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There are always ups and downs on the road of life, and without failures and setbacks, there are no valuable lessons to be learned, and there can be no success! Only those who are not afraid of setbacks, and bravely face the arrival of setbacks, and then seriously sum up lessons from setbacks and continue to move forward, will enjoy the joy of success! And the person who is afraid of setbacks and retreats in the face of setbacks will always be a loser!
Pain and pleasure go hand in hand! People who have not experienced pain will never be able to enjoy true happiness! Therefore, when pain comes, we must not be immersed in painful emotions and cannot extricate ourselves!
Because if you continue like this, in addition to hurting your own body, you will also waste your precious time in vain! If you understand this truth, you will adjust your mood in time when pain comes, and think more about the things that make you happy, happy, happy, and happy! This will allow you to quickly free yourself from the painful emotions and do what you have to do!
In the long run, you'll be smiling!
Our life is usually living in 80 pain, 10 happiness, 10 expectations, it is with this rare happiness and expectation, we are experiencing most of the pain, the most painful thing is the loss of loved ones, that is called real pain, may the good people in the world live a safe life.
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As the old saying goes: The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin ......This must go through a painful and unbearable process. Writer Yang Daxia sent a message that only after suffering can we understand life.
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This look is a child who is not deeply involved in the world, immature, self-righteous, and self-isolated.
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Everyone has many experiences in their lives, including successes and failures. But behind all successes are many failures and difficulties, and as long as you can overcome them, you will succeed. The reason I understand this is because I had an experience like this.
It happened during the summer of 2004. One day, I went to the Palace of Culture to learn the piano. The teacher said that he would recommend me to go to Urummu to participate in the third violin competition in Xinjiang, and after listening to the teacher's words at that time, my heart was fifteen buckets to fetch water.
The teacher seemed to see through my mind and kept encouraging me, and when I saw the teacher's trusting gaze, I gained some confidence.
In the past, I only went to the Palace of Culture once a week to learn the piano, but now, I have to go there three times a week. I was joined by my teacher's grandson, Chen Yanming. First of all, the two of us listened to the recording together, followed the recording, I walked with the recording several times, but I didn't keep up with it once, I was very anxious, what about Chen Yanming again?
Not only can he keep up with the recording and pull it over and over again, but he can also pull it very skillfully, I am not reconciled, and I also pull it over and over again, and finally I can keep up, but I still stutter. On the way home, I made up my mind that I had to practice for more than 6 hours a day without any stuttering in between. I played the violin every day until the skin of my hands was worn out and polished off, the black wood on the piano was kneaded and kneaded by me to shine, and the brand-new "white bow" was used by me as a "black bow".
Chen Yanming often laughed at me, but I always smiled disapprovingly. Finally, the day of the game came, Chen Yanming and I were both divided into Group A, I was No. 72, and Chen Yanming was No. 78. The preliminary round began, I saw my friends and some unknown classmates entering the studio one after another, and my mood became more and more nervous, "Let's all welcome the No. 72 contestant to the stage", hearing the host reading my number, I gasped and walked into the studio, looking at the kind expressions of the judges, my heart calmed down, and pulled up the familiar "Lullaby", "Bell Inspiration" and "Concerto in A Minor, Third Movement", the performance was successfully completed, I saw the satisfied smiles of the judges, I finally breathed a sigh of relief.
One day at the end of June, Mr. Zhang handed me a bronze trophy and a certificate of honor, and I was so excited that I shed tears, and I learned from the teacher that Chen Yanming did not win the award. Later, when he saw me, there was no longer the usual ridicule, but friendly laughter.
Through this competition, I learned that as long as you work hard, you will be able to do things well, and you should not retreat when you encounter failures and difficulties, and once you retreat, you will fail forever.
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The ancients said: How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without a cold heart. That's right, people's success always has to go through ups and downs, and no one can succeed casually.
Balzac is recognized as one of the greatest writers in the world, but such a great writer almost missed the world. In 1829, after several years of hard work, Balzac completed his first novel, The Juan Party. After experiencing eighteen rejections, he was extremely sad and angry, and threw his ** into the furnace and burned it, wanting to give up his literary dream from now on.
His wife immediately took the ** out of the stove and encouraged Zalbach to try again, someone would definitely appreciate it, and Balzac decided to try one last time. A week later, a letter told Balzac that they were not only going to publish The Juans, but also to sign a lifetime contract with Balzac to publish all of Balzac's later works. This is exactly the mountain and the water are full of doubts, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village.
