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Anonymous users2024-02-08I want to know about your past, but I strongly recommend that you don't be stupid and tell the truth and everything! Although guys sometimes say that they don't care about your past and only care about your future, there is absolutely no benefit if you tell him about you and your ex! He will imagine what you have done before, how it will compare to what you have done before, and so on.
This only affects feelings. There are many couples who can't go on because they are too honest and too frank to go on in the end......So I suggest that you can talk to him about your past, but with some reservations. Even a little bit of a white lie about the good of you both will do
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Is that what you ask? This is a serious issue and cannot be sloppy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Isn't that the membrane? I don't feel it when I exert myself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05It is best not to talk about feelings and feelings between boys and girls, even if the other party asks, it is only a vague brush, such a topic is too sensitive, and it is easy to make the other party feel uncomfortable.
Some people believe that in love, you should be honest with each other and don't need to hide anything. But some people think that being too frank is easy to ruin feelings.
Psychologists summarize the question of "whether you should confess to the other person" as the contradiction between openness and closure in love.
Falling in love often requires opening up to increase intimacy between two people, but being too open can make the relationship fragile.
I once saw such a topic on a post: What should I do if I was asked "How many times have you been in love?"
Because for those with a rich love history, this may be a send-off proposition.
Telling the truth will cause dissatisfaction with the object, and fabricating facts can easily lose trust.
Sometimes cleverly avoiding difficult taboo topics is also a skill to manage a relationship.
Don't think that you can accept his past experience, he will definitely be able to accept your past, understand the differences in thinking between men and women, and try to run in a way that can effectively communicate with each other, otherwise it is really the same chicken and duck in many cases.
Try not to be verbally violent, not to make too much fun of the other person, not to criticize the other person too much.
In fact, many things between couples are the same as getting along with people, don't be unscrupulous because of the relationship between two people, generally speaking, Lu Xunji will not make each other angry.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you are not stupid, you will be excited, it is a banquet to accompany your first love, <>
Two aspects: one is good, because in today's society, this kind of man is rare, should be cherished, he may not know how to fall in love, but this does not mean that he does not love you, this kind of man will generally hide his love deep in his heart and not show it, because he may feel embarrassed, will think that you should be able to understand! >>>More
In fact, men need their own space more than women, they have a strong sense of self-esteem, some men don't want their beloved women to worry about themselves, they want to carry their own, which is understandable. In fact, their psychological pressure is sometimes greater than that of us women, of course, in the eyes of two people who love each other, they should be honest and shared, but this is just a woman's opinion, a man may be drunk and will lean on your back to you to confide in his inner sorrow, but in ordinary times he will smile at you, say to you It's okay, okay, don't think too much, etc., I think if you love your boyfriend, you should care about him from the details and don't interrogate him, oh, ask too much, he may be annoyed, Maybe one day at some point, he will find that there is a you who has been silently supporting him by his side.
You say that the earth is moving every day, not to mention the world, you can him, the world is moving every day, but we don't feel it personally.
When something like this happens, it's always the girl who gets hurt. You have to recognize whether the boy you are talking about really loves you, the boy is more impulsive, but if he really loves you, he should be able to learn to cherish you, know how to love you, and respect your ideas, if he really breaks up with you because you don't want to have further relationships with him, then, is such a boy really what you need? So, give him what you think, here, you can only give you advice, just hope you don't get hurt. >>>More
It's okay to be in love, as long as your girlfriend really loves you, if you have developed too much when you were in love before, it is natural to mind. If you become more and more mindful after getting along, then it is better to leave. If you can't get over yourself, you won't make your girlfriend happy.