What if a man has a stupid mouth and can t chat

Stupid can learn from those around you who are eloquent.

If you can't chat, you can try the following solutions: talking less and listening more is better than a hundred nonsense; Try not to joke; Hack yourself, don't hack others; boast to others; Find common topics to facilitate communication.

1. Less talk and more listen is better than a hundred words of nonsense

In the process of interacting with people, it is obvious that communication is indispensable. And communication, the most test, is to speak. The tongue is like a fire in the whole body, igniting strife and jealousy, and it can anger others. The old man also often advises us that a stupid way to be afraid of saying the wrong thing is to talk less.

2. Try not to joke

Many people think that when the relationship is good, they can joke more. There are also some people who feel that the best way to break the embarrassment with strangers is to joke. But having a casual chat doesn't mean you have to joke. Because everyone has a different view on making friends and communicating.

3. Hack yourself, don't hack others

In addition to not making jokes in public, one thing to do is not to make jokes about others in the crowd. To say that it is withered and white is to rather black yourself than others.

4. Praise others

People who don't boast about people have low emotional intelligence. People must love to hear good words, and everyone is. If you are socializing with people or gathering in strange places, when you feel embarrassed, you can try to praise others. However, praising others is not praising what the other party does not have.

5. Find common topics to facilitate communication

Things gather like people, people are grouped, and people are willing to come together for a common hobby. For example, talk about movies, talk about electronics, talk about lifestyle, hobbies. This kind of communication can help the relationship become more harmonious.

<> "Girl: Why are you so good to me?"

Straight man: I just want to give you some gifts (kneeling licking).

Master: I want to use my kindness to you to make up for the uneasiness in your heart, especially the feeling that I am not worthy of me (suppression).

Girl: Is it okay for me to be your girlfriend?

Straight man: Okay, okay, it's late! (No story).

Master: Give me a kiss (humorous flirtation) to see how your skills are.

Girl: There's no way I'm going to like you.

Straight man: I'll try to wait for you all the time (low profile).

Master: That's lucky, thank you (high profile) but please don't harm others.

Then impress her with sincerity.

If you are stupid, when chatting with girls, you can ask more questions to the girl, ask the girl some topics that she is more interested in, such as favorite idol stars, pets, and ask more like a girl to ask some things she is good at.

You can observe each other's interests and hobbies, find topics that the other party is interested in to chat, say more sweet words, make each other happy, and pay attention to the other party's chat experience when chatting.

If you are stupid, then don't say too much, the most important thing is to care more about the other party and put it into action.

Summary. Hello, dear, it's a pleasure to serve you, when a boy is stupid and can't speak, because he should use the following ways to chat with girls.

I'm stupid, I'm cheerful, but I don't know how to talk to girls, and it's easy to be embarrassed.

Hello, dear, it's a pleasure to serve you, when a boy is stupid and can't speak, because he should use the following ways to chat with girls.

1. Selectively praising girls girls all like to listen to praise, but they like to really come from the heart, and Fu Mengbo is not blindly praising for the sake of praise, for example: a girl spends time dressing up carefully to meet you, and you praise her "You are still good-looking without makeup." "In this case, you just have to compliment her on how good she looks, or if you fit the dress very well.

2. Grasp the rhythm and direction of chatting also need to pay attention to the rhythm, a good rhythm can mobilize the girl's emotions, otherwise it is easy to be cold, such as chatting with a lively girl, you need to be a listener, you can choose more to listen to what she is saying, and at the appropriate time you can ask rhetorical questions or respond to the mountain and the potato. This will give the girl a sense that she is important to you. 3. Seize the opportunity when girls are the most vulnerable, that is when you are sad, if you send intimate and practical greetings, I believe that any girl will be very moved, so that you will be firmly in mind.

If a girl is in trouble with a teaser, you can help her solve it smoothly, then she will be grateful to you, which can give you a chance to meet next time, and help her solve her urgent needs will also increase your sense of trust and reliability in the girl's heart.

4. When chatting about her hobbies, use the female empty Nayuansheng's hobbies as an entry point, then the chat between you will be much easier, for example: she likes to chase stars, then you can talk about the idol she likes, so that you can open her chatterbox, and when the idol has a new movie, you can ask her to come out to watch the movie openly and reasonably.

It's just that it's quite embarrassing, mainly because there's nothing to talk about after a few words.

Oh. Try using a few of the above methods.

In other words, you can't rush too much, right?

Or you can contact the mirror and stick the girl** on the mirror.

Good. Don't mind.