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Falling in love is to talk to the person I love, so if you have a good feeling, take the initiative to get close, otherwise you will wait for others to take him away.
Marriage is to marry someone who loves me, this is the premise, what mutual love is a later story. If you love him but he doesn't love you, even if you get married, there will only be pain.
Mutual care for emotional matters is acquired, not from the beginning of mutual love, this is not called love, but sensual. The feelings of mutual admiration at the beginning can't stand the grind, and when they encounter a big problem, they fly separately. Because we both like each other, we are thinking about how to maintain this feeling of liking at most, rather than how to make this liking into love.
Because this kind of affection is at your fingertips, you don't need to put so much effort into fulfilling yourself.
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I always thought that feelings could be cultivated by running-in. But once you really get along, it's not so simple, and it's different from what you imagined.
There is no love as the basis of the relationship, it is still very unreliable, and in the future I have to find someone I love who loves me to be together, otherwise I will be really tired. The right people may slowly fall in love when they run in together, and the wrong people seem to become less and less like themselves when they run in together, and the run-in is also torture.
Everyone's point of view is different, some people think that feelings can not be cultivated slowly is to be made in a long way, if you don't hate this person, then the probability of cultivating feelings may be very high, if you hate him at all, it is estimated that you will never be able to cultivate. It is difficult to be tolerant of those you don't love, and intolerance is the fatal hazard of marriage. When two people without feelings live in a trivial marriage, it is difficult to tolerate bumps, then it is difficult to establish a relationship, after all, some things are barely coming.
When I was with my ex-boyfriend, I thought it could be cultivated, and I thought that the relationship could be run-in. He liked me for a long time and then I agreed to be with him, and at that time I felt that it was not about love, but I just felt that he was very good to me, and I was a little touched. Heartbeat is a momentary thing, and the development after returning to the dull is the most elegant, and I didn't even have a heartbeat, so I regretted it and finally broke up.
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For a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate it, feelings can be cultivated slowly. This is certainly possible. Feelings are cultivated slowly, and such feelings will be reliable.
Love at first sight, although it feels very good, but sometimes two people feel a little incompatible after experiencing it for a while, and the three views are different. So a lot of them are leaving. On the contrary, the feelings that are slowly cultivated will last for a long time.
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For a person who doesn't like or hate, feelings can be cultivated slowly. If you don't like it, you don't hate it, you still don't have to really like it, it's love at first sight. You think it's good. Slowly cultivate, compare.
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For a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate it, feelings can be cultivated slowly. After getting along for a long time, you will become dependent, it will become a habit, and then it will become natural, you will have feelings, you will be inseparable from each other, and you will become a part of each other.
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If you don't like a person and don't hate it, feelings can be cultivated slowly, maybe it can be said that as long as you don't hate him, feelings can be cultivated, and if you don't hate or like it, it means that you can only cultivate feelings like ordinary friends.
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Possibly, people crave love at first sight. But love at first sight, after all, is less likely to happen, and even fewer can be managed well. There will also be wise people who can turn love at first sight into a story for the ages.
The feelings that are slowly cultivated have a relatively solid emotional foundation. Of course, it also needs to be carefully cared for and managed. In short, whether it is love at first sight or a relationship that is slowly cultivated.
You need to use your heart to maintain this relationship.
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As long as you don't hate a person, you can slowly develop feelings in later contacts. If one of them has a feeling of liking, it should be possible to be with the other person after working hard. But it will take time.
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You are a lot, for a person who is neither too fond nor too hateful, then for this kind of neutral person, feelings can indeed be cultivated slowly. But the cultivation time is also very long, and it is also necessary to change your opinion of him through some things before you can possibly like him.
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Hello, for this kind of person who is neither very fond nor too annoying, feelings can be cultivated slowly. In the process of getting along with two people, they discover each other's advantages a lot, and after knowing each other's advantages, they can slowly develop a good impression of each other, and finally fall in love with each other.
