What should I do if a blind date man only chats and doesn t meet?

Obviously, he must have felt that the relationship between you has not yet developed to the point where you need to meet.

If you feel that you have a good impression and the other party is not bad, then try harder.

If you feel that the other party is average, or there is no room for further development, then it is better to go with the flow.

It's also up to you how you develop next. So, the main thing is to see if you yourself are interested in him.

Recently, many fans have come to me to consult about blind dates, including a boy's question: "Some time ago, I met a blind date through a matchmaker's introduction, we have been chatting on WeChat for more than 2 months, and there will be chat interaction almost every day, I think we have played very hot, but she just doesn't want to come out with me to meet and date." What's the matter with the blind date only chatting and not meeting?

Next, I will share with you what it is like for the blind date to only chat and not meet, and I hope everyone can quickly get rid of the problem of being single through blind date.

1. What's the matter if the blind date only chats and doesn't meet.

1. Girls have low self-esteem and average appearance.

Modern society is an era of looking at faces, even if you have been chatting very hot on WeChat, girls have a great impression of you, but because she is not good-looking or even ugly, she is worried that you will lose her good impression when you see her, she lacks self-confidence and only dares to hide behind the screen to chat with you, and wants to continue to enjoy this feeling of online dating.

2. Treat you as a spare tire.

Some boys are typical people-pleasing personalities, who want to please the girl they like as soon as they meet them, and try to establish a romantic relationship with the other person by pleasing them. The blind date only needs to spend time to chat with you on WeChat, and there is no need to pay other extra energy, and she can't experience the feeling of love in you, she only treats you as an emotional trash can or a spare tire.

3. Blind date with you is just to cope with the family.

Nowadays, there are more men and fewer women in the current social situation, and it is a common phenomenon in real life for men to beat singles, and many boys have love paranoia.

And there will be countless suitors around a slightly beautiful girl, maybe she already has a boyfriend outside, but because the family does not agree that she can only go on a blind date, and chat with you on WeChat just to deal with the family, if this is the reason, it is normal not to date.

2. How to deal with the blind date object who only chats and does not meet.

1. Help girls eliminate their concerns.

If the blind date often says that she is ugly in the chat, then she is reluctant to meet you because of her low self-esteem, and if she wants to invite the girl out, she must help the girl dispel the concerns of dating, which is also the embodiment of your gentleman, warm man, and high emotional intelligence.

The blind date boy only chats and does not meet, which means that he is either very disgusted with the blind date, or he is not very interested in you, if you have to meet her, you can only ask to meet, you can say to her, if you don't meet, you won't talk.

Blind date only chat and don't want to meet, this man may not look good, and the disabled person to see if he can talk, if he can't talk, don't meet, if he can talk, you will ask him out, and find some excuse that he will come out.

The blind date man only chats and does not meet, which means that this kind of man is not sincere, or has other purposes, for this kind of person, it is best to break up as soon as possible to be reasonable.

If you know where he lives and know that his unit can be found directly, it depends on whether he dares to come out and meet you.

The other party only chatted with you and didn't meet, maybe it didn't feel like the time was too late, of course, it also depends on the result of the two of you chatting, if you feel that he is not sincere enough and doesn't plan to continue, then this time to bring it up to him.

You have to be careful if he's the best, if you don't see each other all the time, he may have some intentions, but it's better to meet, but you have to be careful when you meet.

Either they have average emotional intelligence and can't chat.

If you think the other party is okay, you might as well meet more and take the initiative to start a chat to judge.

It depends on the situation, generally speaking, the man's words are rarely just to chat. There are very few people who don't want to meet. Therefore, it is necessary to limit the cause, and then it is enough to talk directly to the face.

Let's make an appointment to meet below, and there is an explanation to the introducers on both sides, and it's not a matter to just chat all the time.

If you just chat and don't meet in person, you may not be confident in your appearance, or you may not be ready to meet you.

Now the boy only chats and doesn't meet, which means that there is still some estrangement between the boy and you, and he shouldn't particularly like you.

Blind dates are generally chatted first and then see if they have a common language or values, etc., before deciding whether to meet or not.

Hello, the blind date man only chats and doesn't meet, there should be something wrong, be cautious and be careful.

Talk about your own unit, what you heard, tell a joke to ease the atmosphere, or discuss a TV show that you have watched, and slowly find a tacit understanding.

Blind date is commonly known as meeting. Interviews, interviews, and counterparts. Some people don't look at their appearance, and they will consider the right person or work ability and career match.

It is to verify and examine whether the occupations or social status of both parties are similar or equivalent, whether they speak fluently, pleasing to the eye, and are generally compatible. Chinese folk marriage folklore.

When introducing a blind date, it is mostly contacted by spontaneous or marriage matchmaking, **, human resources department, relatives and family, and matchmakers, and the two parties meet to discuss marriage. The form of blind date in the past generations is much the same. In the old days, the male and female parties did not exist, but were arranged by the eldest parents.

Some of them are so-called "meetings" between men and women at fairs and temple fairs. Both men and women are brought to the rally by matchmakers or their parents.

In the cognition of young people, blind date in modern society is to expand their social circle and give both parties a way to get to know each other.

You already feel that the blind date man is boring, probably you have no fate, you don't have to force yourself to chat with him, very boring people are easy to be disliked by you, it is better to continue the blind date, find the person you are interested in to get to know and chat, in order to improve the efficiency of the blind date.

