What kind of situation does an elderly woman who has become a grandmother face?

With the liberalization of the national two-child policy, many people in their 40s who have become grandmothers have begun to prepare for a second child. But there will be many, many problems to face, first of all, Dabao is married, has a family, and already has his own children. They also point to being able to continue to gnaw at the old, continue to spend their parents' money, and continue to get help from their parents.

If the parents decide to have a second child at this time, then they will definitely spend less and less on them, and all their energy and financial resources will be put on Erbao. Of course, the son and daughter-in-law will be unhappy!

It's embarrassing, the old and the young, and confinement has become a problem.

The physical unpredictability, as well as the gossip of outsiders, really do not approve of the birth of a child at an advanced maternal age, because it can be said that there is no benefit to yourself and the child, and your age lord has determined that in the future your child will have to bear an extra part of the burden for this child.

Elderly mothers are very dangerous, because their own conditions will have many problems, such as high blood pressure, heart disease, etc., it is difficult to achieve a smooth delivery, and it will also have a great impact on their health.

There may be no one to take care of after giving birth, and the family's energy is scattered among different people.

In this case, the situation is more awkward. Especially the daughter-in-law, there will be a certain amount of incomprehension. So you have to be sleek.

We often say that men should get married, women should get married, and we think that when both boys and girls reach a certain age, they should consider their own marriage and have a child of their own, but in real life, there are many women because of their careers.

Or because of some other reasons, I often wait until I am 35 years old to consider the issue of getting married and having children, so if I have a child after the age of 35, I belong to the older Liangwu mother, and I have to face the following dangers. First of all, for advanced maternal age over 35 years old.

The biggest danger is that the risk of miscarriage or early delivery is higher than that of normal mothers, after all, they are old and have missed the best age to have children, in this case, if you choose to have a child, it is a more dangerous thing for yourself.

At what age women often have problems such as dystocia, heavy bleeding, etc., which can even endanger their own lives, and generally speaking, the best age for a woman to get pregnant is 25 to 29 years old.

These elderly mothers over the age of 35 have far exceeded this standard. Another risk that older mothers have to face is that there is a high probability of genetic mutations, because with age.

The quality of the eggs may also deteriorate in these elderly women, and the risk of developing chromosomal malformation gene mutations will also increase, and the risk of Down syndrome will also increase, in addition, for advanced maternal age, as they get older.

Physical fitness will also show a state of decline, and the risk of medical complications will also increase in elderly mothers, so for those women over the age of 35.

If you want to have one at this stage, you should be cautious, and you should take into account the above dangers and disadvantages before making a final decision.