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I think many people will feel very sad when they see this question. In today's society, the phenomenon of comparison is very serious. Especially in many colleges and universities, there are many people who have swollen faces and become fat
In fact, the parents lived a very hard life, were very frugal in many ways, and gave all the money they saved to their children so that they could concentrate on going to college. Some people use their money on the right side, while some people squander it all unscrupulously, and people with a little conscience will feel a little uncomfortable, and even more so, they don't have a sense of guilt, and they take it for granted.
I don't know about other people's parents, but my own parents, I know how frugal they are. Nutrition experts say that it is best not to eat leftovers, saying that leftovers have such and such bacteria, which can also cause cancerBut my parents never wasted a single meal, they said that wasting food was sin, and they said that they had eaten the leftovers of a lifetime and it was fine. Now that life is better, some experts have come out to fool people.
In their poor times, they could not even eat coarse grains, and it was common for them to go to the fields to dig wild vegetables. And now there are white flour steamed buns, rice and millet, but people don't know how to cherish them. So, I didn't strongly ask them to throw away the leftovers, because I knew that for them, they wouldThe quality of thrift and thrift will never be lost.
Actually, my parents are living in good conditions now. In addition to having a regular income from their own farmland, they also do some small businesses every year. Even so, they are still reluctant to add an extra piece of clothing for themselves
Every time I said I wanted to buy them clothes, they said no, no, they have it. Actually, I know that their clothes are from a few years ago. I bought it for them on my own initiativeIf they heard that the price was cheaper, it would be fine, as long as they heard that the price was hundreds, they insisted that I return the clothes.
So, I'm smart now, and no matter what kind of clothes I buy, I say very little about the price.
The appliances and furniture in the house are outdated, and the TV has been repaired twice, but my parents are still reluctant to replace them. I'd rather drive my little tricycle to a repair shop to fix it myself than let me pay for a new one for them。As for us, she is very generous, often telling us, if something is not good, don't want it, and buy a new one!
When I go to a restaurant with them, they always look at the ** on the menu carefully and never order expensive ones. One of the things my mother used to say was: I don't like meat.
In fact, it's not that she doesn't like meat, but when she was young, her life was not so rich, and she was used to buying a little meat for me and my younger siblings to eat. And sometimes she doesn't even taste a bite.
By the time I got to this point, I was in tears, and I couldn't write anymore. Although I am writing about my parents, they also represent the majority of parents. I just want to advise those college students who like to compare, and some gnawing old people, are you really embarrassed to take their hard-earned money out and squander?
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My ancestors were poor peasants for many generations, until my father, who was too.
But when the rice planted on the farmland could not support the family, he worked as a construction worker, worked as a plumber, and relied on his own labor and professional skills to feed us and support the family.
And for families with little income, frugality has become a habit that must be cultivated.
And to what extent is thrift?
Let's give you some examples.
Maybe many girls now have the habit of shopping, especially ** just take a look, you have to buy and buy, you can receive more than a dozen express delivery a day. Not to mention that when festivals such as Double 11 appear, either they are receiving express delivery, or they are waiting for express delivery ......And the clothes and cosmetics I bought may have been bought, but I have never worn them or used ......them
But Mom and Dad never have that kind of situation. Their clothes are always outdated, and, most likely, what they wear now, is the same clothes that they have been wearing for years, they have not bought a new one, they will be mended when they are broken, they will be worn for three years, three years of sewing, another three years, a few pieces ......of clothing, and they will be worn for many years
The image of Andy Lau in watching the movie and being orphaned is also very similar to the father in the impression, the clothes he wears are old and outdated, and they will always be the sneakers, because they are durable, because they are cheap, they will never consider whether it is Nike or Adi, and they don't pay attention to ......the brand at all
As for eating, sometimes, it is ordinary porridge and mustard, which can be regarded as breakfast, lunch, and dinner, because it is cheap, and of course sometimes it will be dry rice, after all, it is manual labor, and you need to eat enough to have the strength to work......
And travel, if you can walk to the one, you will never take the bus, if you can sit on the bus for two dollars, you will never take a ride, and even, take him to the big city to play during the New Year, and use the taxi software to have discounts, he found that the original taxi can also be like this, usually he is too expensive to sit ......
Correspondingly, not to mention tourism. My parents have never traveled to **, and they have never even left this small city ......
There are often people on the Internet who say that your parents are still reluctant, but you are showing off poetry and distance, in fact, I deeply empathize with ......If you work harder, have more ability, and earn more, your parents need to be so frugal ......
The reason why we can walk easily is because someone is carrying the weight for us, for example, our parents ......
Hopefully, your parents' thrift will be exchanged for your understanding and love, not the ...... that they are misers
Thank you to my parents for ......Hopefully, before my parents grow old, I can make their lives easier and happier......
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My parents were very frugal and never bought new clothes, and they hadn't bought new clothes for more than three years.
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I just remember that my parents bought a few pieces of clothes a year. For a whole year, when I was buying a house at home, my mother only bought me a new dress. also asked me to lie to my aunt, it was a card given to me to buy me.
As long as I'm not at home, they eat some greens. I can't even afford to buy meat dishes. Now the house debt has been paid off.
The socks are torn and still reluctant to throw them. Wear it again and again, in fact, there are already conditions, but you are reluctant. The money saved is for my child, and now I have to have a child, so I have to buy insurance for my child.
For our future. Every penny they save now is reserved for my children.
