a better future. Then I think girls can work together with their boyfriends to create a happy life that belongs to you.

But if in the face of your advice, or even accusations, your boyfriend does not feel guilty or reflective. Then I think you need to think about whether you have to give up the relationship between you. Because I don't think such a boy will give you happiness.

Girls looking for a boyfriend can have poor family conditions and no money, but they must not be unmotivated.

If you don't have money to earn, if you don't have self-motivation and don't work hard, then you may not be happy for the rest of your life with such a boyfriend. When you are in love, there is still love to maintain each other's emotions, and after a long time, only quarrels and trivial lives remain. Such a boy can't give a girl happiness, and a girl will eventually leave such a boy.

I really hope that every girl can find her own happiness.

You can urge him to be motivated, but if he doesn't listen to you, then it's better for you to break up with him, because it is very difficult for an unmotivated person to give you happiness.

At this time, you must break up with your boyfriend, because such a boyfriend is indeed very unreliable, and it will be very difficult after marriage.

You have to break up right away, because such a man will not give you happiness in the future and will make you especially miserable.

First, you need to ask yourself if your relationship with your boyfriend is based on genuine love and mutual respect. If the feelings between you are genuine, then you should work together to overcome other difficulties. Here are some suggestions:

1.Accept him as he is. Even though his conditions are not good, you need to accept him as he is and understand his strengths and weaknesses. In this way, you can get to know him better, support him, and help him improve his situation.

2.Encourage him to be aggressive. You can help him set goals and plans, and encourage him to take positive actions to achieve them. You can give him support and advice to help him better face challenges and difficulties.

3.Grow with him. You can learn and grow with him and discover new interests and skills together, which will help strengthen your relationship and enhance your interaction and communication.

4.Don't ignore your values. As much as you love your boyfriend, you also need to make sure that your relationship aligns with your values and life goals.

If you find that your relationship is having a negative impact on your life, then you need to consider reevaluating your relationship.

Most importantly, remember that any relationship requires effort and commitment from both parties. If you and your boyfriend are based on sincerity and respect, you can overcome difficulties together and build a lasting and harmonious relationship.

This question should be divided into situations, one is that your boyfriend's character should be seen clearly, to see if it is a potential stock, whether it is a good character, whether it is a mother's treasure, if he is very capable and capable, can support your nuclear family, and can give you a rich life, then it doesn't matter, after all, heroes don't ask where they come from. On the other hand, your boyfriend has not had any big ambitions and abilities, and similarly, if he has no pursuit, the suggestion is to break up, but you also have to know: home is created by yourself, others have a good family, if you are not suitable, then the fate of your love will not be good, so young people should not always talk about whether the conditions are good or not.

It still depends on whether you work hard or not.

Only the family under the hard work will always be happy, so the key is that the two of you work hard to fight, you will always be happy, keep talking about other people's wealth, the conditions are not good, it is useless, because the two of you do not work hard, then you will always be poor, so, you still have to know that the main thing is to rely on your two to develop the goal, after all, even if good things fall from the sky, you still have to open your mouth, nothing is easy to obtain. And in fact, you should ask yourself this question first. What kind of physical conditions do you require?

Well, what kind of basis is there for your so-called bad conditions?

In fact, when choosing a man, you must choose a self-motivated man. Because even if you have a mountain of gold and silver, at the same time, you must know that people who are not self-motivated and slow to envy are very changeable. So, I don't recommend that you guys be together, and I've seen too many people who have been married for a few years and have no money, and two people are separated.

In today's world, where the divorce rate is quite high, you should really ask yourself. Instead of asking others, ask yourself first. No matter how much people say, you can't empathize.

Trust your choice. If this man is really a self-motivated person, you are afraid how can you be afraid that they will not have money in the future, right? That's how life is.

Falling in love to breaking up, but it is not a thing that both parties can accept, after all, breaking up is a failed relationship, because when you choose to fall in love, you want to have a good love experience, two people can hold hands to have ideas, hope to fall in love with each other, breaking up is not a good thing for both parties, there will be some blows and injuries, falling out of love is painful, but you should not indulge in thoughts and can't extricate yourself, just like the theme. He has a positive and enterprising mind, and he can forget about this unhappy lovelorn, the sadness and torture caused by the breakup, and constantly strive to change himself. After his change, he has become very confident.

Don't pray, don't entangle, accept the fact of breaking up, many people will repeatedly promise each other that I will change, I will change, I will change, give me another chance, okay? And these words are often said n times before the breakup, and repeating them again will only cause the other party to resent them.

Or if you feel hopeless after trying to redeem yourself, you are angry and say that you should never contact each other again, and then you can't help but contact the other party, these repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.

And when a man proposes to break up, it is generally a deliberate decision, and he doesn't want to continue, for what reason? If you have the opportunity, be sure to ask the other person why they want to leave, but many times they will not tell you the real reason, you can only think about it yourself and understand.

Or you have some shortcomings that he can't bear or there are some realistic external resistances that make him have to give up, or more rationally, it is easier to give up than to continue, and you can find the answer from what he has said.

After breaking up, give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other party wants to break up, only when you find the real reason why he wants to break up, you can be targeted when you recover.

Breaking up gives yourself a period of calm, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact that the breakup is that the two people who used to have the most information every day suddenly cut off contact, and it is not only you who are uncomfortable, but also him, but it is this pain that will prompt him to miss the good you used to be, and think about whether the decision to break up is right.

3. Breaking off contact and finding back to your former self is difficult for people who want to redeem their love, you may very much want to know if he still loves you, whether it is worth retrieving, and what he is doing during the breakup.

But I tell you, don't rush to contact, even if you are still in love with the other person, don't keep looking at his space and following his Weibo, because once you are overly involved, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other party more and more disgusted with you. So when facing a breakup, I must find the reason, and then establish my own image, so that I can become better and better, maybe at this time, I will be more confident to recover this relationship.

What is the reason for the poor conditions?

If the conditions of Jiayan are not good, your boyfriend's conditions are not as good as yours in all aspects, and your boyfriend is not motivated, then you have to think carefully about whether it is necessary to continue to develop with him.

If your boyfriend has a bad family condition, his own conditions are very good, and he is very good to you, you can carefully consider which aspect is more important to you, and then decide whether to continue to be with him.

Let me say a realistic word, you can't do anything without money, and you can't even grasp the object, so I'll give you a simple sentence.

If you love him, work with him, it's no big deal.

If you don't love him, you will give up decisively, and you will continue to make decisions if you don't have any disadvantages, but you will suffer from it, and if you hurt him, you will also be harmed.

Don't say that you love him, you can't bear that he is so bitter for you, so you want to leave him, these are just excuses Sakura, so that you don't love him at all.

The most important thing is to look at him personally.

The boyfriend's family conditions are not good, in fact, there is not much to do, because this is given to him by the boyfriend's family. If we want to get married with this boyfriend in the future, I think the most important thing for us is to see how capable the boyfriend is, or how strong he is. The family conditions are stubborn, but the most important thing for us is to look at him personally, because he is also very good to the bad luck, but we have no way to change his family conditions.