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If you say that for a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate, then the relationship can indeed be cultivated slowly, it mainly depends on how the other party treats you, if it is very good to you, then it must be able to be cultivated.
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For a person who doesn't like or hate it, I think it is possible to slowly cultivate feelings, because feelings are cultivated and take time to cultivate. Since we don't hate it, then a person's body tattoos will have advantages, and after a long time, we will gradually like this person.
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I don't think so! If you don't have feelings for someone, it's hard to develop a favorite feeling! If you don't have a place that attracts you, you won't like it!
There are many such marriage tragedies in China! They don't love each other, they are united for various reasons! It is the ancient clouds, the falling flowers are intentional, and the flowing water is ruthless!
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Generally, this is unlikely, but there is also the possibility of long-term love, depending on the individual and the environment.
I don't like it, but I don't hate it, it's called no feeling, and I feel that this thing is wonderful, maybe the other party likes you very much and is willing to give everything for you, so it touches you in a certain thing, so you will like the other party, and it is also possible.
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For someone you don't like but don't hate him, if a person is good to you, can guess what you think, love what you love, and will appear immediately when you need help, you will one day be inseparable from him, and you will be reluctant to give up on him. In this way, feelings will come out, but if he doesn't care about you at all and doesn't understand you, you won't have anything to do.
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I think if you don't hate this person, then the feelings will be slowly cultivated, well, if you don't like him at the beginning, but after a period of time you find his advantages or find that he is a very considerate person, then slowly there will be feelings.
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People who don't like and don't hate, feelings can be cultivated slowly, as long as you and her have this common interest and hobby, and can find a common starting point, then you will be able to find your own emotion, and this common ground can be cultivated.
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Conditional cooperation is possible. Your most extreme example of simplicity is. Two people are always together.
For example, Venus. There are only two people working hard. And this one is in.
Rent the same house.
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For a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate, to cultivate feelings, if you can be together for a long time, two people can understand and tolerate each other, after a long time, you will have a good impression of each other, feel that he is worth entrusting for life, when you leave him, you will be reluctant to leave and will miss, which means that you are really in love with him. It's been a long time together. It also cultivated feelings.
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Human emotions can be transformed under certain conditions. In the case that you don't fully understand, just based on a momentary event, you may feel that this person is very unaccustomed to the appearance, dress, and behavior, and even dislikes or even hates it. But because of some need to be in contact with often, or through something more and more impressive, I feel that this person who once made you dislike, the person you hated is so talented, diligent and studious, and has a good character.
Especially when you are in trouble, he stepped up and made a lot of investment in energy, emotion and money. You are grateful from the bottom of your heart, and you feel that this is the person you can trust for life, and your feelings will naturally be cultivated.
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Hello, as long as you are not the person you hate, the relationship can be slowly cultivated, and as long as the other party has a good impression of you, then he will definitely pay for you, so the relationship can definitely be cultivated.
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Hello friends, I personally think it's impossible, a person who doesn't like and hates it, feelings can't be cultivated, and then there will be all kinds of unpleasant looks at him together, so feelings are impossible to cultivate.
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Feelings can be cultivated, this is a sentence that I have heard for more than 20 years, existence is reasonable, indicating that feelings can be cultivated slowly.
And you have a premise for this, you don't hate him, which provides a powerful condition for cultivating feelings, and people will accept a person because of their touching and habits.
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For someone who doesn't like and doesn't hate, I think feelings can be cultivated. As the saying goes, if the other party has a sincere heart for you, and has always been very good to you, accommodating you and caring for you, it will move you.
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For a person who doesn't like or hate it, if you have been together for a long time, you will deepen your understanding of each other, increase your good impression of each other, and slowly increase your feelings for each other. This kind of thing is entirely possible. Some of our older generation didn't know each other before they got married, and they slowly cultivated a very deep relationship after they got married.