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Mom and Dad were born in the fifties, and they have been relatively poor since they were children, although they are better now, but they are still very thrifty, they are reluctant to throw away leftover meals, and they are reluctant to buy clothes during the New Year, and they are still wearing the clothes they bought a few years ago.
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My parents were so frugal that they could eat less, buy fewer shoes, wear fewer clothes, and have more patches. I don't buy a piece of clothing for the New Year for two or three years, and the clothes in the wardrobe are always those few pieces.
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My family is in the countryside, and the firewood and rice were divided by the production team according to the division of work at that time, and my family has many children, so the whole labor force is less, and the work is naturally less. On the one hand, my father took us to pick up grass and dry it to make up for the lack of firewood, and on the other hand, we had to eat less and let our children eat more. There are food stamps, you can go to the grain store than the city food stamps to exchange 2 catties of grain, at that time it seems that it is more cost-effective to change flour than rice, so my family all change flour, and then go to the field to pick Yelai, and flour, to some lard, very delicious.
And in order to make the lai more abundant, homemade salty rais, all of which are put there in a few jars and a few shortages, and you can eat and take it. I live in a big mansion handed down from my ancestors, and I travel by walking.
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A piece of clothing is worn for five years, and only those that are cheapest are eaten for meals. That is, a clove of garlic can be fried several times, and then water and electricity are very saving.
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When I was a child, there was a lack of material, and we five brothers and sisters, we never had a full meal in our memory, and after we got married, we changed to send them some food and drink, and bought holiday items for them during the New Year's holidays, and they saved every penny to the guarantee company.
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The leftovers we eat, my mother will eat by herself, make me new dishes to eat, he can wear a dress for several years, but every year he buys me new clothes, I think this is mother's love, I must be filial to her when I grow up.
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Mom and Dad can eat leftovers and not buy clothes, but it's all about giving me and my brother the best.
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They will never be able to spend money to buy themselves clothes or pay to eat at a restaurant. They can't eat well, they don't sleep well, they must make us live well.
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One summer, my mother bought the tofu and left it for a night. She felt that it was a pity to throw it away, so she fried it and ate it herself. It didn't take two hours for us to pull and vomit, and we immediately called a doctor.
The doctor took a look at it and said, acute gastroenteritis, immediate infusion. After three days of infusion, my mother was fine. My mom is such a person who doesn't want to waste anything, we really can't help it.
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People in my parents' generation were very frugal because they came through difficult times.
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I think most older people are thrifty and the main reasons are:
First, most of the elderly know that a happy life is not easy to come by, forming a good fashion of thrift and thrift, they have low requirements, as long as they are full of food and clothing, they give good things to their children and grandchildren, they work hard to supplement the vegetarian, leftovers as long as they do not change the taste will never be discarded, they have a high pension, but not extravagant and wasteful.
Second, most of the retired elderly, especially retired enterprises, compared with retired civil servants, teachers and military cadres, less than half of the income, but they are very content, thanks to the state every year to increase the pension, full and on time, only for life is no problem, afraid of illness to the hospital, usually must be saved, urgent search and reform can save lives, although money can not buy life, but can delay life, some children have low income, there are still Ken Lao people.
In short, the elderly are diligent and thrifty, and the compulsion of conditions is also an important reason for thrift.
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Parents are very frugal because they came from that difficult era, they don't have enough to eat, they don't have warm clothes, that's their personal experience, there is an unforgettable experience.
As soon as the republic was liberated, the country was in difficulty, and the people were also short of food and clothing, in that difficult era, there were things that starved people to death, in our country's public reports, we can all see, although it got better day by day, although there was no starvation of people, but the food was not enough to eat, the clothes were not enough to wear, the materials were short, food stamps were required for eating, cloth was required for cloth stamps, everything had to be based on votes, even matches were based on votes, with the beginning of reform and opening up, People's living standards have improved rapidly, food and clothing are not worried, and materials are abundant.
Although this is the case, the older generation who have experienced hardships will never forget that era, so they can save and use it, and they will always maintain that frugal style of life.
It is precisely because of their experience that they have not forgotten the suffering of the past, we must understand them, but also respect them, and the most important thing is that we should also create better living conditions for them, so that they can live a happier life in their old age!
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Parents are very frugal with each other, that's because they need to save money, if they are bored, they are guaranteed, and now saving money is to get married, buy a house, buy a car, etc., because there are many people who have a lot of money, they all feel that they need to work on their own to get money, so money should be very valuable.
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1.Most parents grew up with a harder life and were more frugal because they were aware of and respected the importance of money.
2.Most of my parents grew up in a period of relative economic hardship, and money was not as abundant as it is now, so they had to manage their personal finances more carefully.
3.The financial ability of the parents' generation may be relatively limited, so they need to cherish every penny more and not spend it easily.
4.Parents usually have better financial habits and know how to save money for future life rather than spending it easily.
5.The parents' concept of life is relatively simple, and compared with today's young people, they are more tolerant of Yuyi to control their consumption desires, and will not squander money in pursuit of a luxurious lifestyle.
6.Parents may have certain experience and skills in financial management and investment, and can increase their wealth through investment and other means, and further improve their economic strength.
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I think that the frugality of parents is formed from the good habit of shouting Liang Haoyun planning by friends in life.
Therefore, we should also develop a good habit of frugality, truly open source and reduce expenditure, so that our life is more planned, and the infiltration cavity can also make our life independent and become a better self.
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