Balzac was ecstatic, and the publication of The Juans brought him great fame. Since then, he has been out of control, writing masterpieces such as "The Human Comedy" and becoming a great writer.
Beethoven, a famous philist, once said that one of the great virtues of an excellent person is that he can be indomitable in the face of adversity and difficulty. And he did. After suffering the devastating blow of deafness, he persevered, insisted on creating with tenacious will, and "choked the throat of fate", and finally created immortal masterpieces such as "Symphony of Destiny" and "Pastoral Symphony".
The scientist Beveridge once said that people's best work is often done in the face of adversity. Setbacks can lead people to the palace of success, or they can lead people to fall into the abyss of failure. But as Balzac said, things in the world are never absolute, the results vary completely from person to person, and suffering is a stepping stone for genius, a fortune for the strong, and an abyss for the weak.
Let us cultivate a strong will, strive to overcome difficulties, let all kinds of ups and downs become the wealth of life, let every setback become a stepping stone to success, and make ourselves a strong person in life!
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Only when people have experienced hardship can they truly grow. In fact, this means that in the process of overcoming suffering, we learn how to overcome suffering, so that we can make progress and grow. Writer Yang Daxia expressed that only after experience can we win value.
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14 years ago, I went through the painful college entrance examination and became a college student ......(700 words omitted here).
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I think it's a pity that your grades deteriorated because of their influence and you were only admitted to a junior college, it's not worth it!
I'd love to tell you about a girl in my old class. Probably in every class at school there will be someone who is often bullied. The girl was also often bullied, but he asked her father to come to the school and find the grade director, and the director was super fierce, and reprimanded the boys who often bullied her, and said that if she did this again, she would have a demerit.
Although they have relented at the time, their hearts have not changed and they still reject the girl. Why didn't you think of a way to solve it in the first place, and let it be presumptuous like this. But there's no point in talking about it now, it's all in the past.
So try to live a new life now, and stop dwelling on it, your life shouldn't be built on that foundation forever.
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Don't be affected no matter what the situation, don't care what they say, learn to protect yourself, in high school you were affected by them and there were no bad grades affected by them, I think you worked hard, did you go home and did you review well, did you ask the teacher if you didn't understand, don't feel that you don't need to have good grades, as long as you work hard enough, there will be a reward, although the university is a little easy, but you still have to review, in the future, you can only find a good job by really learning in the future, otherwise these three years will be in vain, Protect yourself because you are an adult, don't let that high school experience affect your current life, and communicate with people with good grades to learn from each other.
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There are good and bad experiences in this experience, the good part is that you understand the society early, and the bad part is that it is too early. Make your life more fearful. In general, I think that for the rest of your life, you don't want to rely on one person in transition, and you don't want to transition to one person.
Do it in moderation so that you don't get hurt.
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Not bad, yes, don't pia, I'm not malicious. Those who haven't experienced anything are not qualified to see the rare scenery in the world.
I've seen a lot of interesting things, such as my parents' car accident, someone's suicide, lesbian martyrdom...I don't know why my experience is so varied. That's what I want to tell you, if you can see it.
Most people will encounter a few tragic stories that are difficult to tell others before they become adults, big or small. However, staring at these things and not letting go, I plunged headlong into the narrow abyss, and I would choose to laugh at the content of these few hundred words you played. It's not that you don't have a backache when you stand and talk, but I just want to remind you that you're missing out on a lot of things.
Do you love to draw? What is your level of appreciation? Have you ever traveled alone to see the scenery in the distance?
Do you study food? Have you ever waited for a spike item at night? Do you prefer Xiaomi or Apple?
Or is it Meizu? Do you know hello world? Have you ever heard of Amway?
Do you know the story of Valjean? Have you ever quarreled with the Maoists? Do you know that eating walnuts that are opened by the door does not replenish your brain?
Have you ever tried to add chopped green onions to your coffee? Do you know how cute SCP-173 is? Have you ever replied Happy New Year to a scam text message?
If you're confused and think I'm too boring and unqualified after reading all this stuff above, then forget it, otherwise come and say, "It's not over, see below." ”
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If they dare to touch you, take a knife and give it to them, it will be fine, you are too scared, you have to be brave
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Any suffering is the most precious treasure God has given you. Enjoy the pain for maximum pleasure. Finally, I want to ask if you like the last girl, right? If yes, be brave and respect your heart.
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Looked! It's over, it's fine.
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Sometimes forgetting is also a high quality!
The world is big, and there are all kinds of birds.
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