Is there anything wrong with letting your children buy things all the time?

There is a wealth addiction. You don't have to spend money if someone else buys it. Buy it yourself later. You can buy whatever you need, and you will have a salary. Your blessed children are all filial, you can dream and laugh.

Always letting children buy things, this problem is called lack of love. For their children, they will never know how to take the initiative to give and give, and their parents will only ask for it when they really have no choice. If children can take the initiative to meet their parents' needs, they will never have to speak to their children.

Maybe they as parents just want to get some care and love from their daughters, and they feel that the children they raise deserve some returns, and they are more selfish in this kind of thinking, not that they have other mentalities.

I don't think it's a disease, it's an emptiness. The elderly are very lonely together, and they always want their children to be by their side. The older you get, the less you want.

Always letting their children buy things is not a disease, this is a kind of trust that parents have in their children, and it is also the obligation of children.

It's possible that parents always want to. Children always think about him, afraid that they will treat him badly, so they will always let them buy something, which is also a traditional virtue.

It's your mother, she wants to eat, so she asks her daughter to buy something for her, then you want to eat yourself, you know that you want to buy it, but your mother wants you to buy it for her.

It's not a disease, it's a characteristic.

As the saying goes, the Qingming Festival is a combination of three festivals, in addition to the Shangsi Festival that is incorporated into the Qingming Festival, another festival that is incorporated into the Qingming Festival is the Cold Food Festival. This "Cold Food Festival" is also known as the "Cold Festival" and "Non-Smoking Festival". The Winter Food Festival also has the nickname "One Hundred Five", which is due to the fact that the Cold Food Festival is 105 days after the winter solstice.

I don't blame it, even if my parents had the ability to buy it, I wouldn't have taken it. One is because I'm a girl, and the second is because my parents have to go on with their lives, and it's already a great blessing that we don't cause trouble to our parents. Let's take a look at how to honor your parents.

Don't complain about your parents.

Children always hope that their parents can always be happy in front of them and create a relaxed and happy family atmosphere for themselves, but parents are human beings first, and they will also encounter unhappy and frustrated things, and they will inevitably complain.

Don't complain about your parents.

Parents are always accustomed to caring about their children, but also because they are too worried will be too verbose, afraid that their children will not take good care of themselves, eat badly, and dress badly, so all aspects of life will tell you in detail, but this kind of care is a little too much in the eyes of children, and it seems verbose.

But how long can parents be verbose with their children? Don't always listen impatiently to your parents' ramblings, and then complain about your parents, the next time your parents are verbose, please patiently tell your parents: "I know, don't worry." ”

Don't blame your parents for being slow.

The parents who used to lead you and couldn't keep up now need you to lead him and urge him to hurry up. When parents enter old age, the pace of life will become much slower, and no matter what they do, they will be very slow, while children are living at a fast pace, which seems to be the opposite of their parents.

But life should not be too fast all the time, and you also need to slow down to wait for your faltering parents, to adapt to the slow life of your parents, which can be regarded as a kind of adjustment for yourself.

Don't complain about your parents' abilities.

Parents have no choice, many children always dislike their parents for not having the ability, inability, and can't give other people's parents what their parents can give their children, but their own future needs to work hard, although parents can't give you a good starting point, but will do their best to help you reach a higher height. So please don't complain about your parents' lack of ability, those easy moments in your life are your parents carrying the weight forward.

No one is perfect, and it may be difficult to do these things, and it is impossible to take care of all aspects when taking care of parents, but I hope that children can try their best in the face of their parents, so that parents can really feel your filial piety to him.