How to convince a stubborn mother? How to convince stubborn parents?

You are a dutiful son. Your mother is also a good mother. It's hard to convince adults as a child, especially if your mother already has that so-called occupational disease.

Maybe she doesn't work for money, and she is idle at home. Idleness can also be idle. If she likes her job, don't stop it, even if you convince her, she will be upset at home, and she will think about work every day, and thinking about one thing but not being able to do it is the most painful thing.

If you want to do something, and your family or children don't let you do it, are you willing, if you are forced not to do it, will you be happy at home, maybe you will want to get sick. Everything you do is to make your mom happy, happy, relaxed. The only way is for you to be filial to her old man.

Care for her more, spend more time with her, and take care of her in other convenient ways. You have to remember that your purpose is to make your mom well.

You say, you can raise her now, I'm grown up, I shouldn't let you work anymore, believe me, if you do this again, I'm very worried and unhappy every day!

The key is that you have to make more money in the future, and use your own strength to prove it.

Note: Your mother insists on working for two reasons, one is to increase the family income, and the other is that she is not used to working for a while. I think the former is a bit more important.

You can say this to your mother

1.Analyze it to her, she can get 20,000 yuan a year, and only 200,000 yuan in ten years.

2.Tell her that her disease is an occupational disease and that if she doesn't do work and recuperate at home, she will be cured soon. But if you continue to work at the same time, it will be a bottomless pit, and it will even aggravate the condition. It was life-threatening, and the medical expenses were more than she could have earned.

3.Emphasize that if she still insists on doing this work, the medical expenses caused by Pang will increase the burden on you as children, and you will be overwhelmed.

In fact, if you want to convince your parents, you must be strong-willed, and you must let the other party know that you want to go out and live independently, and you can't say that you agree with what they think the other party said in the process of talking to you, then your parents will feel that your will is not very strong, and they will work harder to persuade you not to go so far.

First of all, what do you want to convince your parents? If it's your own business, you can tell your parents slowly, or cut it first and then play it, the matter is a foregone conclusion, and your parents won't say much even if they have opinions, but you don't make your own decisions with a hot brain, you should be cautious.

Let me talk about how to communicate with them.

First of all, understand where your mother's stubborn and contradictory personality came from, what was the character of the grandfather and grandmother who raised your parents, and what was the important turning point in your mother's upbringing? Why not trust a loved one, but a stranger, not once a loved one who hurt your mother's interests?

2.After getting to the bottom of the situation, try to understand your mother, considering the history and realities of her current character formation, what kind of work does she do? Being separated from your father also bears a lot of loneliness and loneliness?

When you come to an unfamiliar environment, do you get along well with the people around you? After understanding this series of problems, I believe you also know that your mother is under a lot of pressure.

3.Find the intersection between your needs and her needs, and understand that your need is to let your mother interfere less in your studies and life, and reduce your mother's control over you, which should be your top priority. Now it's up to your mother's time allocation, so can you find an event for your mother to participate in and distract her?

At the same time, there is nothing that will allow your mother to return to live in the country.

4.I think you do need to talk to your mother, but do your homework in advance, be clear about your needs, your point of view, think about what your mother might refute before you talk, and prepare the evidence before you talk to her. Academically, you can talk to one of your seniors about your mother's preparation for your current studies, and explain to her the impact of your current study with your mother.

5.Also, as for your mother's personality, I think your conversation should be done first, that is, to get into your relationship first, and to reach an emotional consensus with your mother on the basis of understanding. Thank you mother for her help and contribution to you and to this family.

Follow her first, people who are too stubborn can't reason with them directly, you must follow them first, and then click on their misunderstandings, and give them a way to think about problems from multiple angles.

Then, talk about your current academic plans, ask her for her opinion, listen to some appropriately, but show that your academic choice is your choice, and your mother can only provide advice. Here, there should be quarrels, but quarrels are inevitable, and you must state your position, your point of view. Let your mother know that you have grown up and have your own ideas, and at the same time, your mother's education method is very misconcepted, and it also causes you strong trouble.

6.During the whole process, don't think that your mother must listen to you, your attitude must be close to your mother's emotions, don't have a head-on conflict, it is better to find common ground between your mother and your needs, discuss it, and solve it little by little.

There is a long way to go, you must first adjust your emotions, use your emotions to drive your mother's emotions, and use your cognition to change your mother's cognition.

The above are just some suggestions, how to do it or combine the actual situation of you and your mother, I hope the above can give you some help.