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For a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate, feelings can be cultivated slowly, many people get married first and then fall in love, they don't like it when they get married, they don't like it or hate it, but they fall in love over time, and slowly like each other more and more, and cultivate feelings.
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In fact, feelings can really be cultivated slowly, of course, if you say that you hate this person, he has a lot of bad things, then it may not work, so in the end it depends on your own thoughts.
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Introduction: People say that in love, instead of finding someone you love, it is better to find someone who loves you. If you find someone you love, then in love, you always pay by yourself, and you will feel very tired, and even feel a little humble.
But if you find someone who loves you, you will think of yourself in everything, and you will care about yourself, for fear that you will not give yourself enough. The topic I want to share today is, accept a person you don't like, maybe you like it slowly in your daily life? <>
1. If you accept someone you don't like, may you slowly like it in your daily relationship?
If you accept a person you don't like, although it is not easy to feel love at first sight, you will often get along after a long time, and you will slowly get used to it, so that you will fall in love for a long time. Because liking itself is a kind of aura, if you like someone, you will feel that no matter what you do, it is right. All the disadvantages will turn into advantages, even if they are ugly, they will think that the other person is particularly cute.
But if you don't like a person, or even hate a person, you feel that what he is doing, even breathing is wrong, and it is very easy to feel dissatisfied. <>
2. Conclusion. Once you accept someone you don't like, but if the two parties can get along peacefully, they will be able to fall in love for a long time, and they will slowly like each other. And in life, like is not able to be eaten, if the other party is good enough to themselves, considerate enough, subtle enough, and can think of themselves in everything, then even if they don't like it, they must learn to try to get along, after all, suitability is more important than liking.
And try to get along, but also to give each other a chance, if in the process of getting along can get along more easily, there is no awkward feeling, and the personalities of both sides will complement each other, then the quarrel will be more pleasant in the later stage, and will slowly like each other. <>
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Yes, only when two people really get along with each other can they find the one that really suits them.
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You may slowly like it, because in your daily relationship, you will find each other's or bridge chain personality and the shining points in life, and after getting along for a long time, you will also find that the personalities of both parties can be compatible, and you will slowly like each other.
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Perhaps, I believe that I am more likely to observe the long-term love of the side, and in the daily phase of the tomato, we will gradually understand each other's preferences, slowly discover his advantages, and then like him,
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In some cases, people can slowly develop feelings for someone by getting along and getting to know each other. It may take more time and patience, as well as a genuine effort to build a relationship of mutual understanding and support.
However, this is not applicable in all cases. If a person is not interested or attractive at all and simply feels compelled to accept it for some reason, it may be a reluctance to try to develop feelings slowly. At this point, even after spending a long time and effort to reach out and get along, their relationship may never reach stability.
In addition, if a person feels that he or she is not quite in line with someone's outlook on life, values, interests, etc., then this long-term effort may only be preparing for something, but it will never be able to overcome this obstacle. Not Changming.
Therefore, some people can cultivate feelings through long-term relationships, but it depends on the situation and requires the support of time, patience, sincere effort, and a common desire. Still, people should respect their feelings and make wise decisions, or they may experience more pain and difficulties in the relationship.
First of all, for a person who doesn't like and doesn't hate, we need to consider whether the individual's will is willing to cultivate feelings. If a person does not have the will to cultivate affection, then it is difficult for them to develop affection, even if they have the time and opportunity. Therefore, we need to first determine whether the person is willing to try to build a relationship.
Secondly, time is also an important factor. The cultivation of feelings requires the accumulation and precipitation of time. If we only see each other occasionally, it is difficult to build a deep relationship.
Therefore, we need to spend time with this person and increase mutual understanding and trust in order to build a relationship.
In addition, the way you get along with each other is also important. If we only do some superficial communication, such as chatting about the weather and gossip, then it is difficult to build a deep relationship. On the contrary, if we are able to communicate deeply and share our inner thoughts and feelings, then it is easier to build a relationship.
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