I believe that the man can't chat, you can take the initiative to find some topics, such as asking him about his work, his life and past experiences. If he is interesting to you and you take the initiative to provoke the topic, he will definitely answer. If you are interested in him, you can take the initiative a little more, and he will be driven by you.

It doesn't matter, the key is whether you love him or not, the basis of love is to have love, if you love, you will tolerate each other's shortcomings. And he won't find topics to talk about because you live in different environments, so there are no common topics, you can go on more dates, go to the movies, or go to the park, and there will be a lot to talk about after getting acquainted.

In this case, if you think he is boring, I don't think you are suitable to be together, it is possible that he does not know how to chat, but he just does not want to talk to you, you must distinguish this.

The boy who goes on a blind date can't chat and can't find a topic, so at this time the girl can take the initiative to change the topic so as not to fall into an embarrassing situation, and dating such a boy is really very annoying.

Blind date men can't chat, you can find a topic to talk about. If you feel that the other person is okay, you can ask him about his job, his family, or his preferences, through these, you can have a preliminary understanding of it, which is also beneficial for future interactions.

The guy on the blind date won't chat, he feels very bored when he's with him, and he won't take the initiative to find a topic, at this time you also have to look at him, if you don't have the ability to make money, and then you don't have a sense of humor, maybe there is nothing worth your liking.

If you are satisfied with him, then you can take the initiative, maybe he is more introverted. You can ask him what he likes. What are you interested in, find out what you have in common, and then start chatting, so that there will be a little more topicality.

You can find a topic to talk to him, and it doesn't have to be a boy to take the initiative. In fact, girls can also take the initiative. If you take the initiative to talk to him, but he still doesn't reply to you lukewarmly, it may be that he doesn't mean anything about you, and you have to think about something else.

Dear, if the other party doesn't know how to find a topic, you can find a topic to chat with, you can see how you feel with each other, if you have a good feeling, talk about it, if you really can't find a common topic, then maybe it's really not suitable between you.

The blind date man can't chat and it's very boring, and he can't find a topic, which still means that the man doesn't fancy the woman, if he falls in love with him, he will have something to say, and he will say something from the bottom of his heart that he wants to know and want to ask.

In fact, many blind date men don't know how to chat, which is very boring. Because if he is very good at chatting, it is estimated that he will not come on a blind date to find a partner. You can try to find a topic first, get along with each other for a while, and wait until you are familiar with it.

If the man can't chat, then you must take the initiative to find some topics on Monday, and the boy who usually can't chat may say that he is more introverted and not good at words, in fact, he should be the kind of person who does practical things.

If he is a straight man, more introverted, and will not find topics, then you can take the initiative, you can find some topics of common interest to talk about, and after slowly deepening the emotional familiarity, he will become active.

If you have thoughts and feelings about her, you can take the initiative to find some topics, but if you are more mindful of this kind of more wooden boy, you can break it off in time to avoid yourself taking the initiative in future marital problems.

If you have a good impression of the other party, then you can take the initiative, you can guide him, take the initiative to find some more relaxed topics, to talk to the other party, and slowly, he will let go.

It is true that there are men who are not good at speech and have wooden voices. Of course, when you are looking for a boyfriend, the main thing is to see whether he is responsible, very capable, and good to you.

The blind date man I met on a blind date was not very chatty and chatty, and he was a person who didn't have much to talk about? At this time, you need to take the initiative to find a topic, and you can work for him to find a topic. Find it on the content, as well as on his usual hobbies.

As a boy, if you don't know how to find a topic to talk to, it will make you angry, and it will be awkward and boring when you are with you, so you should try to be humorous.

If you are interested in him, you can find a topic to chat with. If you're not interested in him, say goodbye. Because you don't have a common language together. It won't last long.

After meeting on a blind date, the two can judge whether they like each other from each other's appearance and appearance. Generally, after two people on a blind date meet, they can basically determine whether they want to continue to understand each other. Those who have not heard from each other after the blind date is over, are basically out of play.

So if the boy doesn't contact you after the blind date, he doesn't like you? How do girls judge whether you have a drama from the attitude of the boy at the end of the blind date?

Don't boys like it if they don't contact each other after the blind date?

Generally speaking, if the blind date man does not take the initiative to contact you on the day after the first meeting, or the day after the end, you should not be in a hurry, maybe he is giving each other some time to consider whether to continue. If the blind date man has not moved for more than three days, or even more than a week after meeting, then the girl should be clear, and the boy's attitude is obviously not interested in you.

Before meeting on a blind date, two people can get to know each other briefly through WeChat. Maybe the two chatted okay on WeChat, but before the two officially met, neither of them was sure whether the other party was suitable for them. Only after meeting can you know whether you like each other or not.

Don't boys like it if they don't contact each other after the blind date?

After the first blind date, the guy may talk to his family about how he feels about meeting you, or he may wonder whether to continue the conversation with you. So he'll take some time to contact you, but it won't take more than three days.

If a guy likes you, and he thinks you are suitable for the first time he sees you, then he will take the initiative to contact you and pursue you through practical actions.

Don't boys like it if they don't contact each other after the blind date?

To judge whether there is a scene on a blind date, it depends on whether the blind date man takes the initiative to contact you after the blind date, and what kind of attitude he has when he chats with you.

If the blind date man not only actively contacts you, but also shows an obvious liking for you in the chat, and even takes the initiative to care about what you think of him, then he must be interested in you. If he stops chatting with you after meeting you, then he is rejecting you with silence, although it is very irresponsible to do so, but in reality there are many blind dates that do end up in this tacit silence.